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16.3

In this way, Buli, inspired by Pi Xiaolu, drove to Huzhou on the afternoon of the same day.

Of course, Bu Li left Shanghai like this and needed to report to his family the reason to go to Huzhou.

Her reasons are very good, and it was also a coincidence that her own aunt, Zhou Ping's mother, happened to be recuperating in a sanatorium beside Taihu Lake in Huzhou at this time.

After going to Huzhou, the reason why she went to Wang Youjie's hometown in Anji was that she saw Wang Youjie's circle of friends that afternoon. The address shown in the following signature was Anji, Huzhou. I knew that Wang Youjie had returned to his hometown, so Bu Li finally made up her mind to come to Huzhou.

Bu Li’s idea was that day was the first day of the Dragon Boat Festival holiday. Since Wang Youjie returned to his hometown, it would be unlikely that he would only stay at home for one day, that is, at least he should still be in his hometown in Anji that night.

On the other hand, even if Wang Youjie was not at home, Bu Li had decided to retreat and thought that he would go to Huzhou to visit his aunt.

In this way, under the excuse of going to Huzhou to see my aunt, the parents at home agreed directly without any doubts or opinions.

The reason why she wanted to bring her cousin Zhou Ping to her hometown was because of her concerns. If she was the only one who had been with Pi Xiaolu, the two girls, Wang Youjie's house would be too popular and inconvenient.

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Buli stared at Pi Xiaolu: "You said it."

Pi Xiaolu thought for a while and said, "Sister Bu, tell us the truth first. Are you really anxious about your marriage now?"

"Year after year, do you say I can't be in a hurry now?"

Buli sighed and continued, "And I know that you, including all my relatives and friends, are also worried about me, and it seems that they have become a big concern for everyone."

Pi Xiaolu looked out of the windshield in front.

Bu Li was silent for a while before saying again: "Xiaolu, do you want to say that I am not suitable for him?"

"To be honest, this time I came to Huzhou and went to Wang Youjie's hometown in the countryside. This is the first time I have seen Sister Bu take the initiative in so many years." Pi Xiaolu did not look back and continued, "But I still want to hit you. In my personal opinion, I think you and Mr. Wang are inappropriate."

Zhou Ping remained calm.

Buli leaned against the chair, lowered his head and said nothing.

Pi Xiaolu turned his head and looked at Bu Li: "Sister Bu, as for the great truth, I remember what I told you before, do you still remember?"

Buli doesn't speak.

Pi Xiaolu let out a long sigh and said, "I still think what I said was right at the beginning. From the perspective of being a good match, you two are actually not very compatible."

"Xiaolu, what does it mean? According to your ideas, what kind of men and women are good at each other?" Zhou Ping, who was sitting behind, interrupted with a smile.

Pi Xiaolu did not look back and said that in ancient marriage, people emphasized the similarity of family relationships between men and women in terms of material conditions, social status, living habits, and family culture, and suitable for marriage. Simply put, the economic conditions and strength of the two families can match, so such love is considered a good match. Of course, in general, the male family is also required to be slightly better than the female family.

Of course, in modern times, this equality match has a new meaning. So, what kind of men and women in modern society is a new equal match?

"I personally think that marriage is similar to two families, and that the two families are equal to each other, so that the men and women in the family are matched together." Pi Xiaolu said,

"In modern people's marriage, a good match is still an important factor that needs to be considered. There is no good match in love, and you can do whatever you want. But we know that marriage is not a matter of two people. We say that marriage is a good match, which means that the social status and economic conditions of the two families are similar!"

Buli thought for a while and said, "You mean his family is too poor?"

"This is the fact, Sister Bu?" Pi Xiaolu smiled and said, "A simple example, with his current financial conditions, I'm afraid that if you buy a slightly decent house in Shanghai, you may not be able to get a down payment of 30, right?"

Buli looked at Pi Xiaolu with both eyes.

Pi Xiaolu thought about it and said, "I have seen many things, because when a woman was dating her husband, she found that her husband's family was very poor. They always thought that it doesn't matter if her husband was poor. I can work together with him to support this family."

But the fact is not the case.

Why do many girls choose to get married after they can't accept the pressure from the outside world? After a few years of marriage, they found that because of money, their husbands have a lot of bad tempers, and their mother-in-law's family had many problems, which led to their breakups? In the end, when she divorced, she would tell anyone around her that she must find someone who loves herself and a rich person?

"What she is actually looking for is not necessarily a rich man, but a family member. Poor is in the downtown area and no one knows about it, rich in the deep mountains and distant relatives. This sentence is really true."

Pi Xiaolu said: "It's not that he is poor and rich, but that his values ​​and his way of dealing with things are absolutely different from those of the poor and the rich."

The ceremony of the ritual does not sound.

"Sister Bu, you have to know that the core capital of a man in an intimate relationship is money and power. The core capital of a woman in an intimate relationship is appearance and tenderness." Pi Xiaolu said,
Chapter completed!
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