Chapter 30 The Psychiatrist Who Does Not Take the Unconventional Way
Psychologists are a very unfamiliar word for weekends. In another world he is familiar with, such people are no longer resisted by people. But this kind of person is as arrogant as it is specially prepared for those rich people. It is rare to hear that ordinary people go to a psychological counseling center to chat for an hour. Most of the time, they choose to invite a few confidants to take a few sips, curse a few words, and vent...
However, after experiencing all the things last night on the weekend, he made up his mind to meet the psychologist. Because he had been in the United States for the first time in more than a year since he came to the United States. With his negative emotions and wanton thoughts, his whole body began to become impatient, and his mind was filled with all kinds of anger, instead of cursing a casual verbal "I want to kill him" to vent.
You should know that such things are not scary at all. The scary part lies in thinking!
Thinking is the driving force of everything. If you don’t want to, you won’t fly into the sky; if you don’t want to, everything will become simple, but he thought about it, and he was still very detailed.
So, I took a morning leave on the weekend and drove from Los Angeles alone to a psychological counseling center near Beverly Hills to meet a psychiatrist with a double master's degree in psychiatry and psychology. The price of the doctor is $500 per hour. The reason why I spent so much money to meet a psychiatrist on the weekend is that his medical insurance has 100% reimbursement of psychological counseling fees.
In the United States, 30% of people will regularly consult psychologists, and more than 80% will meet psychologists from time to time. The probability of police meeting psychologists is 100%. Even former US President Clinton and Hillary were in an embarrassing environment when the pornographic news exploded, so they chose to meet psychologists. On this land, psychologists are not a nightmare. Going to see psychologists is like going to the hospital to treat a cold and going to the church to find a priest to confess.
"Mr. Zhou, you're here too early. It's your turn to have fifteen minutes left. Why not wait while drinking coffee?"
When I stepped into the clinic on the weekend and checked the time at the front desk service center, a smiling lady said this to him very kindly. Then, the lady walked out of the front desk and personally brought the weekend to a more private space to make a cup of coffee for him.
This is a room that is so empty that there is only one chair. The coffee is placed in the cup slot on the armrest of the house chair. The sound insulation in the room is very good and looks very quiet. Here. Anyone can sit on that chair and think about any problems they may face.
Strangely, I didn't think about anything on the weekend, looked up at the ceiling with my neck tilted down and felt the comfort brought by this silence, and I gradually felt sleepy.
It's so strange. For ordinary people, this empty room is like a cage, like the interrogation room of the police station. Here, all negative emotions in their hearts will constantly impact their thoughts in a quiet environment, otherwise it wouldn't be necessary to see a psychologist. But on weekends... I really fell asleep leaning on it, sleeping soundly, and I didn't have much effort when I closed my eyes...
When, when, when, when.
The knock on the door sounded, and the sound of the weekend turned her eyelids and then slowly straightened her body, turned her head to look at the lady who had opened the door and was smiling slightly.
"Mr. Zhou, you are the first person to fall asleep in this room. I have come to me (expressed surprise)." The lady continued: "Dr. Johnson is waiting for you..."
"OK."
I didn’t think anything was wrong on the weekend, wasn’t it just a short time to sleep?
When I stood up and followed the lady to another room at the end of the corridor. On the weekend, the lady opened the door and saw a large room. This room was not at a loss. The bookcase, office desk, the sofa opposite the desk and the various chairs next to it all looked very comfortable. Take the placement of the bookcase and the desk. The bookcase standing around the wall did not simply surround the desk and made people feel the doctor's erudition, but surrounded the entire environment, forming a relatively gentle range. This fragrance of books can scent people to consciously and automatically pay attention to their behavior...
"Dr. Johnson, Mr. is here on the weekend."
"welcome."
This psychologist did not show aggressive enthusiasm, nor did he refuse others to be cold from thousands of miles away. His extremely moderate attitude was like a man asking for directions one meter away from you, which not only maintained a safe distance but also reflected his cultivation.
The lady slowly closed the door, and when the room was left with the psychologist, "Sit down."
Nodded on weekends, showed a polite smile, and walked to the sofa to sit down.
The doctor was not wearing a lab coat, and the white shirt and overalls straps made people feel very formal, especially the gold-framed glasses on the bridge of the nose. You will feel that this is a learned but cowardly nerd. You will not feel any aggressiveness on him.
"Mr. Zhou, you should not have any symptoms of insomnia or excessive worry, right? People with long-term insomnia can easily see that worry is the initiator of insomnia. Obviously, you do not have these two points. So, what is your purpose this time?"
I found that Dr. Johnson had no cases on his hands on the weekend, and he was making judgments based on experience with his empty hands: "I, I often have some thoughts that scare me recently."
"I'm listening, please continue." He picked a hand from a bunch of chairs. The pure black and unevenly fancy chair was placed in front of the weekend. When he sat down, he didn't expect the weekend to cut off the topic.
"It's over."
The doctor sat in front of the weekend and did not show anything when he heard the word. Even though he was surprised, he still started another topic and said: "Mr. Zhou, are you married?"
Shaking your head over the weekend.
"Where is the girlfriend?"
“Where is the fixed-sexual-partner?”
"Is there any physical problem?"
"What about the number of times of hand-lust? How many times can it be achieved in weeks?"
When I saw that I kept shaking my head over the weekend, the doctor said with great affirmation: "Mr. Zhou, aren't you curious?"
"What?" This time it was the weekend's turn and was stunned.
"First of all, you are definitely not g-a-y, and secondly, there is no problem with your health. As a normal man, don't you yearn for women... I mean, don't you want women?"
"Uh..." What is the treatment method?
There is no formal answer on the weekend.
The doctor began to analyze himself and said, "I am 37 years old and have a wife at home. She is very beautiful. She is the kind of person who can make you think about it just by looking at your lips. But after seven years of marriage, no, to be precise, three years later, I began to pay attention to all kinds of beauties in Beverly Hills wearing stockings. It's not that I don't love my wife, but I still have the urge to other women."
"And you?"
I was stupid on the weekend.
When he first came to the United States, he would still feel uncomfortable with his colleagues going to the bar to find a more casual foreign girl to vent, and even had this idea in his early days when he came to Los Angeles... But when a beauties like Leonova and Penelope appeared in his own world, he could see the beauty of the other person's appearance and the hot figure, but... he never thought about what would happen.
Dr. Johnson asked directly without waiting for his answer: "When did it start?"
I quickly explained on the weekend: "Doctor, when I was watching the paid channel at home..."
"I believe you have no physical problems, Mr. Zhou, but you have to tell me when you started, you slowly lost interest in these best things." Johnson did not accuse: "This is true for human life. We are all leaves falling with the wind. Whether it is more exciting or stable in the falling process is their own choice. When you choose to give up the wonderful and stable fall, it is easier to control the landing position. When you give up the specific direction of falling, you have the wonderful under the wind."
"Mr. Zhou, sometimes we feel that giving up is a loss, but we don't know that while giving up, there will always be something else appearing instead, such as the thoughts in your mind that scare you."
Adam!
This gloomy name appeared in the depths of the weekend's mind again. Since Adam appeared, he seemed to have been in a state of tension. Even if Adam died, this tension did not disappear.
Could it be that during this period of time, I lost my desire and made all kinds of messy thoughts constantly appear in my mind?
Dr. Johnson stood up and took out a document from his desk: "Mr. Zhou, this is an affiliated confidentiality agreement. If you want to communicate with me in a deeper way and are afraid of revealing anything, you can sign this agreement with me. With this thing, I will refuse the court's summons, even if you are unforgivable."
"Not that serious." Zhou Zu said, but his hand reached out, took the document and looked carefully.
Chapter completed!