1409, it's not your fault!
Li Guilan told Jiang Mei that less than a month after she divorced Zhang Xiaojun, Zhang Xiaojun got along with Yu Xiaoqiong, "Widow Yu" in the big market. With the help of Yu Xiaoqiong's stall in the big market, he returned to his old business and started selling his high-level duck again.
At present, the couple's business is still good. At the beginning, they were so excited that they had borrowed money from the tens of thousands of yuan they owed to open a rice noodle shop in recent years. The family's living standards were almost back to what they were four years ago. Just last year, the Jialing 70 at the house was replaced with 125, and the three-wheeled human resources were also replaced with oil-eating volcanic wheels.
Moreover, the couple seemed to plan to have a second child. When they were invited to the New Year dinner last year during the Chinese New Year, Zhang Xiaojun's mother Xie Decui also whispered in front of her, the captain of the women, inquire about information and ask if there would be a fine if they had a second child in the situation at their house.
"What, Zhang Xiaojun and Yu Xiaoqiong want to... want to have a second child? They... don't they have children on both sides? They already have two babies, and they still... want to have children?" Jiang Mei was shocked and instinctively began to worry about Zhang Ke.
"I also persuaded me at that time? I still want to have two dolls on the front of the house? Do you want to be a guerrilla team after the extra-birth? But I guess my advice may not be useful. How to say it? Whether it is the doll brought by Zhang Ke or Yu Xiaoqiong, it is not biological to the other party. It has a kind of diaphragm. No matter how good it is, it cannot be as good as it is to their own children. Moreover, when the two got married, the dolls on both sides were several years old and lacked a common life experience.
"In the past few years, the couple has been fighting for each other's babies. If they have a second child and have a common crystallization, they probably think that this kind of family dispute that is worried about the other party being favored is much less.
"But who can explain this kind of thing clearly? Maybe another one will be born, and the couple will love their youngest son. The two children now may be even more tragic." Li Guilan sighed. When she mentioned Xie Decui and Zhang Xiaojun's family, she also had a headache.
Jiang Mei's worries were even more serious. The life experiences related to her son, which she had been buried intentionally or unintentionally, suddenly reappeared in her mind. She held Li Guilan's hand and said almost instinctively without thinking:
"Li, since Zhang Xiaojun and Yu Xiaoqiong still want to have a second child, and since Yu Xiaoqiong cannot treat Zhang Ke as his own child, I...I want to talk to Zhang Xiaojun and Yu Xiaoqiong and let them give Zhang Ke custody to me. Do you... do you think it's done?"
"Do you want to get back the custody of Zhang Ke?" Li Guilan was shocked, her face changed suddenly, and she said bluntly, "Meimei, I think you are concerned about it, even if Zhang Xiaojun and Xie Decui are willing to let go, for the sake of your own family harmony, you can't pick up Zhang Ke for the happiness of your life!
"So, if you take Zhang Ke over, what will your man think? Do you still want to rebirth in the future? If you rebirth, how will the man treat Zhang Ke and his own? There is a difference in closeness. If you see your man treat Zhang Ke differently and look at him in a different way, will you be sad? Will you two have conflicts about this kind of thing in the future? Even like Zhang Xiaojun and Yu Xiaoqiong?
"So, what's the matter of asking for custody of Zhang Ke? Think about it, just say it in front of me, don't do it stupidly.
"Since you are happy now, then cherish it and maintain it well. Don't think about it. It's okay to make trouble! As the captain of women, you, Li Jun, have seen such a family that has caused trouble because of your biological health."
Jiang Mei was stunned, and Li Guilan's words were like enlightenment, which suddenly woke her up from her heartfelt concern for Zhang Ke.
Yes, even if Zhang Xiaojun and Xie Decui are willing to give up their life-like son and grandson, can she take Zhang Ke over and raise him with all the best? In that case, what should Wang Bo do? He is only 21 years old this year? He is both a big child himself, so why should he be his father now?
And still a stepfather?
Jiang Mei only felt a chill!
At the same time, she also thought of Wang Bo's father Wang Jichang. When she mentioned Xie Decui and Zhang Xiaojun, she gritted her teeth and cursed her, calling her ungrateful and ungrateful. She was not a human being, but a pig or a dog. In her words, she also criticized her son Zhang Ke, saying that the kid would be a copy of Xie Decui and Zhang Xiaojun in the future!
Her son Zhang Ke is indeed a bit outrageous. He was too spoiled by Xie Decui, so he developed a lazy, eccentric, nostrils facing the sky, looking at people squintedly, and crying, making trouble and hanging. Jiang Mei felt that the child was too spoiled, and she often beat Zhang Ke's farts when she was angry. Zhang Ke cried and ran to Xie Decui and his old man to complain. Every time, the mother and mother would scold her with a black mouth and face, saying that she would not be able to educate her like this, how could such a young child be beaten? Xie Decui also mocked her and said that some people were used to being taught by their parents' inability to be human. Don't bring this bad temper to my Zhang family house!
However, Xie Decui turned a blind eye to her son's beating and scolding, and said that the beating was good on the back. Such a woman who ignores the overall situation and does not give men face is just a repair!
After a few more times, Jiang Mei did not dare to discipline Zhang Ke. Xie Decui didn't let her care, saying that she would not take care of her children, nor would she educate her children. She just needed to make money outside with her men all day long. She didn't worry about the matter at the house or the matter of educating Zhang Ke.
Because of this, Zhang Ke was carried on the bed by her mother-in-law Xie Decui after being weaned. Zhang Xiaojun wanted to sleep without the disturbance of the children. He could be assured and bold as he could be loving with his wife without any scruples.
Jiang Mei sometimes thinks sadly that Zhang Ke is not so much her son, but rather her mother-in-law's son. She is teaching Zhang Ke how to be a person, how to be sensible, and even what Zhang Ke eats and wears in a day, and so on. She can't worry about all the details of her mother, and she can't worry about it, either.
Perhaps it is precisely because of these reasons, because Zhang Ke kissed his grandmother and his father instead of her mother. After Jiang Mei divorced Zhang Xiaojun, she missed her very much in the first half of the year and felt sorry for her children. However, after half a year, as Wang Bo became more and more good to her, she took care of her in life, work, and emotionally, physically and mentally, and gave her unprecedented comfort. Hopefully, her deep affection for her son's blood-related relationship became increasingly weaker and more vague. In the past one or two years, she has rarely thought of Zhang Ke.
Sometimes, especially when I see mothers who lead children and happily with them on the streets, but she is immersed in her own happiness and joy, and is also a mother, but often forgets her son beyond the sky and feels ashamed and ashamed, feeling that she is really not a good mother, a good mother!
If someone now forces her to do a multiple-choice question and ask her to choose between her sons Zhang Ke and Wang Bo, she will definitely choose the man who saved her life, gave her a new life, and used her own hands to push away the dark clouds shrouded on her head, and then gave herself a brilliant and clear sky!
But it is this kind of "no hesitation" and this kind of "no need to think about it" that makes her fall into a kind of moral self-blame and guilt from time to time!
"Wuwuwu...I'm sorry to Zhang Ke...I'm not a competent mother..." Jiang Mei bent down to cover her face, and started crying "Wuwuwuwu".
Faced with Jiang Mei's crying, as a woman, Li Guilan naturally understood Jiang Mei's difficulties and pain as a mother.
To get Zhang Ke, it will inevitably cause trouble for the current men, or even lose the current men; and considering her own happiness and family harmony, she can only break with Zhang Ke and ignore her.
Li Guilan walked to Jiang Mei, hugged the woman who was crying in her arms, patted the other person's back, and comforted her softly:
"Meimei, this is not your fault, it is all fate. Even if you want to blame, you can only blame Zhang Xiaojun and Xie Decui, the blind mother and son! This two mother and son who bully the weak and fear evil cannot tolerate you, bully you, and forcibly deprive you of your rights and obligations as a mother!
"So, even if Zhang Ke learns bad things in the future and fails to become a talent, no matter how much he is, he will not blame you! Because you are also the victim of this family tragedy.
"But fortunately, the sky has eyes, so that good people like Meimei will eventually be rewarded and regain the happiness of their own life.
"The past, whether it is sad or happy, let them pass. Only by looking forward, learning to accept reality, learning to look forward to the future, and learning to cherish the people around you can you get long-term happiness.
"You and Zhang Ke have no fate in this life. Xie Decui and Zhang Xiaojun can't tolerate you and their son. If your grandson reunites, they have any connection or involvement. They have expressed this meaning in front of me many times.
Chapter completed!