Chapter 396: Problem of getting along with a father-in-law and son-in-law
After Kang Yu returned home, Gu Zhen had already arrived and was having tea with his father-in-law.
As for his little mischievous family, he was sitting at the door and greeted his return with a smile.
This is also what Kang Yu is most looking forward to when he gets off work every day. When he sees his daughter picking him up at the door, he will leave it behind even if he has any worries or how tired he is.
Kang Yu bent down and picked up the little guy, and took a sip of it.
Look at the baby's body, it looks like after dinner, I have to wash the little guy again.
However, Kang Yu has long been used to this. If the little guy's body is not dirty one day, that would be a strange thing.
"I really envy you! I really want to have a daughter." Gu Zhen said enviously.
Look at Kang Yu's daughter. As soon as it is time to get off work, she climbs to the door and waits for her father. This heartwarming scene is so enviable.
"Then you just hold on to it and take down Qiang Qiang early, and it will not be a problem at that time." Kang Yu held his daughter and sat down on the crawling mat.
He even took a car and asked the little guy to push it to play with.
It's interesting to say that people like their generation, or those who are busy with their careers and work, don't get married very early, or they get married very late, and rarely have the age of being busy with their careers and work, so they choose to get married.
"But there is one thing you have to pay attention to in advance." Kang Yu saw Gu Zhenna and had a physique that was comparable to Cheng Feng before, and then he remembered something that was quite important.
"What's the matter?" Gu Zhen asked curiously.
What is this? It's so serious?
"First care for your body, right? Seeing that the wind blows, you have to fly, so keep it stronger first!" Kang Yu suggested.
If you want to be a father, you don’t have a good physique, that’s not OK.
Not to mention hard work, I say that I have a child. Although the baby is not heavy, it is not light. If the body is not strong enough, I can’t stand it after holding it for a while. Let’s not talk about playing with the energetic baby and taking care of the child at night.
Like his baby girl, she is very energetic and crawling around all day long, and rarely has time to be at peace. If she has a bad physical condition, she may not be able to stand it if she plays with her for a while.
"Is it okay for me to do this?" Gu Zhen said in confusion.
He is now in this way, and he has a standard figure and his corresponding skills are not bad. He still needs to be strong?
"Since you don't understand, then forget it! You will know when you have a child in the future." Kang Yu said.
This means that you haven’t become a father yet, and you don’t know how difficult it is to be a father.
"I'll know what in the future? Can you explain it clearly?" Kang Yu's words confused Gu Zhen.
Is this a puzzle with him?
"What A Yu said is that if you have a child in the future, if you are too weak in your body, you will be tired." Mu Qing explained.
As soon as she heard her husband talk about his physique, she knew what it meant.
After hearing Mu Qing's explanation, Gu Zhen understood and said, "If that's the case, then I'll understand."
"But you haven't taken down Qiang Qiang yet. It's too early to talk about those things now." Kang Yu said.
Gu Zhen hasn't even been able to hold the beauty back. It's really too early to say that it's going to happen after having a child.
"It's not a matter of exercise like this, and it's not wrong to exercise early." Gu Zhenying said.
He didn't pay too much attention to that aspect before, but he is not young anymore and he needs to pay attention to his health.
"Dada." The little guy called out to his father.
Seeing the little guy calling him, Kang Yu knew that the wheels of the car must have broken again and could not move.
"Dad, look." Kang Yu picked up the car and found that he was stuck.
After a little work, the wheels can be turned again, I tried it and moved it again, and gave it to the little guy to continue playing.
"A Yu brought the baby to have dinner." At this time, Mom Mu came out of the dining room and greeted her.
"Okay." Kang Yuying said.
Just as he was about to carry the little guy, Dad Mu stood up and said, "I'll take my baby to dinner, you can sit with Xiao Zhen."
The father-in-law wanted to feed the baby, but Kang Yu didn't say anything else and got up and sat down next to Gu Zhen.
"Don't it be said that the father-in-law and son-in-law are not easy to get along with? Why are you and your father-in-law getting along so well?" Gu Zhen asked curiously.
He didn't care much about this problem before, but now it's different. If he chased Sui Qiang, he would have to meet Sui Qiang sooner or later, otherwise would he want to marry Sui Qiang?
How to get along with your father-in-law is a knowledge that needs to be learned, and there are just a ready-made examples, so he has to learn the scriptures well.
"You definitely can't learn this." Kang Yu said bluntly.
If you come here to seek the scriptures, you will definitely not be able to obtain them.
"What do you mean?" Gu Zhen asked strangely.
Isn’t the relationship between father-in-law and son-in-law in this world the same at the beginning? Are there any exceptions?
"My father-in-law watched me grow up. He knew very well what kind of person I was. Do I need to prepare anything else?" Kang Yu explained.
He and Mu Qing are children's relatives and have made a marriage contract early. The two families are family friends and often interact with each other.
In his wife's words, his father-in-law had already identified him as his son-in-law very early.
He still needs to consider how to get along with his father-in-law? Just get along with him as he did. What he has to do is just change his title.
Hearing this, Gu Zhen was hoarse, and he actually forgot about this.
Since Kang Yu was born, he was treated as a son-in-law by Mu's father. There is really no need to worry about how to get along with him.
"But I can still give you some suggestions." Kang Yu thought about it.
How can I please my father-in-law? He still has some experience.
"Tell me quickly." The lost Gu Zhen immediately became energetic.
"The method is very simple, that is, to suit his preferences. Just like my father-in-law, who likes to drink, I will buy a winery to give it to him. Do you think he can be unhappy?" Kang Yu said bluntly.
This trick to suit everyone. If you can become brothers with your father-in-law at the dinner table, then you still have to worry, will you not marry your daughter?
"Yes, as long as I understand Sui Qiang's father's preferences, it's not a matter of whether he wants to get in touch with the relationship!" Gu Zhen said suddenly.
How to make relationships with others? He is too good at it. As long as he finds a common hobby, everything will not be a problem.
"There is another important thing, that is, you must do a good job in your relationship with your mother-in-law. As long as you get the mother-in-law done, the matter will be basically done half of it." Kang Yu reminded.
This is his experience, like his wife's family, his mother-in-law has the greatest say.
If you get the mother-in-law done, you basically don’t have to worry about what your father-in-law will have. Even if your father-in-law has any objections, your mother-in-law will help you solve it.
"Then I know what to do." Gu Zhen said.
After hearing what Kang Yu said, Gu Zhen felt confident.
Kang Yu's suggestion opened up his thinking. If he had established a good relationship with his future father-in-law and mother-in-law and made them recognize him as his future son-in-law, he would still have to worry about it. Will he be cold at that time?
"No wonder my parents always look at you." Mu Qing, who was beside her, looked at her husband with contempt.
This trick to win people is really used. No wonder she always feels that Kang Yu is more like her biological child than her.
"Isn't this for you? If it weren't for your wife, would I have to be so careful to be filial to my parents?" Kang Yu hugged his wife and explained patiently.
He also forgot that his wife was right next to him, saying all of them was just to cause trouble for himself.
Chapter completed!