Chapter 50: The Standards for Measuring Men
"How is it? Has your knot been untied after saying that?" Zeng Ruo asked.
"It has been untied, and it feels much more comfortable to say what I have in my heart." Kang Yu said.
"You cannot hide all worries in your heart and have to vent them, otherwise people will not be able to bear it after a long time," Zeng Ruo said.
"Yes, I feel uncomfortable if I hold it in too much." Kang Yu sighed.
"Tell me about your wife." Zeng Ruo said.
"If Qingqing said that, she was a very independent, strong and kind woman, with a little temper and a little bit of a slight temper." Kang Yu made such an evaluation after recalling the contact with Mu Qing during this period.
"There are advantages and disadvantages." Zeng Ruo commented.
"Everyone has shortcomings, no one can be an exception, but it's just different from whether it can be accepted." Kang Yu said.
"And you choose to tolerate her shortcomings." Zeng Ruo said.
"She and I are husband and wife, aren't we?" Kang Yu said.
"What a good man! It's a pity that you already have a master." Zeng Ruo said.
"I am not the only good man in this world. You can still find it if you look carefully." Kang Yu asked.
"After meeting an excellent and good man like you, who do you think I will fall in love with?" Zeng Ruo said resentfully.
"That's not what it means. Whether a man is excellent or not is not entirely measured by the standard of having money or not. For a woman, what is more important is whether she can find a man who is truly willing to treat you well, rather than simply measuring it with material things." Kang Yu said.
"That's because you have the confidence to say such things. If it were a man who couldn't even support himself, would you expect him to give the person he loved? Otherwise, there wouldn't be the saying that would make a living first and then love." Zeng Ruo said.
"I just think everything is not necessary so absolute. You can't expect a man to have everything from the beginning. After all, wealth takes time and process to accumulate and possess.
I don't deny that some people have everything from the beginning, but most of them are basically given by their parents, not earned by their own hands.
If you really want to measure whether a man is good or not, you should look at his character, whether he is ambitious or not, rather than simply looking at everything he has at the moment. After all, people will have lows and unsatisfactory times." Kang Yudao.
"You are talking about yourself." Zeng Ruo said.
"It's not just about myself, everyone has their own potential, it's just about whether they can discover it. So it's too one-sided to judge everything just by looking at the beginning. After all, no one knows what will happen in the future." Kang Yu said.
"You can see it very thoroughly." Zeng Ruo said.
"You will naturally understand after you experience it a lot." Kang Yu said.
"I really doubt my charm in front of you." Zeng Ruo said.
"Why do you say that? Are you quite charming?" Kang Yu asked in confusion.
"But why can't I tempt you?" Zeng Ruo said.
"If you say me, then you don't have to doubt yourself. I just know what I want and know how to keep myself clean. And even if you choose, you are not suitable for me, and you also know that we cannot do it. Besides, isn't it good for us to be confidants and friends?" Kang Yu said.
"It is also if I tempt you, we will not become close friends. But A Yu, do you really believe in pure friendship between men and women?" Zeng Ruo asked.
"Why don't I believe it? Not all relationships between men and women can be linked to love and love." Kang Yu said.
"But now many people are disgusted with this kind of unexplained relationship between men and women." Zeng Ruo said.
"This is normal, because the relationship between two people has not been clearly defined, the distance is not maintained, and too many intimate actions that exceed the relationship, and it is too ambiguous, it would be strange if it is not disgusting. If it is just a simple relationship, what can we do when we chat?" Kang Yu said.
"Aren't you worried that your wife will misunderstand our relationship?" Zeng Ruo asked.
"What do I have to worry about? We have never done anything, what are you worried about innocence?" Kang Yu said.
"Yes, when you come to me, you can only drink and talk about your own troubles at most." Zeng Ruo said.
"That's all." Kang Yu said, continuing to drink his own wine.
"What would you do if there was a man next to your wife who had a good relationship with her?" Zeng Ruo asked with a smile.
"I probably will jump up. I definitely can't accept that there are men around my wife who are close to her." Kang Yu said.
"You are really double standards and domineering enough." Zeng Ruo said.
"It's also good to be a double-pinning point for being a person." Kang Yu said.
"Searching for time to introduce me to your wife to get to know you, so as not to be misunderstood." Zeng Ruo said, she didn't want to be misunderstood by Kang Yu's wife.
"I have this plan too. When she comes to Xiajing, I will bring her to your store." Kang Yu said.
"Have you mentioned me to her before?" Zeng Ruo asked.
"No, because of the previous relationship, I think it would be more appropriate to tell her that she would not be so disgusted with me." Kang Yu said.
"Well, you are right. If she is still disgusted with you, what you say to her will only make her more disgusted with you, and she will misunderstand something." Zeng Ruo said.
"But speaking of this, if there are so many men around you who pursue you, don't you look down on anyone?" Kang Yu asked.
"I always feel that something is missing. You don't know that those men are more concerned about my face and my money." Zeng Ruo said.
"This is normal. If you can't see it at first sight without that kind of fate, you basically have nothing to say later.
Except for people with ulterior motives, basically no one is willing to live a life with someone who looks uncomfortable.
As for the meaning, it takes time to understand. In this fast-paced era, people value first impressions more. As for those who make money, you don’t have to consider it.” Kang Yudao.
"You can see it thoroughly." Zeng Ruo said.
"But if you really want to find someone to accompany you for your life, you still have to look at the connotation. Appearance can be changed, but the connotation of a person is the basis for determining a person's good or bad. I don't like to look at people just from the appearance." Kang Yu said.
"It is also if you only value people's appearance, you will have been unable to withstand the temptation. With your tens of millions of people, most of them are willing to do so." Zeng Ruo said.
"I feel like you are mocking me." Kang Yu said.
"I'm praising you for any good or bad?" Zeng Ruo said.
"It is not easy for a person to meet the right person in his life. If Aruo meets him, don't miss it." Kang Yu said.
"Don't worry, I know that if there were such people, I wouldn't miss it! After all, I also have the confidence to say love." Zeng Ruo said confidently.
"You are also a rich rich woman." Kang Yu joked.
Chapter completed!