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Chapter 1,157 First Impression(2/2)

In fact, the reason why the other party treated him so kindly was because his appearance was good enough, which attracted the other party's attention and impressed him.

It has to be said that when interacting with people, first impression is very important.

When a person meets a stranger in a social situation, it is often based on the first few glances that he or she decides whether to continue the relationship.

The love between Ning Weimin and Matsumoto Keiko is a typical example of this.

They were able to be together entirely because they felt their hearts flutter when they first met. It would be no exaggeration to say it was love at first sight.

There is a special discussion on this in psychology.

It is believed that a good impression comes from the first few to ten seconds of meeting someone.

Once a person's first impression is formed, it is difficult to change.

If the first impression is not good, the following things may fail.

In other words, if we take a salesperson as an example, the success or failure of his work is often determined before he even opens his mouth.

In such a short period of time, people can make a final conclusion about a person.

This is called the "primacy effect" in psychology.

Regardless of whether it is right or wrong, no one can deny that this is objective reality.

Most people rely on the information of the first impression, and the formation of this first impression plays a very important role in future decisions.

It is far more important than the second or third impression and later understanding.

Because most people don’t have time to get to know you, you can only start the second step if you make a good first impression.

If you make a bad first impression, you often don't get the chance.

Others will treat you with a particularly emotional attitude - No, this person is not good.

In fact, during their first meeting today, Matsumoto Keiko's mother had been carefully looking up and down at Ning Weimin.

Not only guess his age, listen to his words, pay attention to his understanding, look at his figure, his face, but also pay attention to his clothes.

Pay special attention to his shoes, socks, collar, cuffs and hair.

The first impression Ning Weimin gave to Han Changzi was that he was unexpectedly very satisfied.

She was so happy that she showed such a gentle and friendly attitude.

Otherwise, no matter how good-tempered she is, she will never show such kindness without any grudge.

In fact, she had thought about it when she came here, just in case her daughter got confused and fell in love with a man who "cannot be judged by his appearance".

Then she should be cold and indifferent, and should speak frankly to let the other person give up the idea.

Even if Ning Weimin were an ordinary handsome boy, she wouldn't be like this.

I can only lament that women are not allowed to stay in college.

Most of them would feel sorry for their daughter for choosing such a thing.

I have really delayed myself by not falling in love for so many years, and I am now so anxious to get married.

However the reality is this.

After seeing Ning Weimin with his own eyes, Han Changzi immediately understood his daughter's thoughts.

Perhaps the mother and daughter are a family after all, and the same preferences may be engraved in their common genetic inheritance.

As a mother, once she saw Ning Weimin in person, she fully understood why Matsumoto Keiko valued this relationship so much.

He actually kept it secret from his family for so long, even if he did not hesitate to damage the newly eased relationship between father and daughter, he still had a tough attitude to stick to it.

Han Changzi couldn't help but secretly sigh in his heart, there is indeed something worthy of women's fascination with this young Chinese man.

That's right, appearance is justice.

Appearance is always the most direct way to impress someone.

Although everyone likes to tell others confidently, we should be rational and objective and not jump to conclusions based on a person's appearance.

But in fact, people all over the world do this habitually.

So in this way, although the two people have not really started talking, they have already had a good beginning.

Then the next thing will be much easier to handle.

As the old saying goes, the more a mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more interesting he becomes.

Because she liked him at first sight, Ning Weimin's mother-in-law-to-be had enough patience and high expectations to talk to him freely.

Even because of this good impression, Han Changzi's appetite and interest in talking were much better today.

For coffee, she didn't order the simple English style she usually liked, but ordered Irish coffee that needed to be mixed with whiskey.

For dessert, I also ordered Shiseido’s most famous cherry blossom cream cake, and a tempting parfait piled high with various fruits.

As if it would be rude not to treat guests with such sumptuous food.

Even the menu with the bill that the restaurant manager later sent was pushed in front of her.
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