18, love transaction
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When a woman plays tricks in love, she means playing tricks on men. You know, "Playing with things will lose one's ambition, and playing with people will lose one's morality."
Regardless of men or women, those who want to play with others are all immoral people, such as her, Zheng Tingting; and the county magistrate's son, Wang Xiaolong. They all want to play with each other in their hearts, so they are not good people.
However, the only rare thing is that although this school beauty has bad intentions and loves money and is vain, she is still a "good guy".
No matter how vain she is, as long as she doesn't lose the bargaining chip of her "virginity", then she is qualified to be a pure goddess in the eyes of men, and she is qualified to make men willingly put on her a wedding dress that symbolizes purity; as long as she figures it out one day
If she is no longer vain, starts to value feelings, does things regardless of their value, and is willing to be loyal to the responsibilities of marriage, then she can still get true love.
Ling Tianyu, at this time, had the same idea as the county magistrate's son Wang Xiaolong. He also believed that the more beautiful and more women a man has, the more successful he is as a man; if he can have sex without spending money, he is very successful.
A man who can easily throw her away after getting married is the best among successful men.
Therefore, when Ling Tianyu's prodigal son turned back, he was not only thinking about the woman in his heart. Before he went to live with others, he was thinking about his future responsibilities and how to face the woman and her family he had fallen in love with. Only then would he truly
It's about giving to a woman, rather than being passive and responsible for emotional transactions.
There is no doubt that Ling Tianyu is a responsible man. As long as he is responsible and does not abandon women, just like women can figure out that "vanity is ultimately vanity", men will one day understand that women are not just for love.
It should be used for love.
Maybe, some readers would like to ask, Can Long, when you write about stealing people's hearts, why do you always mess around in school instead of going to a company in Guangdong to steal people's hearts? Are you "filling in the water" for this article?
No.
The two or three months in school made Ling Tianyu realize that what the world calls "love" is not "true love" at all. What he pursues is only love between men and women, and marriage is only a "transactional" relationship and combination between men and women.
There is nothing wrong with trading. As long as the price is clear, fair transactions are observed, and transactions are done willingly, then both men and women can live a happy life;
Of course, being able to live a lifetime and get along well in all aspects does not mean that it is "love". At best, it is just "family affection". But no matter what kind of love, it is always a kind of emotion, and this is positive.
Since Ling Tianyu wants to steal a woman's heart, what heart is he stealing? Even he himself doesn't understand what a woman's sincerity is, so how can he get a woman's heart?
Only when Ling Tianyu understands what "love" is, what is "true love", what is a woman's heart, and what is true love, can he have a correct understanding of the "stealing heart" in his mind.
Therefore, Can Long explains that Ling Tianyu's life in school is necessarily related to stealing hearts, and is not just a lie.
In order for a person to have a correct understanding of heart-stealing and true love, he must have emotional experience, or at least be well-informed before he can do it.
But now Ling Tianyu doesn't even understand the emotion of trading. He still wants to buy good and cheap goods when buying. In the same way, the woman next to him also wants to sell when he wants to sell.
Worth it or great value for the high price.
Ling Tianyu's idea is not even fair trade!
When making a transaction, you first need to have your own needs, and secondly, you need to bargain, and when the deal is concluded, you also need to agree on after-sales service so that the two of you will not regret the transaction.
You can also get true love in a transactional marriage, as long as the transaction is fair, for example: a woman keeps her virginity, and after getting married, she will face poverty and disease; and a man, takes responsibility, and faces the woman's aging and beauty.
Throughout life, old age, sickness and death, he will never leave her.
Or, if a woman gives her virginity to another man, and then marries a man who is willing to trade with her, she is willing to pay the responsibilities of the marriage; and if the man gives all his money to his lover, and then asks the woman to live a poor life with him, she is willing
the obligation to keep marriage;
These are fair trade.
One day, the two of them may understand that vanity and Japanese beauties are both vain, and there should be love in their lives. Then, if the man lets go of his lustful heart, and the woman lets go of her vanity, then what will happen to them?
You can get true love anytime.
Since it is a transaction, you must use scheming and means. Therefore, what Zheng Tingting did is just a normal reaction of a woman in the transaction. We cannot look down on her, nor should we hate her.
We should admire her. After all, she is smart. She is so young and has seen that her biggest bargaining chip in the transaction is Chu. She can also make good use of her chips. She is not giving her chips to men easily or being used by men.
Cheat away.
Therefore, if you don’t even understand transactional feelings, transactional marriage, and transactional love, how can you understand true love? An honest marriage? What about real heart-stealing?
Chapter completed!