73, chapter seventy-three(1/2)
The ward has a good lighting, the sun is rising, and the house is full of sunshine.
Two people, one big and one small, are confronting each other.
Lu Ze did not rush to speak, but looked at the little boy quietly.
A seven or eight-year-old child is between ignorance and enlightenment. Good and evil are not so clear, right and wrong are not so clear, and they need good and good guidance from elders the most.
Judging from what he saw and heard this morning, the situation in his family is quite complicated.
A father who never shows up.
A stepmother whom his father married back.
A grandmother who looks down on her daughter-in-law.
With such a family structure, I think you can know what kind of life a child lives: the father is not often at home and is mostly with his stepmother, but the grandmother mercilessly belittles her stepmother in person and calls her a stepmother of a mean stepmother.
This grandma doesn't live with him normally.
On weekdays, basically no one is close to him.
Lu Ze didn't say anything, and the little boy's face was tightly tight, looking back at Lu Ze without being outdone.
He didn't know what Lu Ze was going to say to him, but he instinctively felt that Lu Ze had no malice to him.
The two of them confronted each other quietly for a long time, but the little boy couldn't help but speak: "What are you going to say to me?"
Lu Ze asked straight to the point: "Do you think you did the right thing?"
The little boy was a little stunned and didn't quite understand why Lu Ze asked that.
What's wrong with him doing it? He has always been like this, and no one has ever said that he's doing it wrong.
He had a tense face and refused to answer the question.
Seeing the little boy with a confused look on his face, Lu Ze was kind-hearted and tempted: "You are sick, who will send you to the hospital as soon as possible?"
The little boy stammered for a moment, but still didn't say anything.
Every time he gets sick, his stepmother will drive him to the hospital as soon as possible, go in and out to complete the hospitalization procedures for him, and take him to do various examinations.
But grandma said that she was a bad woman. She married into the Dai family and wanted to replace her mother's position. She was just acting like him, and she was not at all kind-hearted.
Lu Ze asked patiently: "You have been in the hospital for so long, where is your father?"
When the little boy heard Lu Ze's question, tears immediately sank in his eyes.
Grandma said that with her younger brother and sister, her father also favored her younger brother and sister and would never like him again.
Now that he is sick, his father flew to another place to discuss business with others and did not intend to see him at all.
Lu Ze recalled the case of the little boy, looked at the little boy and said, "Eight years old, not young anymore. You can't just listen to others, you have to think about it yourself." Lu Ze asked again, "Do you think you did the right thing?"
When facing Lu Ze's gaze, the little boy couldn't hold it in his arms and cried aggrievedly: "What's wrong with me? I'm not wrong. It's all the blame for that woman. If she doesn't marry her father and doesn't give birth to a younger brother and sister, I will still be the father's favorite child!"
Lu Ze was kind and tempted: "Your father loves your younger brother and sister very much?"
The little boy is dumb.
Their father spends little time at home and does not particularly love his younger brothers and sisters.
Every year, their birthday gifts and birthday parties are asked to help prepare for their living assistants. If they have work to work, their father will not even come back to celebrate their birthdays with them.
Lu Ze easily learned the facts from the boy's expression.
A person's nature will not change just by saying it. He will not care about the first child, nor will he care about the second or third child too much.
Such families are probably the "widowed education" that many people talk about now. They put all the responsibilities of raising children on the mother of the child. They only tease the child when they occasionally think about it and enjoy the fun of being a father.
A father who truly cares about his children will never marry a woman and take care of the children.
Wei's father is a good example.
Just talking about the province, Wei's father is called "richest man", but Wei's father would go home on time almost every day to accompany his wife and children, and would ask his children to come back on weekends to get together for the whole family. He would never neglect his family to make money.
With divorces like them and family combined with family, it is difficult to count how many people can be as harmonious as the Wei family.
All feelings need to be managed.
The little boy's father gave all three children in the family to his second wife with a simple word "busy", which completely regarded taking care of the family as his wife's responsibility.
Lu Ze said: "I am frank, your father is not a qualified father, nor is he a qualified husband."
But the little boy didn't like to hear Lu Ze say this and asked fiercely: "Why do you say that to my father? If my father hadn't worked hard to make money outside every day, who would have supported us!"
This is obviously what the little boy's grandmother often says in his ears.
Making money to support a family is indeed important, and it is indeed a great effort.
For some families who can't even afford to eat, it is indeed a good father to go out and work hard to make money to support their families. But for this little boy's family, what they need to solve is more than just food and clothing.
In terms of money, their family has money that ordinary people can't spend in their lifetimes.
Lu Ze said: "You are not short of food, drink, and you are not short of money. You usually have someone to deliver whatever you want. You can play whatever you want. But I don't think you are very happy," Lu Ze said in a calm tone, "Do you think it's enough for you to make money outside?"
The little boy couldn't say "enough" against his will.
Lu Ze looked at the little boy steadily: "It seems that it should not be enough for you, so do you think he is a qualified husband for his wife?"
The little boy kept silent.
He wanted his father to accompany him, and he wanted his father to attend his parent-teacher meeting like other people's fathers, take him to the playground to have fun, and the whole family celebrated the festival happily.
But his mother is gone and his father is not at home all day.
The only thing he could see was his stepmother, and everyone said she was not a good person.
Everyone says that, isn't that the case?
My father doesn’t accompany him, he doesn’t accompany his younger brothers and sisters, nor does he accompany his stepmother. Will the stepmother and younger brothers and sisters be as sad as him?
The little boy's tears fell down, feeling extremely aggrieved.
When he was a child, he was also deceived by his stepmother, but his stepmother soon had a younger brother and sister.
Everyone says that stepmother is a bad woman, and he also thinks that stepmother is very bad and often deliberately bullies his younger brother and sister.
At the beginning, my stepmother would say a few words to him, but later my stepmother stopped talking about him and just let her younger brother and sister stay away from him.
He has nothing, his younger brother, sister and mother.
He doesn't want his stepmother. Grandma said he is the eldest son of the family and that the family's money will be his. Sooner or later, he will let his stepmother and younger brothers and sisters get out of here.
He doesn't want that woman to be his mother.
"You have to think about it carefully," Lu Ze didn't care about the boy's resistance and slowed down his voice. "Whether it is right or wrong, good or bad, don't just listen to others' words, you have to judge it yourself. You believe whatever others say, and you will only live a confused life. You must remember that even if it is just verbal malice, it is a hurting knife. If you cut it down with one knife, even if the injury can heal, it will leave a scar that will never be erased. Once the injury is deep, no one will be willing to stay by your side."
The little boy thought of his stepmother's increasingly cautious attitude, and his small fists clenched tightly.
This time, he did not retort angrily.
No one talked to him like this before. They would only tell him "she is not good", "don't trust her", "you have to be careful of them", and no one taught him to distinguish right from wrong, and be ill-intentioned. He bullied his younger brothers and sisters, and they all said he did a good job; he said that his father and stepmother were partial, and they immediately responded: "With a stepmother, there would be a stepmother."
In fact, he rarely saw his father when he didn't marry his stepmother.
He is a smart person, and he will think about it himself.
They left after scolding their stepmother, but he lived with his stepmother every day. In the past few years, the stepmother had never done anything to harm him. Instead, he always bullied his younger brother and sister.
After a while of quiet, the little boy said, "I understand."
Lu Ze raised his hand and rubbed his head: "A real man, don't vent his emotions on innocent people. If you feel that you have done something wrong, correct it; if you feel ashamed of others, apologize; if you want something, fight for it yourself."
The little boy nodded.
He glanced at Lu Ze secretly and felt that the palm that had just touched his head was warm.
If someone else treated him as a child and rubbed his head, he would definitely be very angry and asked the other party to get away, but Lu Ze's actions made him a little inexplicably happy.
The little boy couldn't help but take a sneak peek at Lu Ze's badge and looked straight at the words "Lu Ze" written on it.
This doctor is called Lu Ze!
He has already written it down and will not forget it!
Seeing that the little boy's emotions were stable, he did not look like he was swaying to anyone at the beginning, Lu Ze did not stay much and went out to explain what happened just now to the director of the cardiology department responsible for the little boy.
This is the patient in charge of the head of the cardiology department. These situations must be explained clearly to the attending physician, so that people cannot feel that they are rushing to show.
The director of the cardiology department had just arranged for the little boy's grandmother to have a checkup. Seeing Lu Ze came over and said with a smile, "I understand, don't worry, I don't have ten or eight of these patients every year, so I will let him go back to school healthy."
Lu Ze nodded, meaning that he trusted the medical skills of the director of cardiology very much.
The director of the cardiology department also knew Lu Ze's personality and did not care about his taciturnity at all.
This young man is keen, careful, and enthusiastic, and he is down-to-earth and thoughtful. Where can I find such a good young man?
The Director of Cardiology enthusiastically dug Lao Yan's foot: "I remember last time you participated in the surgical robot project. Do you want to transfer it to our hearts? I promise, if you turn it around, the surgical robot upstairs of the Cardiology Department will be available to you."
Lu Ze said: "It's good for me to stay in cardiac surgery now."
The director of the cardiology department was not disappointed, and patted Lu Ze on the shoulder kindly and asked him to go there.
The industry circle is just that big. He had heard earlier that the capital had been thinking about digging out Lao Yan's corner. Since Lu Ze did not agree to poach people from the capital, he naturally just mentioned casually, not really thinking that he could dig up people.
To be continued...