"You have to know that men and women have different understandings of happiness in love."

Zou Guodong considered every word and said, "A woman's happiness lies in every contact she has with a man after falling in love, including the man's attention, love and intimacy, as well as her own contribution bit by bit. For example, buying gifts, washing clothes, and cooking.

, or even some rougher and more tiring work. They can break the traditional concept and financially support men, and they can also get men's love regardless of merit in order to gain long-term love. There are too many such examples in history and reality. But men don't

Similarly, a man's happiness is more focused on conquest. Especially once he conquers a woman with excellent conditions in all aspects, his happiness will be very great. In fact, more of this happiness is pride."

Ning Weimin was speechless, but he agreed in his heart.

At this moment, what appeared in front of his eyes was not only Matsumoto Keiko's joyful expression when she gave him a gift, but also Qu Xiao's surprised expression when she saw him downstairs in the apartment after buying a bunch of things last time.

"So..." Zou Guodong looked at Ning Weimin and continued, "A woman's happiness in love comes from her subconscious mind that she wants to marry this man. But when it comes to talking about marriage, happiness will have to be faced.

For reality, the short-term happiness of contact cannot compare with the long-term reality of life. For a man, the sense of responsibility is more important than the happiness he obtains."

The last sentence made Ning Weimin burst into laughter. He suddenly lost his curiosity and felt that it was just a few.

"I understand what you said, it sounds philosophical. But to put it bluntly, is it still true that falling in love without the purpose of getting married is just a hooligan?"

And this teasing reply almost made the serious Zou Guodong become angry.

"You are really... really..."

It took Zou Guodong a long time to collect his energy before he regained his calm demeanor.

"It's okay if you don't understand it this way. Let me ask you, if you think you are in love with that Japanese star, can you marry her?"

"Why can't I marry her?" Ning Weimin was confused in his heart, but on the surface he was unwilling to deny it.

"Don't act stupid, you definitely know what I'm talking about. How much older is she than you? How old will she be when you are thirty? Will you still treat her like you do today? If you are together, do you want to get married?

? Do you want a child? If you have a child, will you be considered a Chinese or a Japanese? Do you want to live in Japan forever from now on? Will you never mind other people's gossip behind your back and their opinions on you? "

But Zou Guodong is not easy to fool, his eyes are as sharp as awls.

On this key issue, there was no room for Ning Weimin to conceal anything.

"Okay, I admit, I'm lustful, and I'm fascinated by her. I'm just greedy for her body, and I'm an absolute gangster. But so what? Aren't men supposed to be lustful towards the women they like?

If you're not interested, then that means you don't love her. I really haven't thought about whether to marry her or not, but is it wrong for me to have a crush on her? That all happens naturally. What's wrong with me liking her? Who did I offend whom? In the end?

Whose business is it getting in the way? Besides, can’t I have more time to think about these issues slowly?”

After Ning Weimin finished speaking, he took a deep breath.

But his complaints were not only useless, but Zou Guodong further hurt his heart.

"Don't be stupid. Let me ask you, what about your smile to Qu Xiao? Do you think the same about Xiao Qu?"

Seeing Ning Weimin being questioned, Zou Guodong shook his head in a worldly manner.

"You're too greedy. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Don't you understand this?"

Ning Weimin really wanted to say something, only children make choices.

But even he himself felt stupid for saying this. It would not be unfair at all if he was beaten to death by Zou Guodong because of this.

Not to mention that love is selfish, not many women are willing to share love with others.

Even the blessings of Qi Ren are just flashy and just enjoyable to watch.

People's time and energy are limited. In his current state, his pursuits have reached a higher level, and there are too many serious things to be completed.

Where can I still be like in the past, only thinking about spending money and time on raising women?

"If it were you, how would you choose?"

Ning Weimin was silent for a long time and couldn't help but ask Zou Guodong, but this sentence was actually nonsense.

"Which one do you think is the most precious, bear's paw or fish? Rare things are more valuable, so of course I will choose the more expensive ones over the more abundant ones."

Sure enough, Zou Guodong responded with the answer that everyone would tell.

But the problem is, we have to first distinguish which one is the fish and which one is the bear's paw.

If you say it, it's as if you haven't said it yet.

To be honest, what troubles Ning Weimin in his heart is actually a scale that wants to weigh the weight of his emotions.

One end of the scale is Keiko Matsumoto, and now there is Qu Xiao on the other end.

However, this scale sometimes tilts towards Matsumoto Keiko's end, and sometimes it tilts towards Qu Xiao's other end, and it never stabilizes.
Chapter completed!