Chapter 19 Second child
Two o'clock in the afternoon.
After lunch, everyone took a nap and gathered to travel.
They chose to go hiking first.
"The scenery here is really nice and the air is very fresh." Mu Qing sighed, and then took out her cell phone and wanted to take a selfie with Li Qi, Zhao Man, Chen Qian, Wang Xu Kangjing and the others.
Compared with adults, the three children are the most active and the most relaxed. Tan Hao, the twelve-year-old son of Li Qi and Tan Yao, led Li Chen, Zhao Man, nine-year-old son Li Jie, and Wang Hong, six-year-old daughter of Wang Hong, Chen Qian, while hiking the mountain.
"Xiao Hao should not play with his younger brother and sister on the mountain road, which is dangerous or not." Li Qi reminded.
"I understand, mom." Tan Hao said, who was playing with his younger brother and sister.
Tan Hao, who is already in the sixth grade of elementary school, is not only older, but also mature, sensible and knows how to take care of others. This is the same as his father Tan Yao's personality, and he can be said to be a little adult.
"Don't pick the small flowers and grass on the roadside of Xixi. It's not easy for the small flowers and grass to grow up." Seeing her daughter wanting to pick wild flowers on the roadside, Chen Qian spoke.
"Good mother." Wang Qian, who was like a porcelain doll, said obediently.
Wang Qian, who is still in kindergarten, is very quiet and quiet, and is a well-behaved and obedient little lady.
"Li Jie, give me something similar." Seeing that his son wanted to do some difficult challenges, Zhao Man also reminded his son that she also had a headache for her son who was like a monkey.
"Oh, mom, it doesn't make people have fun." Li Jie, who was scolded by his mother, complained.
Li Jie, who is already in the third grade of elementary school, is just the opposite of his steadiness and cousin Tan Hao. He is lively and active, free and easy-going, just like his father Li Chen when he was a child, and he can't stay idle like a monkey.
"Achen, your son's personality is quite like you when you were a child, and he can't stay idle." Seeing Li Jie's complaining little look, Wang Hong couldn't help but think of Li Chen in the past and sighed.
"It's because of this that I'm worried." Li Chen said helplessly. He was also very troubled by his son's naughtyness.
"I don't know if I had committed any evil in my previous life. Giving such a son to torture me is a weird saying. He has not inherited any of his father's good things, but he has inherited all of those bad habits." Zhao Man complained.
"Since the training of the large number is useless, then just reopen the small number." Cheng Feng suggested.
"If you want a second child, Xiaojie is also growing up, just right." Wang Hongdao.
"But before you want the second treasure, you have to ask Xiaojie what he thinks first. Don't ignore him just because others are young. Children are very sensitive." Kang Yu reminded.
"A Yu is right. Don't take people seriously because they are young. Nowadays, many families will have discord between brothers because the parents did not handle it well at the beginning, and there will be many conflicts later." Wang Hongdao, he was very supportive of Kang Yu's statement.
"For example, no matter what a brother does, adults will always tell older children that you are a brother, you must be sensible and know how to let your younger brother. In this way, will not plant the seeds of unfairness in the heart of the older? It also makes young people think that no matter what he wants, he can get it. In the long run, can brothers and brothers be able to get together?" Kang Yu said.
"This is also the reason why there are so many naughty children now. Because they have been neglected for a long time, they always want to do something to attract the attention of adults, but many adults do not care about it, and they often criticize and scold them. If they often compare the two brothers, the result will be even more. Over time, the children will naturally become more rebellious." Wang Hong said.
"According to what you said, if Manman and I really want to have a second child, we must be cautious." Li Chen also thought what they said was quite reasonable.
"Yes, many children are only children nowadays, and they are all pampered. Why did someone suddenly appear who wants to share with him or even compete for his parents' love? What would he think? I have experienced this before, and I understand that taste, so I told you to be cautious." Kang Yu said.
"Well, A Yu is right. I still remember that when Xu Xu was born, my parents were envious of her kindness. I even felt that I was redundant in that home, which made me doubt whether I was my biological child." Wang Hong said in agreement.
"In my dad's words, I was my sister I picked up, and I was my biological child." Kang Yu said.
"Yes, my dad is the same." Wang Hong agreed.
"In short, families with many brothers are not worried about being inequality, while families with children are afraid of being boys over girls." Tan Yao said that he has many brothers and has a lot of say in this matter.
"It would be better if the child is sensible, but he would be afraid of meeting the kind of people who like to compete, for example, Achen used to be like this." Li Qi said.
"Sister, am I as bad as you said?" Li Chen, who was revealed by his sister, said embarrassedly.
"Why didn't you? Did you do less good things like this before?" Li Qi said bluntly about her younger brother's past.
"Otherwise, why would you be often repaired by Sister Qi when you were a child?" Cheng Feng said.
"When I was a child, it seemed that my sister was in charge of me." Li Chen thought about it.
"The one who beats you the most is Sister Qi." Kang Yu added.
"But Sister Qi, I'm quite curious. Why did you only beat Achen when he was young? He changed to reason with him when he was old?" Wang Hong asked curiously.
"Of course you have to beat your younger brother as soon as possible. You can't beat him when you are old." Then Li Qi explained: "If Achen didn't beat him up and let him calm down when he was young, how could he listen quietly to you? When he grows up and listens, he will naturally educate him in a reasonable way."
"When beating a child is divided into time?" Cheng Feng asked in confusion.
"Of course there is a difference. Breaking blindly will not solve the problem, and it will even make the child more rebellious. Some things can be communicated, but some things cannot be repaired, so in general, they are punished when they should be praised when they should be punished." Li Qi concluded.
"What you said is reasonable." Kang Yu, King Hongchengfeng couldn't help but think in his heart.
"After that being said, Ayu, do you like your son or daughter?" Li Chen asked.
"If it were me, I would rather like my daughter. I don't want an unfilial son like Afeng." Kang Yu said.
"Hey, hey, why are you pulling it on me again?" Cheng Feng said dissatisfied when he heard Kang Yu say this.
"It's just a headache for anyone who has a son like Afeng." Wang Hong agreed with a smile.
"Hmph, don't talk too early. What if I have a son, I'll see what you do." Cheng Feng said.
"This is very likely, but it doesn't matter. Just let him stay away from you in the future." Kang Yu thought.
"You are watching me more." Cheng Feng had nothing to say.
"Then you have to hold on to your side, Yu Qingqing, we are all planning to have a second child, so don't fall too far behind." Zhao Man said with a smile.
"Sister Man." Mu Qing said coquettishly.
Chapter completed!