Chapter 575 How to be a good father
"It turns out that asking you for advice is the most correct decision." Cheng Feng said with emotion.
It can be said that the suggestions given by Kang Yu and the others have basically solved the problems he is facing now.
"I want me to tell you, Afeng, you are so tired, and your mentality has not been adjusted well. Some things are too anxious and take too seriously, which makes you so tired." Li Chen said without hesitation.
Things will definitely be met, but if the mentality is different, the result will be completely different. Not to mention anything else, at least when doing things, the pressure will not be so great and people will be in a much better mood.
"Stop! I have drunk a lot of these chicken soups. If I drink them, I will have indigestion. Keep your big principles first and tell your son later!" Cheng Feng hurriedly spoke and stopped Li Chen from continuing.
Do you really think he doesn’t know anything? Do you still need someone to teach him?
In fact, even if Li Chen did not remind him, he himself realized that he was too anxious and did not adjust his mentality, which made him so bad now.
"Look at this guy, I won't let anyone talk about it." Li Chen couldn't help laughing when he heard this.
However, Cheng Feng was able to realize that the problems he had could not have been better. This was much more useful than how they preached.
What they are most worried about is that Cheng Feng has problems himself, but he still doesn't know how to find problems from himself, but instead pushes all the mistakes to others. The problem is much more serious than meeting teammates of pigs.
"That's for sure. Who likes to be preached and is about to be a father, let alone." Wang Hong teased.
This has always been like this since childhood and I hate others' preaching.
However, Cheng Feng is just stubborn in his mouth. In fact, as long as it is right, Cheng Feng will remember it in his heart after hearing it and quietly change it.
"Okay, since Afeng knows it, let's go through this matter like this. Let's discuss what day to meet up." Kang Yu said with a change of topic.
"Just make an appointment this Saturday." Wang Hong thought about it.
"Remember to prepare more seafood." Li Chen asked without hesitation.
"Don't worry, I'll let you enjoy it when the time comes." Kang Yu responded.
"If I really want to eat seafood, I am still quite indifferent. When I went to Xingxing Island, I ate seafood seriously and enjoyed it." Cheng Feng recalled.
You can go to the sea to eat whatever you want, it is fresh and delicious.
Thinking of eating Chengfeng, he felt a little hungry, so he said, "I can't say that I'm eating. When I say that I'm hungry, I'll go get some cake to eat."
"I'll get it, what do you all want to eat?" Li Chen responded.
"Get some egg tart doughnuts and come and drink it with tea." Kang Yu thought about it.
"Okay, you guys wait a moment." As he said that, Li Chen got up and went downstairs to get food.
After Li Chen got up, Wang Hong sat down and continued to make tea.
"I want me to tell you, just drink milk tea and coffee. It's so easy to save you trouble and have to worry about making tea, which is troublesome." Cheng Feng said with emotion.
"I think the person who should make tea is you, who just grinds your anxious temperament." Kang Yu responded.
If you really want to make tea, it will take a lot of effort and can just hone a person's mind.
"Forget it, you know that when I was studying tea art, I had the worst grades." Cheng Feng said hurriedly.
It would be too tormenting to calm down and make tea slowly like a human being, with a very ritualistic sense.
"It seems that he can't change his impatient attitude." Seeing Cheng Feng's resistance, Wang Hong said with emotion.
Wouldn't you just make some tea? As for hiding so quickly.
He is such a brother-in-law. He is not only impatient, but also very lazy. He is too lazy to be too lazy.
"This is hard to say. When he becomes a father, he will change some things by himself." Kang Yuyi said with some reference.
Look at Cheng Feng’s recent transformation, a 180-degree turn, this is just the beginning, let alone after having a child, it is estimated that by then, it will change more.
"That's true." Wang Hong knew what Kang Yu said.
"You two are there again, why are you fighting a puzzle? Don't always say this, I can't understand what I can't understand." Cheng Feng looked at the two of them suspiciously.
Why did he have a feeling that these two people didn't say anything good?
"What do we mean? You will know when you become your father." Wang Hong replied.
"Tsk, use this to block me again. How can you know if you don't say it? I don't know?" Cheng Feng said unhappily.
As for saying that he doesn't think of it? It seems that he doesn't know how to be a father.
He has learned a lot about maternal and infant knowledge during this period, and he has not started to practice it yet.
"Then let me ask you, what should you do if the baby doesn't sleep at night?" Kang Yu asked.
"I'll probably fall asleep if I coax you." Cheng Feng thought about it.
Hearing Cheng Feng's answer, Kang Yu and Wang Hong couldn't help but laugh.
This answer is too naive. If the child is so easy to coax, then the parents will be too easy to be. Then it won’t be so hard for them to take care of the child.
"Hey, what should I do? Just tell me directly. Don't laugh there, okay?" Seeing those two people laughing so happily, Cheng Feng was a little anxious.
"I can't tell you how to deal with it specifically. You really have to meet it yourself before you know what to do." Wang Hong replied.
Babies in each family are different. Some methods are useful to their own babies. If they are babies from other families, they may not be useful.
Not to mention, every parent has a different idea of raising children. There is no standard solution, and it depends on the parents themselves to explore.
Otherwise, there wouldn't be a better saying for other people's children.
"Ah Hong is right. It's not that we don't tell you, but that even if we tell you, we will give you reference at most, and it may not be useful." Kang Yu said the truth.
"What's not necessarily useful?" Li Chen, who came back with the cake tart, was very curious when he heard this.
"We are talking about raising children." Kang Yu replied.
Seeing that Li Chen had a little more things in his hand, Kang Yu stood up and helped him take some.
"I'm teaching him the experience of being a father again." Li Chen understood it as soon as he heard this.
"The two of them said that their experience may not be useful to me. Do you think they are fooling me?" Cheng Feng asked.
"What they said is true. I learned from my sister before, how to take care of the children, but in the end, I didn't use my son, and I had to explore everything by myself." Li Chen said with certainty.
"I don't know what you said, and I don't know what will come in the future." Cheng Feng said distressedly.
He originally thought that Kang Yu and the others could tell him how to be a good father and give him a direction, but in the end he gave him such an ambiguous answer, which made him feel a little confused.
"Afeng has nothing to worry about. I have been so distressed like you before, worried that I can't take care of the baby well. But when I really held the baby, I had no trouble and I had only the idea of being a good father. Those I didn't know about it were later learned slowly, so Afeng, you don't have to worry about anything." Kang Yu comforted.
"Yes, as long as Afeng wants to be a good father, you will naturally learn anything." Wang Hong echoed.
"Believe in yourself, Afeng, be confident, you can become a good father." Li Chen agreed.
Chapter completed!