Chapter 2489 The difference between the second marriage
The correct way of doing things will make something beautiful. Yan Ming's brain flexibility and attitude are in sharp contrast to his wife.
Yan Ming is a somewhat famous person in the town. He has always heard about the female teacher. After meeting him today, he feels that every successful person has similar reasons for success.
Yan Ming did not go to see his child. For the time being, he let the child think that his parents were busy and he could be taken care of by his grandparents. Children did not need to know too much. It was best to hide it if possible.
His house was burned down and he needed to rearrange his residence. His children had to go to school in the town, so Yan Ming went out for a walk and bought a new house built by a friend not far from the school. His
My friend had just built and renovated the house and wanted to move to the city, so he took over the house.
Yan Ming went directly back to his old house in his hometown, picked up his parents, and then went to a friend's restaurant to temporarily borrow a waitress. He paid three times the salary and asked her to be a nanny for a few days to take care of the elderly and children.
As for the child's real nanny, Yan Ming planned to make up for his previous mistakes this time and directly asked the company to help him publish an advertisement for hiring a highly educated and high-quality nanny at a high price.
He even promised that as long as the other party needs to take care of the children until he graduates from high school, Yan Ming will be responsible for arranging for the other party to work in Shennong Company. If the other party is not satisfied with the job, he can choose a compensation of 2 million to find a new job by himself.
This kind of salary is really very high, and it solves all the worries of highly educated people. They don't have to worry about being unemployed after finishing their nanny work and earning the money.
Of course, Yan Ming's requirements are also high. He not only has to take care of the child's daily life, but also takes care of the child's behavioral education, ideological education, and study supervision.
This job is challenging, but it also has high benefits. Because the annual salary is 200,000, it is very tempting in today's employment situation.
So when Yan Ming finished arranging things at home and returned to the company, Wang Juan told Yan Ming that she had received several resumes.
Yan Ming's current salary from the company is 600,000 yuan per year, which is still the money you have to take every month. With bonuses and other things included, the annual salary is more than 1 million.
It's a pity that his wife can no longer enjoy all that he worked hard for.
Yan Ming started the interview the next day, and soon chose a graduate from a key normal school. He majored in education. Being able to major in key points meant that he was not partial to subjects and could definitely focus on his children's education.
There was also the issue of the other party's character and quality. Yan Ming directly asked Wang Juan to obtain the other party's files, and even directly contacted some of her relatives and classmates through special methods. After direct investigation, he determined that this person was a good person.
There is no problem, the family education is perfect, and the mind is very healthy.
Yan Ming advanced half a year's salary and gave the other party three days to prepare and let her start work directly.
Yan Ming even thought about it, fearing that taking care of the elderly, cooking and washing clothes would affect her education of her children, so she hired a new housekeeper at a price higher than the market price.
The highly educated nanny can actually be called a personal trainer, and the housekeeper of the family. Yan Ming gave the other party enough privileges to beat and scold the children, to supervise the other nanny, and to keep and distribute the children's pocket money.
Buying seasonal clothes, daily expenses at home, etc., as long as you do the right things, you can basically do it, but the requirements are very simple, the elderly must be taken care of, and the children must be educated well.
The other party received an annual salary of 200,000 yuan, and Yan Ming was guaranteed a lifetime of employment, so he was naturally ready to go to work happily.
Yan Ming finally breathed a sigh of relief. Sure enough, this
In society, if you have money, you can do whatever you want. If your wife is not married well, then divide the wife's work and hire a few people to do it. It is obviously better than the wife, so why do you need her to do it?
In two days, Yan Ming took care of things at home. This efficiency impressed even Yu Fei. He was worthy of the management talent he had cultivated step by step. His efficient way of doing things did not delay work and family, and he even handled it.
Very perfect.
After doing this, while having dinner together, Yan Ming seriously apologized to Wang Juan and Shouhou, and then told others that his family affairs were settled and that everyone did not need to worry about him. This is the responsibility of an adult.
When Yu Fei finished doing this, he glanced at Lin Keyin, and Lin Keyin nodded in admiration. As for his family, Lin Keyin's family was a failure, otherwise he would not have gotten together with Xu Guangqi at this age.
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Therefore, her professional skills are mainly focused on work. In fact, she is not good at handling family affairs.
Yan Ming, who was born in a poor family, is very diligent. Now he manages the most important business behind him. Not only does he do a good job, but he also handles housework so decisively and methodically. This caused Lin Keyin to immediately look at him with admiration.
Now, I don’t feel that I have much superiority because of my professional background.
This is the world of adults. I just started to get to know you. I can’t understand you deeply. So I will get to know you through your academic qualifications, your experience, and your achievements. But after getting along for a long time, I will understand you.
The inherent impressions of the past will change, and then you can re-examine a person.
Of course, after the previous farce, the gossip in Yan Ming's family was enough for many employees in the company to chat for a long time. This is unavoidable, people are like this, gossip is also natural, but when gossiping, the judgment of things and the judgment of a person
Evaluation depends on the quality and discernment of the person doing the gossip.
In the next few days, Yan Ming went back to work, as if nothing at home had happened. He behaved very calmly, no different from before.
But Yu Fei and others always felt that there was no reaction at all, which seemed abnormal.
Sure enough, on the fourth day of the divorce, Yan Ming took the initiative to call Yu Fei and his gang to get drunk at night.
A group of men were sitting at the table, and Yan Ming was drinking. He kept pouring himself wine and deliberately lost when playing, just to have a few more drinks.
This may be the difference between men and women. Women usually cry a lot when this happens, but they get better day by day. But men feel relaxed and free at the beginning, and they don't notice any changes.
As time goes by, after a few days, you will gradually come back to your senses, and then one day it will suddenly collapse.
At this time, the role and value of brothers are revealed. Don’t say anything, just drink with them and that’s it.
There are feelings in wine, stories in wine, comfort in wine, encouragement in wine, everything is in wine.
Yan Ming was sent back drunk. Because of his crazy operation, he was the only one who was drunk today, while everyone else was fine.
So those who were not drunk and didn't feel happy, after sending him back, came back and sat at the table.
"Yan Ming is a little older than us, and more mature. He is a senior and a junior. He is not good at expressing the pain in his heart, but I think he must be very uncomfortable in his heart!"
After everyone sat down, Shouhou said that this was not to gossip about Yan Ming, but to express his own thoughts. In fact, they started this because they wanted to help Yan Ming solve this problem.
"Isn't this nonsense? Look at him, he just grabbed the wine on the table and drank it all."
Sun Laizi rolled his eyes and said.
"If you have any ideas, just tell me, such as how to make his life sweeter!"
Yu Fei spoke.
"Giving money will definitely not work. He is not short of money, and he doesn't like to spend money. These days may be the most money he has spent on himself recently."
Zhao Nan spoke. He seldom spoke at ordinary times because Yan Ming took good care of him. When he first came, Yan Ming saw that he had no work experience, so he taught him for a long time, so he became both a teacher and a friend.
Zhao Nan is right. Yan Ming usually only buys a few packs of cigarettes, wears some clothes and doesn't buy new ones. He has very little desire to spend money on himself.
All the money this man earned before was spent by his wife. Unfortunately, that woman would only give the money to others at the mahjong table.
This time, in order to deal with the impact of his own decision on his family, he spent five to six hundred thousand on buying a house, hiring people, etc. It was the first time in the past few years that he had spent it well like this.
Money earned by oneself at one time.
"Then you can't give me a candy, right?"
Scar said helplessly, these people have been talking for a long time, but it is all nonsense.
"To untie the bell, you must tie the bell. The loneliness I felt before was that I had no home and no relatives. Now the problems have been solved. This is also true for Yan Ming. He suddenly has no wife and no one to sleep with. When people arrive,
If you are suddenly single in middle age, you will not feel ecstasy, but will feel lonely and helpless. Even if his previous wife talks nonsense, there is at least one person who will talk to you."
Xu Guangqi, who rarely cares about these private matters, also spoke up. Today, he actually said something that someone who had experienced it empathized with.
His words immediately convinced everyone. This was real experience. He had experienced losing his spouse in middle age, so he understood Yan Ming's feelings best.
"Professor Xu means to arrange for another woman?"
Yu Fei saw that Xu Guangqi had not said the final summary, so he helped Xu Guangqi say it.
"It can't be said like this. Relationships are not about casual pairing, nor about visiting brothels. Two people must feel suitable and comfortable to form a family. Otherwise, it will just be a temporary impulse and a short-term mutual comfort, which will easily make people feel worse afterwards.
Feeling lost and lonely, and even afraid of being close to the opposite sex.”
Xu Guangqi actually thought that Yu Fei might have misunderstood, and corrected Yu Fei's statement.
"Sure enough, every elder in the family is like a treasure. What Professor Xu said is so good, applause!"
After hearing this, Shouhou took the lead and shouted to others to start applauding Xu Guangqi, which made Xu Guangqi feel a little embarrassed.
"What exactly should we do?"
Yu Fei was a little puzzled. After all that Xu Guangqi said, he actually still wanted to find a woman for Yan Ming, but the method and the person he was looking for seemed different from what he thought. Is there anything else he had to say?
"This can be learned from Sledgehammer's method, but it must also be changed. I think we can first create opportunities to let him get in touch with more women. Then, he now has two old people and a child. This cannot be hidden. From now on,
We must let people know from the beginning, and we must not let people think that we are cheating on our marriage. Only by accepting this can we further understand and cultivate feelings. Once we conceal it, it may lay hidden dangers for Yan Ming's future life."
Xu Guangqi, as an experienced person, began to give guidance to everyone, especially regarding Yan Ming's family situation for women. He strongly requested and suggested not to hide it, and not to act as if he had helped Wang Dachui before. Yu Fei followed with constant guidance using a Bluetooth headset. Fortunately, Su Jie felt that
Chapter completed!