Chapter 32 Xu Dagen
When Xu Qiguang heard this, he understood what the old man was worried about. "No, you were also present at the time. Li Ke was all with us, Changqing. She gave up the pursuit first."
Naturally, some things should be reduced to trivial matters. A scare is a scare. If the news really spreads, the boy will get close to his sister-in-law. He is shameless, and the child is even more shameless.
"That's good." After saying that, Xu Dagen explained with some uneasiness, "It's not that I don't care about the big ones. We have to be reasonable. This time it is indeed not a small mistake."
"I understand." In addition to being reasonable, there are also people who have preferences, and his old man prefers the younger ones. Xu Qiguang nodded and walked towards his home intentionally to meet him.
Just understand. Xu Dagen glanced at his old son's face cryptically again, "Don't get angry, there is nothing to be ashamed of, every child will have such a day when he grows up."
What's more, Bai Mi's life is really worthy of her name. It's sweet and smooth. If she doesn't go as she wants, she'll make endless troubles.
The little one in our family is not like the older one. Like you, she is not willing to complain about any grievances she has, and is afraid that adults will worry about her. In the end, it is this honest child who suffers the most.
"The reason why our family never quarrels is because you are sensible and always give way to your two brothers. The younger one can do whatever you want. She is also sensible early and is willing to suffer. But what if this person keeps holding it in? It's not good."
Xu Qiguang nodded.
"That's how I am. I've suffered too much, and I feel aggrieved all the time. Earlier, I had a fight with your second uncle over some trivial matter. How are you doing now?"
The old brothers have a very good relationship. "My second uncle misses you the most. Even if he has half a piece of meat, he still wants to let you have a bite. There are few people who are as good as my second uncle."
No!
Xu Dagen was quite amused.
"Look at me and your third uncle and the others, we haven't even had a single quarrel. In the end, it's better to be close to your second uncle. What do you mean by real brothers? They are real brothers. After a fight, we get closer again."
"Okay, I'm not going to get angry." After saying that, Xu Qiguang paused and said, "Dad, actually, I've been thinking about it since the day when I was older and insisted on getting married and refused to listen to my arrangements until I finished high school."
Not surprisingly, Xu Dagen understands this feeling. The third child in his family has always been a good and well-meaning child. It is impossible for him to let his child go to school without having any ideas for follow-up arrangements.
In the final analysis, love is deep and responsibility is deep. After being disappointed too many times, I despair...Xu Dagen reached out and patted his old son on the shoulder, "You have done a good job. You can't help your mother when you are older."
Xu Qiguang smiled.
Seeing that his old son was finally willing to show a wry smile at this moment, Xu Dagen felt relieved. "Fortunately, our parents can teach this child as you please, and teach him slowly."
"Um."
"She feels a little aggrieved at the moment. It's not easy to be an honest child. I don't want her to follow my father's temper. I will take her to the city to buy more clothes when I have time."
Well, it seems that the old man was also stimulated by those words. Xu Qiguang couldn't help but chuckle. He didn't dress up the child. This child was stubborn.
Another thing is that his parents are actually not bad in appearance. He has an oval face, big eyes and a high nose, and looks good everywhere. He doesn't want his child to be too much better than ordinary people in all aspects.
He has experienced the sin of being burdened by reputation while living in the world. It's so difficult, how many pairs of eyes are staring at you, and if you don't comply, their eyes will either show pity or gloat at your misfortune.
He wished that his parents could stay away from all these disturbances. Even if his child was so smart that he could read at the age of three, and could recite a long ancient article smoothly at the age of five, he would not even dare to mention a single sentence in front of his mother.
"Your mother and I have money in our hands. Don't always try to stuff money into my hands in the future. I am already very old and can still spend a lot of money. You are indispensable for socializing outside."
"good."
This kid! As soon as Xu Dagen heard this, he knew that his old son had not listened to his words at all. Seeing that he was about to arrive at his old son's house, he had no choice but to give a hasty warning in a low voice.
"I'm so shameless. Once you pay off the debt, you won't owe your two brothers at all, do you understand? I won't let them go to school? It's because they don't have a chance."
"clear."
"Hi!" This kid, Xu Dagen, laughed angrily. "Your mother and I did not treat your brother and the others badly. It was your mother who spent her own money to become their apprentices."
Otherwise, how could he, a widower carrying a large bag and working as a coolie, be able to raise three children who lost their mothers early and teach each of them a trade?
"If you don't talk about your brother, let's talk about your sister. She will have to remember your mother's kindness all her life. If it weren't for your mother, how could she marry into the Shen family and live a good life."
Understood, Xu Qiguang nodded again. He knew that the old man wanted to tell him that even though he and the two brothers and sister above were not born from the same mother, his old son did not take any advantage.
But in fact, there are some things that only he knows in his heart, and that is not the case. Compared to the old man's great kindness, no matter how much he has given to the Xu family, it is not much.
"Even when your brother and his wife got married later, it was your mother who took care of it. When you got married and separated, I still made my old son suffer a big loss.
At that time, our family owed so much debt, and if you didn't let me tell your mother, my father kept it secret from you. In fact, it would be a lie to say that my father had no ideas and was selfish at the time.
Dad just wants you to be more promising than your brother and the others, so let's take the loss. Anyway, life is still long. It's an advantage for our brothers, and it will make them feel more comfortable.
They feel at ease. Maybe when your mother and I are gone, they will still remember that my father not only brought them a good mother, but also gave them a good brother."
I understand, so I am even more grateful to you. Besides, the two brothers above were not responsible for the money. At that time, he insisted on finding the best doctor and using the best medicine.
"Even if the three of them are ungrateful in the future, there are still so many people in our old Xu family who will not obey. Then what will my old son do if he doesn't have a son?"
At this point, Xu Dagen stopped and said all the words in his heart, "Let your wife just take care of the childbirth, no matter whether it is a son or a girl next, we are not afraid. There are people who are worried about things, according to my thoughts
It is better to train our young parents well so that we will not lose to our sons."
"good."
Xu Dagen patted his son on the shoulder and said, "Let's go and ask your mother to give us two something to chew. Is there any wine at home? Let's drink our fill today."
Du Kang was the only one who could relieve his worries. Xu Qiguang accepted the old man's kindness and responded: "Yes, the wine from last time is still there. It's a pity that I didn't buy any meat when I went to the city today."
"What kind of meat do you need when you have wine? Our family has a backer and we don't need this kind of meat at all. But it's not easy for you to be out alone. If you have tickets, save them first. It might be of great use."
Xu Qiguang didn't refute but just lived on the mountain. His father, who always secretly left good things to his juniors, only tasted meat once or twice a year, so he still nodded.
Chapter completed!