In fact, most of the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are ultimately men's problems.

If that man can be clear and knows how to do things, then the two women who had no relationship with their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law would not have so many entanglements.

Many of the so-called "fool filial piety" are derived from men's selfishness.

When men are not harming their own interests, they are happy to be filial sons and do not care that their "filial piety" may hurt their wives and children.

Once they are affected, they are more sober and understand than anyone else.

Anne has traveled through so many worlds and seen all kinds of people, so she can see through Zhang Dahai’s selfish nature at a glance.

Anne doesn't know how to do any strategy for such a top-notch, so she simply throws out the bait directly-

Dear, do you want a good wife who can help you become stronger, or will you continue to indulge your unreasonable and partial mother?!

Zhang Dahai indeed lived up to Annie's expectations and made a very rational choice.

This time, Annie didn't have to roll up her sleeves and go into battle. Zhang Dahai ran to her own mother and said to her mother, "Mom, Dani and I are married to each other in the military. We can't divorce easily, otherwise we will make mistakes. After all, she has no bad record. On the contrary, she is still a selfless and good comrade."

"What's the secret of no bad record? She is unfilial to her elders!"

"Mom, why is Dani unfilial? She beats and scolds you and dad? Also, when she does this, outsiders see it?"

“…”

"Mom, there are actually only some small conflicts between you and Da Ni. Even if you make a fuss, it will be just a family dispute. Not to mention the army leaders, even the people in our production brigade may not think Da Ni is bad."

"...Dahai, why did you suddenly-" you started to protect your wife? Old Mrs. Niu was a little stunned and stared at her son blankly, as if she didn't recognize him anymore.

Zhang Dahai wiped his face and continued to smile and said, "Mom, Dani and I have four children, so it is impossible to divorce. If you really don't want to see Dani, just like this, why don't I take their five mothers to accompany the army."

"What? Follow the army? No, I, I don't agree!"

If An Dani follows the army, wouldn’t she jump out of her control?

Also, if Andani follows her son, her son's allowance may be separated by Andani.

When she thought of the monthly account of more than 20 yuan and various rare military tickets, Old Lady Niu shook her head like a rattle.

"Mom, this doesn't work, that doesn't work. Tell me, what do you want your son to do?"

Zhang Dahai was also a little impatient. He actually understood what his mother was thinking.

Isn’t it just that after Dani follows the army, he will give all the allowances to An Dani, and lose the one at home?

But the problem is that giving his allowance to his mother is a love affair, and not paying it is a duty.

How could mom take it for granted?

Zhang Dahai was not unclear about his mother taking his money and things to supplement his younger brother and sister.

At that time, he didn't know that An Dani had such great ability, so he just thought she was an ordinary peasant woman.

Therefore, he followed his mother to be a filial son whom he praised. His wife and children suffered grievances.

When he heard An Dani complain and cry, he would endure the impatient and persuade him. Then he would continue to maintain his character as a "filial son".

It’s different now. Zhang Dahai obviously felt the changes in his body. He didn’t want to miss the opportunity to become stronger and reach the peak.

My mentality has changed. When looking at problems, the same thing has a completely different feeling.

For example, if this scene was in front of you, if you saw Mrs. Niu playing the emotional card in tears, Zhang Dahai would definitely feel distressed and blame himself.

But now, Zhang Dahai is only impatient and complaining: Mom is so old and becoming more and more biased. She just wants to control her eldest daughter-in-law and money. She doesn't think about it. Other sons are reunited, and the family is harmonious. Her eldest son is working hard outside, but there is not even a person to take care of her!

When a couple is separated, it is not only women but also men suffer a lot.

Zhang Dahai is very committed to his career and thinks about how to develop in the army all day long, and temporarily ignores the various needs of being a man.

But every time I come back from a mission, I occasionally pass by the family yard and see those comrades, superiors, husband and wife, and father and son are harmonious. He is not unwilling to be envious of them.

He is a rural kid, without background and no great ability.

By joining the army early and going to the battlefield again, he was promoted to company commander.

But Zhang Dahai knew in his heart that this was probably his limit.

With his ability, let alone thinking about rising, it is difficult for him to sit steadily on the company commander's throne.

By chance, Instructor Xu discovered his filial and honest side. Although his comrades and superiors and subordinates were a little concerned about him, they became closer and closer to him.

The same thing is said, filial people will not have much bad character.

With his parents so partial, Zhang Dahai can still be filial to his elders. He would rather be wronged by himself and his wife and children than to continue to support his parents and younger siblings, which shows his good character.

Such people are trustworthy. In addition, although Zhang Dahai is not brave enough on the battlefield, his performance is also in moderation, and at least he will not drag his comrades down.

Therefore, his comrades regarded him as someone who could be entrusted to him.

Before, Zhang Dahai was an "filial son" out of instinct, but later, his "filial piety" was mixed with some utilitarian colors.

But now there is no need to use "filial son" as his magic weapon for survival in the army.

Because, he has a more powerful weapon - the army is a place where he speaks with strength, nothing is more important than becoming stronger by himself!

Realizing this, Zhang Dahai was no longer so obedient to Mrs. Niu, and even had a hint of dissatisfaction in his tone: "Mom, I went to the mountains to train last year, but I was accidentally injured and lay in the hospital for half a month. At that time, there was no one around me to serve me."

"Mom, I have been married for more than ten years, but I have been alone. In the past, conditions did not allow it, and I had no choice but to endure it. Now I have been promoted to company commander and can follow the army... You, at least I feel sorry for me!"

When Zhang Dahai talked to Mrs. Niu, Old Man Zhang kept sitting in the corner smoking a dry tobacco.

After hearing Zhang Dahai's words, Old Man Zhang's hand shook, and then he felt as if he was choked by smoke, and he started coughing violently.

Mrs. Niu and Mrs. Zhang have been married for many years and they all understand each other very well.

When he heard the sound was wrong, he hurriedly swallowed the crying and begging for the eldest son, and asked with a pretentious concern: "Old man, are you okay?"

Old Man Zhang waved his hand, coughed several times, and then said in a hoarse voice, "Dahai, your mother just thinks that you are busy with your career in the army, but forgets that you also need to take care of you. So, since you are qualified to be with the army, then take Da Nier and the child over."

"Old man--" Old Mrs. Niu was anxious and opened her mouth to remind her husband.

But Old Man Zhang gave Old Mrs. Niu a fierce look.

Old Mrs. Niu was immediately frightened.

"Dahai, your parents have given birth to five children. You are the eldest son and the most promising one. So, your parents have no other thoughts, just hope you can do your best in the army."

Old Man Zhang looked like a kind father and said heartily, "For the years, thanks to your care, my family has built a new house and married a wife to the second and third brothers. Even two young ones are all thanks to the money and things you sent back to be able to maintain this well."

"Dahai, my parents have such a good son as you. I have accumulated virtue in my previous life. However, you are no longer alone. After marrying a wife and having children, you will have to consider more for their mother and mother in the future. Dad understands all these!"
Chapter completed!