Chapter 144: Not Only One Family Has Changed (2)
"I, I want to think about it, think about it again..."
The frown that had already been frowned even tighter, and the red and gray shining in the smoke pot was brighter, and the old man's entire figure was almost flooded by the smoke he squirted out.
"What are you thinking about? A big man is actually worse than me and a woman. He doesn't even have some decisiveness!" Aunt Yang pushed her husband with disgust. It's true. She is old and even has a grandson. She looks cowardly and has not made any progress.
"Old man, is it true? You are giving me a word? I've told you. Can our family be expected to jump out of the farm like the old Han family? It depends on the current ritual today." Aunt Yang said.
"I, I want to think about it again, think about it again..."
"Think about it, just think about it! When you think it through, the daylily will be cold! Okay, if you can't figure it out, I'll tell my sons myself!" Aunt Yang looked impatient and took out the appearance of a hero in the girls and made a decision.
"But……"
"What, I've decided, do you have any objections?" Aunt Yang's eyes bulged and her eyebrows raised, and her husband immediately did not dare to say anything.
This has always been the case with their family. If Aunt Yang doesn't make a decision directly, then the two of them will discuss it. If they agree, then Aunt Yang will make a decision directly. Of course, the facts have proved that Aunt Yang's decision has almost never been wrong.
"Let's go out and talk to your sons and let them make their own decisions." After saying that, Aunt Yang pushed the door and walked out first.
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"Dad, mom." Aunt Yang's sons and daughter-in-law hurriedly stood up.
"Master, grandma, sit down!" The voice of Maotou's nipples sounded, and he also helped Aunt Yang to bring the chairs over.
"Be good." Aunt Yang gently rubbed her beautiful grandson's little face and smiled.
"Mom, is this happening?" The brothers exchanged glances, and Aunt Yang's eldest son stood up and asked in a low voice.
"Well, your father and I plan to split the family for your brothers." Aunt Yang threw out a bomb lightly, almost shattering several sons and daughter-in-law together.
"Dad, mom, what happened? Why did you suddenly talk about the separation?!" Several sons asked at a loss.
"This tree is a big fork, what's so strange about the big family?" Although the old man was hesitating inside, he was absolutely supportive of his wife when he was outside, or when he was facing his sons and daughters-in-law.
Fearing from his wife is a glorious tradition in their family. If it weren't for this, the old woman in her family had such good conditions and the conditions for marrying her were much better than that of him, how could she look down on him as a farmer who was digging food in the soil?
Not to mention that the sons have married the daughters of someone with very good family conditions. Therefore, the status of their wives is much higher than that of ordinary families.
This is true for his previous generation, he is like this, and his son is also the same due to his influence. The future grandchildren should be similar. This is called teaching by example and there is nothing to be ashamed of!
"Okay, don't talk too much. Listen carefully to what your mother said. Come on, old woman, tell me." The old man looked like a terrible person.
"Yeah." Aunt Yang cleared her throat and then spoke, "Actually, seriously, I plan to split up a few of your brothers today... This matter must start with Han Zhu's house next door."
Aunt Yang didn't say nonsense, and directly told the news that the wet nurse brought back to her sons.
"Okay, that's how things happened." It took Aunt Yang a while to explain the matter clearly.
"But mom, what does Shitou and the others go to study have to do with whether our family is divided?" Aunt Yang's eldest son was confused.
"Master, listen to my mother finishes talking and ask." The eldest daughter-in-law gently pulled the corner of her man's clothes, and a thoughtful expression appeared on her face.
In fact, it is not just the eldest daughter-in-law, but the second and third daughter-in-law next to her also look like they have realized something. In sharp contrast to these young daughter-in-law, the same confusion of the men in the head.
Looking at the scene in front of him, Aunt Yang couldn't help but sigh secretly. Compared to these young wives who married into the house, these sons of her family were really too "wooden".
Really, this old man always says to raise a child to follow his mother, but except for her face, her sons look like her, why is his head and his temperament the same as her "stupid" wife!
Helplessly, no matter how much wood is, it is also the wood that crawled out of her intestines, so she had no choice but to recognize it!
Forget it, I would just break it apart and break it up and explain it to my son. Otherwise, these stupid guys in her family would really not know which one is right!
But because of this, Aunt Yang became more determined to send her grandchildren to school, and her son was like this. What if her grandchildren passed on to their father's unbending head?! She couldn't teach her (or she wouldn't even have no idea about her son). Then it would be better to let her teacher teach her in school!
However, this is also a matter for the future. Now that it is the top priority to clarify the matter with your son!
Thinking of this, Aunt Yang looked at her sons...
"I don't think I need to say the benefits of reading. You should all be clear about it... Even if you couldn't see it before, now there is a ready-made example of Erdan from our village. I think you should be able to understand it clearly."
The sons nodded. They were not stupid. Such an obvious thing would be for their mother to say.
You can make money by using the loess and the back is facing the sky, and you don’t have to be drenched in the soil and dig food in the sun and rain. You can sit in the store comfortably and dial the beads and make money. And you even bought a house in the town. It’s enviable to think about it.
"But the same is true, I think you should know how much the study cost. Before Erdan got up, I think you also saw what kind of life he lived in his family." Next, Aunt Yang changed the subject and added another sentence.
The sons were filled with their hearts. Similarly, it was the hard days of Erdan's family. Even if the villagers knew that if they could read this book, they would have a great future, once they were asked to send their children to school, at least eight or nine of them would be thrilled in these ten areas.
"If I just follow the village scholars, I won't force it. It's not that I look down on the village scholars, but compared to the Feng family school, the village scholars are indeed far behind. You know, the Feng family school is praised and envied by the eldest son of my mother's master back then. If Shi Tou and his brothers were willing to share the books copied from the Feng family school, and were willing to go on a busy day and during the busy season, the situation would be completely different."
"Based on the relationship between our two families, my aunt was the one who was the one who was in charge of my family, and now I will help you Brother Han Zhu find a problem to supplement the schooling of Shi Tou and his brothers. When Shi Tou and his cousins were taking a few cousins, I think it would be fine to let our children follow along."
"In this way, there is a scholar from the village head in front and a three Shitou brothers to help with it. As long as our grandchildren can study, their future will be expected, at least they will never be worse than the Erdan in our village!"
"So, if possible, your father and I still hope to let our children go to school together, but we don't have the ability." At this moment, Aunt Yang's eyes flashed with helplessness, "Under our family's conditions, we can live a life of one or two alone. If there are more, I'm afraid..."
"Boss, eldest daughter-in-law."
"mother."
"mother."
Aunt Yang's eldest son and daughter-in-law stood up and listened to Aunt Yang's instructions respectfully.
"Only the grandchildren now have grown up and only one of them can study. So whether they are allowed to study depends on your husband or wife."
"But don't blame my mother for being cruel and saying this ugly thing first. If you, or your brother, choose to send your child to study, then my mother will split the family for your brothers immediately!"
"It's not that my mother doesn't want to support her grandchildren. It's really because our family can't afford all the grandchildren to read this book together! For example, if we use our family to support Maotou to study alone, you will be relaxed, but the palms and backs of the hands are all flesh. Maotou is my grandchildren, and his younger brothers are also my grandchildren. Similarly, your younger brothers' children are also my grandchildren."
"In my mother's heart, everyone is generally important. Just treat the water equally. If I treat the young man like this, then I will have to treat other grandchildren the same way in the future. But your mother and your father don't have the ability to afford it!"
"It is obviously unfair to other grandchildren to pay for the only one and ignore others. Especially if you are younger brothers, even if you don't say this, after a long time, you may be unhappy..."
"Son (daughter-in-law) dare not!" Aunt Yang's other sons, daughter-in-law, hurriedly expressed her opinion.
"Yes, I don't dare, not! Okay, you don't need to explain it anymore. This is human nature. After getting married, you will naturally have your own family. In addition to the elder brothers and sisters, you should still forget your roots, your own family, your own wife, and your son, you should give priority to taking care of them. So even if the brothers have this idea in the future, it would be correct! Besides, even if you brothers don't have this idea, you still have a wife~"
"Daughters-in-law, don't dare!" several wives said hurriedly. Aunt Yang said this a bit heartbroken. To be serious, isn't this saying that they are disrespectful to their parents and mother-in-law, and are careful to make the whole family feel disloyal!
The hat is a bit big. If they recognize it, it will be spread out and they will not see anyone in Xiaxi Village in the future.
Not only that, the younger sisters and even cousins below them don’t think they can marry a good family in the future. After all, no matter who they are, they will not easily consider a daughter who will teach a "scrambler" who will cause disagreement between husband and wife, right?
Looking at the fearful and terrifying appearance of several daughters-in-law, Aunt Yang couldn't help but laugh.
"What are you doing? Don't worry, I'm not teaching you a lesson. My mother also came from a wife who is a human being. It's understandable that you think so seriously. These people need to be able to emptied their own family to help without regard for their own abilities, regardless of their children and grandchildren, and without any return. That's a careless person~" Aunt Yang said so fragilely. She heard her husband and sons next to her, and she was so black-haired and coughed.
"Why are you coughing?, can you say something wrong?!" Aunt Yang pulled her face down and fired at her husband and sons.
"Well~, that's right, your mother is right." The cowardly wife of the second wife.
"Mom is right!" A few brothers who were deeply influenced by his father and never dared to twist his mother's absolutely authoritative follow him immediately.
The father and son looked like a coward, and the young wives who seemed a little nervous and terrified could not help but laugh secretly, and at the same time they had a further understanding of the absolute authority of mother-in-law at home.
"Of course, this is not to teach you to care about yourself and ignore your brothers. What I do is to tell you that this is more about being a human being. This old saying goes well, helping you, but not helping you. Unless you can be sure to give people enough rewards, no one will take it seriously and will have to help you! It's too far, it's too far, let's continue to talk about studying this time..."
"This time my parents can't help you. If you have the family, you can decide whether to send your children to study. I hope you will be mentally prepared for a few years or even longer, just like the Erdan family."
"I don't want to..., you are not young, except for your youngest son, all of you have already started a family and become parents. We don't have to teach you how to use this money. With this money, whether you plan to save it to build a house and buy land in the future, or save it yourself to squander it, let us not care about it!"
Aunt Yang's words are already very clear. The opportunity to study is very good now, and the possibility of learning is also quite great. If possible, Aunt Yang hopes that her grandchildren can seize this opportunity to study. However, if they want to support everyone in their studies, the money at home is not enough.
She was afraid that if she would support her children, and if she didn't support her children, she would cause conflicts among her brothers in the future, so she simply refused to support her and divided her family and let them make their own decisions.
If you are willing to endure hardships and offer your son a sacrifice, then he will give it his own, and he will also suffer the consequences of eating braised vegetables and cannot drag down other brothers.
If she doesn't want to offer money, she just needs to live her own life after taking the money and land for the family. She doesn't force her.
How to choose depends on their own decisions.
Chapter completed!