684 Handover
On the surface, people are getting married later and later, which eventually makes marriage no longer popular; but in fact, this is because human beings psychologically need more than opposite-sex love. People just need the same kind, and this has nothing to do with gender.
Doesn't matter.
Since human beings psychologically need the same kind of people, marriage does not necessarily meet this need.
Obviously, people of the same sex are naturally more similar. Since the psychological dependence of the same sex will sooner or later replace the love of the opposite sex. Why don’t we all just marry people of the same sex and form a lively big family with brothers or sisters of the same sex, and everyone will always live together?
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This is how history develops.
Since ancient times, if a few of the families composed of the opposite sex have achieved emotional happiness and satisfied their psychological needs, it is a coincidence.
Because for most people, marriage first meets "economic" needs.
The family composed of marriage is the basic social structure for the birth and raising of children. Before China implemented a socialized parenting system, marriage was the only option to ensure that human beings would not become extinct rapidly in both physical and cultural aspects.
To put it bluntly, the family formed by marriage is an economic structure. It has little to do with love. The men and women who form the family, as well as their families of origin, are closer to a relationship of common cause. When both men and women invest equally,
A subordinate is similar to a colleague; and in the case of a disparity in investment, it is close to a superior or subordinate. In the families of ancient kings, the monarch had many wives who were also his subordinates.
Marriage uses economic conditions to ensure that the joint offspring of both parties will be born and grow up with abundant materials. They will be well-nourished and will not be short of food and clothing. They will even provide various materials and skills for the continuation of future generations.
Since ancient times, the marriage relationship is related to the survival or extinction of human beings, so it is of great significance.
With the industrialization of society, marriage has been gradually eroded.
The great division of labor in society has replaced the gender division of labor within the family, and the family's economic allocation ability between the two gender groups in society has gradually failed. The marriage rate and birth rate have also continued to decrease.
It has brought a population crisis to eastern Asia, including China.
This is the inevitable result of the contradiction between backward social systems and population reproduction.
After socialized upbringing, the foundation of marriage completely collapsed.
Human beings in China no longer need this backward economic structure to raise children.
Under advanced social systems, people take the future of civilization as a whole and consider the birth, education, and development of future generations. Children are raised better than in any previous era.
There is a nursery for giving birth, a social care system for raising children, and a sworn system for psychological and emotional needs.
Marriage has become a relic of the old era, used to enshrine some unrealistic dreams.
In today's era, getting married is a matter of emotion, while not getting married is the norm.
The average age at marriage in China is close to sixty; and the average length of marriage is one and a half years.
If Lan Ze and Zhang He were to separate like this, they would never be able to marry anyone else.
It is rare for lovers to stay together forever.
Both of them are no longer hormonally driven young men in their twenties; which means they no longer easily dive into passion.
"Will we never see our sister again?" Xiaomai looked at her mother, and then at her brother Douzi who was strolling aside.
"Dad, can we see you?" Douzi turned around and asked his father.
Lanze replied: "Well, of course. When my sister comes out, my mother will let her talk to you. But we can't play together all day."
"It's not a big deal." Douzi told Xiaomai, "It's not like we're separated by life or death."
Douzi Zhang Langang’s classmate ruined the atmosphere a bit.
With him bouncing around among the brothers, no one felt sad anymore.
In fact, this is the separation of life and death.
Having said that, when people in ancient times were hundreds of miles away from home, they would have an impassioned farewell to life and death with the realization that they might never come back in this life.
Today's people, as long as they are still on the earth, are no different from being at home.
The five boys in the family have all played on the moon. Therefore, there is nothing wrong with Douzi's performance.
The orbital height that the new moon currently occupies is much closer to the ground than the moon. It will be several years before it is further away from the moon.
Mom, dad, and their five older brothers, after saying goodbye to their little sister, left the nursery and walked around the city for another day.
They visited a video game museum full of history. The children were quite interested in this place, since they were all there to play.
From the original big box-like display screen to the old version of the somatosensory cabin from a few years ago, Lan Ze suddenly remembered that since he started raising his own children and became a father wholeheartedly, he had never played with somatosensory equipment.
When I moved to Northwest Airlines, the large motion-activated toys I had saved at home were still lost at my original home.
Playing happily like a child seems to have happened in his previous life. Real growth is probably always due to responsibility.
The family went home after dinner.
The children returned to their familiar surroundings. They were not at all sad about the imminent separation. Except for Mai, who was not happy to stay on the ground, the three older children were even a little excited.
Douzi didn't leave either. I don't know where his excitement came from. It made no sense.
All Zhang He has to do in the next few days is to say goodbye to his friends.
No matter which angle you look at it, it looks a bit like laying out the funeral arrangements.
When Xiao Mu came to class, Zhang He called Xiao Mu outside with Lan Ze's consent.
Not far outside her home, surrounded by snow, is her small workshop.
The small workshop was full of Zhang He's treasures. Except for a very few, it was impossible to take these personal belongings with her on the Crescent. The machine tools and machining centers were just big iron lumps weighing tons. She stacked them on the
Many of the raw materials used for playing on the wall are literal lumps of metal.
The things in the workshop are very important.
Several of the most valuable equipment were bought by Lan Ze, but Lan Ze was really not interested in this kind of machinery. His hands-on interest was limited to electronics, and he already felt like he was playing a big game by stacking a few computing arrays.
In terms of spending money, his playing with arrays is definitely bigger than Zhang He's playing with machines.
Zhang He opened the door of the small workshop, but no one entered.
In the constant-temperature workshop, hot air gushes out and turns into white mist, like fairy energy.
Xiao Mu looked inside: "Instructor Zhang, is this...?"
"This place will be put under your control from now on, including all the equipment."
Among the acquaintances Zhang He could find, Xiao Mu was the most suitable person to take over the small workshop.
Zhang Lulian will follow her to the new moon. Old Sister K is no longer young.
Although Xiao Mu’s math foundation is not very good.
Chapter completed!