Chapter 143 I am a person who has passed

February 8, 1986, the thirty year of the lunar calendar.

At this time of year, no matter how busy it is, Chinese people will put down their work. The whole family will surround the dining table, talk about the past, trace history, or plan for the next year, and look forward to the future. The same is true for Li Siming. The company was on vacation two days ago. Although it received a large number of orders, if it still insists on normal production at this time, it seems a bit unkind. The company claims to be humane, so it is still on holiday for the New Year, especially when the company has more than 60% of its people, homes are outside the city.

Like in previous years, in addition to enjoying a sumptuous New Year’s Eve dinner, the whole family is also a great enjoyment to watch the Spring Festival Gala on TV. Chinese people have formed a habit. If there is no Spring Festival Gala in one year, then they will feel that something is missing.

On this night, Chen Peisi and Zhu Shimao's sketch "Mutton Skewers" made the people laugh. Li Siming lived together for three generations and enjoyed the wonderful programs around the TV.

Li Siming felt very happy. In his previous life, he was alone, and his whole family was not hungry. During the holidays, he could only join in the fun at his old comrades' home. He could be said to be a "poor person". It is different now. He cared about his parents who loved him, had a beloved wife, and this year he also had a son born in the year of the Ox. His career seemed to be successful.

Comrade Li Xiaoming was very excited tonight and seemed to feel the difference tonight. When he saw the adults staring at the TV and laughing, he also laughed. God knows what he was thinking. He was taken back by his mother during the day. After accidentally wetting the new clothes of Xu Jiao, who was two months older than him, was driven back and she would tease the little girl at a young age. Xu Dashuai and his wife did not return anywhere during the Spring Festival this time, and took their parents to Shenzhen to celebrate the New Year together, and they were even more of a big family.

"Aming, discuss something with you." Yang Yue held her son and said to Li Siming sitting beside her.

"If it weren't for the matter of life, don't use the word 'negotiation', I can't afford it." Li Siming teased his son.

"For the New Year, no one thinks you are a mute if you say something unlucky, "If you don't say anything, no one will think you are a mute." Unexpectedly, my father, who had been staring at the TV, said he would blame him.

"Dad, in front of your grandson, my son, please pay attention to the tone of your speech to avoid adverse effects." Li Siming used his son as a shield.

"You kid, I'm too lazy to talk about you." The father stopped talking.

"You can't say a few words?" Yang Yueji pinched his waist invisibly, "Since the word 'discussion' is not needed, then I'll inform you that after the holiday, I'll go back to work."

"Okay, then I wish you a smooth work!" Li Siming said, "It's not that my son is not without someone to take care of him, you will know your blessing!"

"Yes, Xiaoyue, Xiao Ming has me, so don't worry." Li Siming's mother interrupted.

"Look, our whole family supports you in the great cause of joining the news front. What other disagreements do you have?" Li Siming said.

"I have an objection to you, well, I can't call it any opinion. Anyway, after I go to work, I spend less time with my son. You should spend more time with me in the future." Yang Yue said.

"I spend every night with my son, but they just slept soundly and ignored me." Li Siming said with a smile. Seeing that Yang Yue was not satisfied with his answer, he changed his words, "In fact, it is not conducive to his son's healthy growth when he is coaxed like this."

"What do you think you should do?"

"If there is an old family, if there is a treasure, our family has two treasures." Li Siming also praised his parents. He forgot that his parents spoiled their children more. This intergenerational education is not so scientific. "Just be content. I don't want to say that family is more important than career, nor do I want to delay your career future. Now it is a new society, and it is enough to pay attention to equality between men and women. Just be more at ease. Don't be like your father!"

"What's wrong with my dad?" Yang Yue was dissatisfied.

"How many times have he called our house since he came to Shenzhen last time? It would be okay to express his condolences, but the progress of urging me to work is wrong. Today is New Year's Eve, and I keep urging me. I don't know, I thought the landlord took advantage of the New Year to force debts, and our family didn't have Xier. No, your surname is Yang! Yang Bailao is much more awesome than Huang Shiren these days!" Li Siming used this to express his serious dissatisfaction, "If you can mortgage you, I won't suffer any loss."

Yang Yue smiled with her lips pursed, and Li Siming's expression was as aggrieved as a young wife.

"Don't complain, this means that my dad attaches importance to you and don't act like a good person when he is cheap." Yang Yue said with a smile, "In my dad's eyes, you are more valued than me!"

"Is that true?" Li Siming pretended to be deaf and dumb, "Why didn't I feel it?"

On the first day of the Lunar New Year, Xu Dashuai's family of three, plus his parents, and a total of seven people, came to Li Siming's house to visit. This time, the house seemed too small. Children liked the New Year's Day the most because they could get New Year's money. Xu Jiao and Li Xiaoming made money this time, but these two little kids didn't know what money was, and they would be torn apart if they were not careful.

"Good luck, our Xiao Ming took advantage. Your parents and your parents-in-law paid all the money, and they promised it!" Li Siming joked that his son got two portions of money, deducted the portion given to Xu Jiao by his parents, and earned one.

"Just be happy, isn't it just this little money, you still care?" Xu Dashuai said with a smile, it doesn't matter.

"I think this is really hypocritical. Generally speaking, if you give me money to my children, I give you money to you, and I will pay you money to get it back and forth, or go back to your own pocket. The children are not happy anymore, and after working for a long time, they are all decorations and don't get any benefits."

"Then don't put the money in your pocket, wouldn't that be?" Xu Li interrupted.

"Fresh, New Year's money is also money. You can rest assured that your Xu Jiao will carry so much money in the future?" Li Siming said, "So, parents always say that saving money for their children is just an excuse."

"It's rare, you're so thoughtful about this matter." Xu Li said with a smile.

"The ancients said that if you don't do anything if you are not in your position, you will naturally think too much about it. This is also impossible. If not, why would many foreigners rather not have children?" Li Siming said, "You can save a lot of money. Why didn't my parents have more children back then? It would not be my turn to do the honorary task of passing on the family line in that way. Just like the Dashuai family, isn't it good to have a large group of brothers and sisters? Maybe my father had long foreseeed that the country would carry out family planning and contribute to the country in advance!"

"I won't comment on this." The handsome man said with a smile. He found that Yang Yue was very angry and the consequences were very serious.

"He is just a quarrel. Don't take him seriously when he doesn't talk about serious things!" Yang Yue said, "Sometimes, he looks like he's enlightened."

Li Siming is used to joking. If he talks about his mental age, he has passed middle age long ago, but his mentality is still very young. Maybe he will have to wait until his son grows up before he can really change. It is precisely because of this that being with him will never be too boring. He is always an optimistic person. He will change his ways to make life full of vitality when dealing with people whom he loves so much. And unlike Dashang, he is a person who knows romance, which makes Yang Yue feel his most passionate love all the time, just like the sweetness and fragrance when he first got married.

The difference between the great man in the 1980s, men have not learned what romance is. In the eyes of many people, those romantic things should be criticized and at least they should keep a distance. But the times always move forward without stopping because we like it, nor will they accelerate because we don’t like it. Time is the most ruthless weapon. It smashes some things and brings other things. This new thing will always be cheered by some people, despised by others, and even saddened by others.

"In a few days, I want to go to Hong Kong!" Dashuai watched the two children humming on the sofa, and the two young mothers were teasing around. The older generation was either busy cooking in the kitchen or chatting on the side. It was very warm, but lawless: the younger generation was enjoying the fruits, while the older generation was busy.

"Just go, I need my approval?" Li Siming said.

"It's a private matter." said Dashuai, "It's all your fault! Otherwise, I won't have to go. All work in the company will be expanded at a faster pace after the Spring Festival. Time is very precious."

"What's the matter that makes you frown, it's still related to me?" Li Siming said, "Tell me, see if I can help."

"It's just the wedding photos you took with Yang Yue. Xiaoli mentioned them many times in my ears. She insisted that I and her take a re-shoot. I have all my children, so why are you taking some more!" Xu Dashuai was very depressed, "You said you took some wedding photos back then? Just take a two-inch wedding photo!"

"You don't understand this, what is romance? Romance is to waste money and make time long. This is my summary of experience, I'll give it to you." Li Siming said with a smile, "Besides, what does my wife and I have to do with you couples?"

"You are always very passionate about foreigners' styles, and you can't find hardships and simplicity." Xu Dashuai said, "If you are a pauper, I see how you become romantic."

"You don't understand this. To grasp the heart of a woman, you must understand romance. There is a lot of knowledge here. The rich have the romantic methods of the rich, and the poor have the romantic methods of the poor. As long as it comes from the heart, it is worth remembering." Li Siming boasted. He leaned into the handsome man's ear, avoided the two women, and said softly, "I am a person who has experienced it. Do you want me to teach you a few tricks? I can cure the problem of strict trachea quickly."

When Shuai Xu heard this, he was so angry that he was most afraid of others saying that he had a "wife's strict control". Li Siming also felt strange. How could such a handsome, tall and outstanding man get this disease? It's really a pity! Maybe they are having fun secretly?

"How old are you, someone who has experienced it?" Xu Dashuai said, "Are you afraid of your tongue flashing when you say this?"

"Don't be excited. As your most loyal friend, it is my duty to give you advice. If I don't help you, I won't help anyone. Although I can't save you from dire straits, I can give you some advice.

First, I will introduce the best wedding shop in Hong Kong. This person, Azhi, is the store opened by his sister who is a good reporter. As long as you couple go, I will find the feeling of first love again. Xu Li will take whatever she wants to take, and take as many sets as she wants to take. You are not short of money, and you can't show impatientness. You have to look very happy, very enthusiastic and happy. Of course, the best one comes from the bottom of your soul.

Second, when you are at work, you usually take the time to call your wife's unit and greet you, such as, 'Hey, Xiaoli, have you been interviewing for lunch outside?' For example,, 'Hey, Xiaoli, should you pick it up when it rains?' When your wife heard your affectionate greetings, she was moved to tears.

Third, next month is March 8th. This woman’s festival must not be too careless. It should be used as a wedding anniversary and send someone to send a bouquet of flowers. That would be great. If there is no Shenzhen, it would be too touching if it costs a lot of money to send it from Hong Kong. So romance is a waste of money and makes time long. Others, such as the anniversary of the meeting, the engagement anniversary, the wedding anniversary, and the wife’s birthday, will also be handled accordingly.

As long as I do the above three points, I will make your status at home change dramatically. Maybe it will be a long time since the serf becomes the master!"

Li Siming said three things in a casual manner, and felt very good and proud. He didn't notice that he was very gossipy.

"You're very reasonable." Shuai Xu's eyes shone, and he agreed very much, and cooperated with him, "Hao, it's really high!"

"Of course, didn't our company commander say that back then? Thousands of educated youth in Daxing have the best brains!" Li Siming was content, "Besides, you are the white bone spirit in our company. Helping you is helping me!"

"Bone Demon? You are the Bone Demon!" Xu Dashuai cursed with a smile.

"That's right. In large foreign companies, aren't those who are called 'white-collar workers', 'backbone' and 'elites' combined, just 'Bone Demons'?" Li Siming said with a smile.

"If you want to say that, so are you!" Xu Dashuai then realized that the so-called "Bone Demon" is like this, "Why do you always have so many new words?"

"This is the difference between us!" Li Siming said, "Career is very important, and we are willing to work hard for it. But in fact, there are many fun things in it. What is important is that we cannot make career the opposite of our family."

"Then have you found a balance? Let's hear it!"

"To be honest, I'm looking for this balance point, having a wife and a child, this small family is a new thing for me!"
Chapter completed!