When asked if Dabai had apologized to him for his regrets, Yang Huamei couldn't laugh anymore and sat down a little lonely, with a sad look on his face.

In front of my two sisters-in-law, I didn’t say those brave words. I’ll tell you the truth. Although I won’t seriously argue with Dabai, in my heart, I still have some objections to my child’s behavior.

Yang Huamei raised her finger and pointed at her heart.

Since he was little, this kid has been more naughty than Xiao Hei. Xiao Hei was disobedient and was frightened after a few pats.

But I understand that this child’s mind has matured early. You hit him, scolded him, and reasoned with him, but he didn’t listen and ignored him. He closed his eyes and cried for a while. We left him to dry. Other people’s children will be fine when they are tired of crying.

However, it seemed that he would never get tired. Instead, he would bang his head against the wall. If he was not allowed to hit the wall, he would hit other places. He would hit wherever he caught, no matter what. My mother-in-law was frightened several times at that time. Later,

We are all afraid of him and let him do anything.

When he was a child, he often lost his temper and punched and kicked me. But at that time, he was just a baby and didn't care about it. Now he is twelve years old and has studied for four or five years. He talks about it and does it.

A learned person can't even say a soft word to me like this.

On the contrary, I patiently ran back and forth to serve him, feeling sorry for his legs, and he still got angry with me. To be honest, my two sisters-in-law, I really feel chilled. It is useless to raise a son.

Yang Huamei said, picking up the corner of her clothes and wiping her eyes.

Is it useless to raise a son?

Bao Suyun and Sun looked at each other.

Sorry, they both have sons, but the sons at home are obedient and sensible, and know how to care about their parents.

Mei'er, don't you not like hearing what third sister-in-law has to say? Mrs. Sun spoke up.

What you said earlier has nothing to do with raising a son. Don’t worry about your son’s daughter. It won’t work if you don’t teach him well since he was a child. Let’s not talk about anything else. Just look at your fourth uncle’s daughter. She is a daughter, right? What’s the result?

Sun's words left Yang Huamei speechless.

Seeing Yang Huamei looking like she was about to cry, Sun's tone softened a bit, and then said: We all know that it was not easy for you to conceive the twins, and we also know that giving birth to the twins is not a good thing for the old Wang family, who has only a few heirs.

It's like the stars and the moon falling from the sky, it's so precious.

But Mei'er, which family's children didn't come here like this? We parents love our children and we have to think for them in the long run, instead of satisfying them infinitely when they want something when they are young.

This kind of thing, let alone children, even us adults, is like a bag. The bigger it is, the more things it wants to hold. If the appetite is too big, it will be harmful to children.

Not good. Suyun, don’t you think so?

Bao Suyun nodded quickly: I think it makes sense.

When children are young, they are ignorant and want few things. A handful of candy canes and two small slingshots can satisfy them. But as they grow older, they want more things. They learn to compare and see others in the same way.

The Four Treasures of the Study are famous products, but mine are just ordinary items, so I may feel unbalanced.

When I see others wearing silk and satin, while I am wearing coarse cloth, I feel unable to hold my head up.

As parents, if we grit our teeth at this time, we may be able to satisfy his wish, but the desire to compare is always there, and he himself does not put in the effort. When he gets married in the future, he will want a magnificent mansion.

We want gold and silver jewelry, we want to marry the most beautiful girl, we want to buy a carriage, and we want to have a real estate shop to make the scene. Do we parents have the conditions?

If you are not satisfied, well, the marriage is ruined, you will be making trouble at home all day long, beating and complaining about your parents, wondering why you were born in such a family. At that time, what will we do as parents?

My heart was broken into pieces, and I had to accompany him to grieve. I couldn't think of it anymore, and I was so upset that I was useless and committed suicide! I'm not an alarmist about this kind of thing. When I was in Qing'an County, there was an alley behind a restaurant.

This is what happened to others!

So I often tell my eldest son, in the future, you can eat as much food as you want. If your parents can raise you up, they have fulfilled their obligations. If you didn’t save any money when you got married, your parents can still help you.

Wait, when your daughter-in-law comes in, you have to support the family by yourself, work hard, and provide for me and your father until the end of your life!

Yang Huamei was dumbfounded.

After Bao Suyun finished speaking, Yang Huamei still looked straight at her.

Fifth sister-in-law, I feel like my life has been in vain. It took a long time for her to come back to her senses and said with a wry smile.

Bao Suyun sighed, Mei'er, please don't say such depressing words. My third sister-in-law and I are not telling you this to criticize you and Dabai. We want to help you.

Dabai and Xiaohei are not big now, and they are not small now. I will expose the past things. You have to help them plan for the future. When it is time to discipline them strictly, they will not be tolerated at all.

It’s sloppy, otherwise, if you wait until it’s time to talk about getting married in a few years and then discipline her, it will really be too late!

Mrs. Sun nodded: I have the same idea as Suyun. If you want to take care of it, you have to take care of it now. You can still bend the child right now even if you use your strength.

Yang Huamei said nothing, frowning slightly, but she made up her mind.

Yes, we must discipline the children well this time no matter what, otherwise we will raise two scourges in the future, especially Dabai!

Did Dabai go to the town hospital for his foot injury? What did the doctor say? Sun asked again.

Yang Huamei's face was full of despair: I went to see him, and the doctor said that the child's feet could not return to normal. Even if he could walk on the ground, he would be a little lame in the future. This way of studying would not work.

Shuanzi and I have discussed it. As long as he lives a good life, works steadily, and is neither a coward nor a lazy person, he will always have something to eat in the future and will not starve to death.

Sun and Bao Suyun could only sigh at this.

To study, you need to have good facial features and no obvious physical defects. It is clear that the road to study is really broken.

My eldest son is not lame, but he is not good at studying. He studied for several years and even sent him to Qing'an County to study, but he couldn't do it. Last time, your eldest son, Bai Xiaohei, went to Changhuaizhou to take the exam, but he didn't pass the exam either.

His father said he would take Xiucai to a restaurant in Qing'an County after the Lantern Festival and learn business from him.

Mrs. Sun also laughed. My Xiaoan is not a student either. When he didn't study, he went to the southwest battlefield with his brother-in-law, which worried me to death. Fortunately, he finally found a job in Qing'an County based on his military exploits. I
Chapter completed!