10.6
When they arrived in the city, Sister Zhou called his husband and asked him to go back first, and talk to Bu Li, Pi Xiaolu and the other three, and go back later tonight.
The three of them found a cafe near Buli's house. This cafe is where they often gather.
Sit down and order their own coffee or drinks.
After a while, the topics were all about Wang Youjie.
In fact, what Wang Youjie may not know yet is that today's so-called collective activity of picking oranges was originally specially prepared for him.
"Buli, I'm helping you wholeheartedly this time, do you know how to do it?" Sister Zhou sat opposite Buli and went straight to the point, "As far as I know, my leader is now being urged by his family to get married."
"He was also urged to get married? Didn't the information say that he was younger than me?" Bu Li heard from Sister Zhou that Wang Youjie was urged to get married by his family.
She still didn't believe it and said, "Isn't it normal for a man to not get married at his age?"
Pi Xiaolu added sugar to cappuccinori and smiled, "Yes, look around us. Shanghai boys and kids should basically get married after thirty, right?"
Sister Zhou smiled with apple juice and said, "In their countryside, Wang Youjie should be a few years old. So what's so strange about him being urged to get married?"
When it comes to urging marriage, the three of them don’t ring.
After drinking coffee, Bu Li sighed and said, "To be honest, I don't care about it very much. If there is, there is, if there is no, there is nothing, and this matter cannot be forced. But my poor mother, the blind date corner of People's Square, has become a place where I have to check in if I can't stop during the two holidays.
Sister Zhou looked at the cloth ceremony and didn't make a sound.
"At the beginning, I had to say a few words to me, but until now, I don't say anything anymore."
After a while, Bu Li fiddled with the spoon in his hand, and then said, "Now I understand. Although blind dates are not easy to accept in form, their parents' goodness to our children is what really touched me and what I care about now."
Pi Xiaolu put down the coffee cup and said, "However, if you talk about Wang Youjie today, Sister Bu, I would recommend you not to do so, and you can't consider him."
Bu Li and Sister Zhou looked at Pi Xiaolu with four eyes.
Pi Xiaolu faced their puzzled eyes, thought for a while, and said, "Three points. First, he is a foreigner or a country man from another place, and his quality is not good. Second, this person is too good at speaking and doesn't look interesting. Sister Bu, you are an art student, and the two of them are so inconsistent?"
Buli lowered his head and looked at the coffee cup in front of him in a daze.
"What's more?" Sister Zhou asked.
Pi Xiaolu looked at Buli and said carefully: "Last point, based on my understanding of your mother, even if everyone could agree to this matter, your mother would not agree to it in the end."
After Pi Xiaolu finished speaking, the three of them stopped talking for a while.
The atmosphere is cold.
It was still Sister Zhou who broke the embarrassment and asked Pi Xiaolu: "Have you read that Wang Youjie's information?"
Pi Xiaolu nodded and said, "I have seen it roughly, but I don't look very carefully. You should know that I have always been very cautious about local girls marrying outsiders."
Sister Zhou took out a few A4 papers from her bag, which were related to Wang Youjie’s personal information. Although it was relatively simple, it was quite comprehensive, and even had blood types, personal personality analysis, etc.
"This is copied by my good friend who I found in the unit to do hr." Sister Zhou said, "Xiaoxiao, you can take a look again. There are even physical examination reports organized by the unit every year."
Pi Xiaolu took it over and really started to read it.
"I want to say a few fair words for Wang Youjie. Buli, is that okay?" Sister Zhou looked at Buli.
Bu Li raised his head, slowly pointed it, and signaled her to say down.
Sister Zhou thought about it and sorted out her thoughts before saying, "I will tell you my own opinion on the three things Xiaoxiao said just now."
She said, 1. It seems that it is not a strange thing for Shanghai people to marry outsiders now, right? There are two pairs among our college classmates, and they were both discussed in college, so there is actually not much to discuss in this regard. The key point is that we should put aside prejudice. In fact, there are many excellent boys among outsiders, so what's wrong with them?
Pi Xiaolu obviously wanted to refute, but was gently pulled by Buli, who was sitting next to her.
"Second, you may have misunderstood it."
Indeed, people generally have the following descriptions of it: repressive, calm, calm, serious, cold and humorous, even unsatisfied with expression, dull, serious, ----, etc. I have actually heard many people talk about these adjectives myself.
Sister Zhou took a sip of juice and specifically emphasized: "But please believe that the emotional intelligence of it is actually not low at all, okay!"
Buli slowly stirs the coffee with a spoon.
"I am also in this industry, so I still know them relatively well."
Sister Zhou continued, I think that I can only say that the thinking of it may be slightly different from that of ordinary people. Perhaps in their minds, rationality accounts for a large part of their minds, and everything needs to be thought about and calculated. Moreover, because they often face relatively simple things like computers and mobile phones, it is generally not good at socializing. For example, it is mainly reflected in their lack of initiative, especially emotional matters, which are relatively passive. But then again, even if they are passive, they are very selective. If they like it, they like it, and if they don’t like it, they don’t like it.
"Can you give an example?" Pi Xiaolu interrupted.
Sister Zhou smiled and said, for example, when an IT man likes you, they usually communicate with you in the way they are most familiar with.---
“What way?”
"Of course it's mobile phones and computers." Sister Zhou smiled, because in the communication methods of IT men, the communication methods of social software are much easier to control than real face-to-face. Moreover, they will chat with you relatively frequently, and the chat content is very vivid and interesting, showing a sense of humor, and bringing those colorful expression pictures, which will even make you happy and laugh.
She said: "You know, an IT man usually doesn't know how to get a girl he likes to be amused by himself in front of him. So, if an IT man often chats with you, it means that he has been captured by you, or at least he has a high likes for you. Do you know how to do it?"
"That's true?" Buli asked.
Sister Zhou laughed and said, "I know that for the Its man, computers and mobile phones are simple, but we humans are complex."
At this time, it was already dark outside and the street lights gradually became bright.
The three of them ordered some cakes.
"Hey----." After a long time, Bu Li sighed and said to Sister Zhou, "I think he is actually okay in terms of personality."
She thought for a while and said, "I have been in contact with you three times and are relatively familiar with you, so I may have a different experience from Xiaolu. Although he speaks a little straightforwardly, he is obviously not bad in his heart, and I can still see this."
"That's because you saw me. I am a programmer myself, so I'm more likely to accept some of his shortcomings. Is it easy to beat?"
Sister Zhou joked and said, "But who dares to say that she is perfect and has no shortcomings?"
Buli eats cake without making any noise.
Pi Xiaolu said: "Sister Bu, don't be too anxious. Think carefully, or continue to see what you want?"
Sister Zhou smiled and said, "On Zhihu, I once saw a sentence that roughly means that it is best to find the right person within ten times of a blind date. Otherwise, the more you meet, the harder it is, and I don't know how long I will end."
The three of them ate the cake without saying a word.
Sister Zhou decided to strike while the iron was hot and said to Buli: "Why don't you two try to date first and walk down and take a look?"
Bu Li nodded, as if he was determined, and said, "But there are two things, you two want to keep it a secret for me."
Sister Zhou and Pi Xiaolu looked at Bu Li and asked, "What are your concerns?"
"First, don't tell my family members first. Also, don't tell your family members when you two are home. It's just the beginning, don't make everyone know about it. Do you know how to make it?" Bu Li said with his head down.
"Don't worry, we know this in our minds, it's so good?"
"The other point is the age gap. I am nearly four years older than him, which seems to be a hurdle, and it is not easy to get over. Don't tell him first."
Sister Zhou and Pi Xiaolu nodded and agreed, asking, "You should have his WeChat, right?"
Chapter completed!