"Mom, can you come to Beijing to live next to me? You can help Jiang Xi take care of her children when you come. If you don't want to huddle with everyone, I'll rent a house for you."

My mother said, "I have thought about this question, but I still don't want to go. My mother has a bad personality and can't get along with others. I'm worried that I will affect your small family. If you rent a house for me, you will have to spend a lot of money every month. It's better to buy a house for me. I want to have my own place, do you think it's okay?"

I didn't say anything, I felt very uncomfortable. I didn't know what I could say. I could understand my mother's desire to have a house of her own, but I really don't have that ability now.

Maybe I felt my embarrassment, and my mother said, "I also know that your wife needs to prepare some money to have a baby, but what I think is, if the children are healthy and everything goes well, it won't cost much money. Then can you still make 9,000 yuan a month? Nine,000 yuan is a lot. My mother is old and can't make much money. I feel that our house is also rising so fast. I'm afraid that it will be too late to buy it, and 80,000 yuan is not enough. I originally wanted to go to the bank to make a loan. I asked the staff, and people think I'm too old and don't lend it to me. Then, I understand your embarrassment, so I think, after buying this house, you'll write your name. Do you think it's okay?"

She said this, and I really can't refuse it at once. It was because she gave birth to me and raised me. She suffered a lot for the three of us siblings in her life. In her later years, I can't raise her now. It's because I'm incompetent, so I don't have the right to blame her for wanting to be selfish in front of me.

I thought about it and said, "Mom, can I discuss it with my wife?"

My mother was silent for a while and said, "Okay!"

This sound seems to be mixed with a lot of complex emotions.

My mother handed my eldest sister the phone again, and my eldest sister said a few more words.

"Brother! I also know you are in a dilemma. Please discuss with Jiang Xi and decide based on your situation. Your second sister and I think there is no need for my mother to buy a house by themselves, but we can't persuade her to have a personality. Then, when you mentioned that you live with Jiang Xi and her mother in Beijing, my mother didn't say anything, I feel that she is also wronged..."

When my elder sister said this, I didn't fully understand what she meant until she finished the second half.

"You think, my mother has worked hard to give birth to you and raised you with great effort. Now it's just that I feel that you are going to raise someone else's mother. She doesn't say it, but she feels a little uncomfortable."

After my elder sister explained it clearly, I could understand my mother more. I thought it was natural for me to feel a little wronged. I also knew that my elder sister had no malice, but just expressed her true feelings.

"I know my elder sister. When my mother is older and needs someone to take care of her, I will definitely bring her to her."

"My sister knows that you are a filial child, but you have a weak personality and sometimes you can't help it. You have to take care of Jiang Xi's feelings."

She actually meant that I am filial, and if Jiang Xi doesn't want to be filial to my mother, I will be helpless.

"Sister, Jiang Xi is a reasoning person."

When I said this, my elder sister didn't say anything, probably because she kept her opinion.

After all, it takes time to verify the relationship between people, so I didn't say much.

"I will go back and discuss with Jiang Xi to see what to do about this."

"Okay! Then let's have a quit. If the child is born, tell us as soon as possible!"

"good!"

After hanging up the phone, I thought about this for a long time in my mind. After thinking about it, I didn’t know how to talk to Jiang Xi.

Hmm! I worried her again.

I was a little absent-minded during supper.

Jiang Xi was very nervous and saw that I was worried. After dinner, she said to me, "Husband, please accompany me out for a walk."

"Oh! OK!"

As soon as we went out, she held my hand and said, "Tell me, what's the matter? Isn't it convenient to say it in front of my mother?"

I looked at her depressedly, and suddenly I remembered what her mother once said: Jiang Xi cared about you too much and paid too much attention to you, so, when you opened your mouth, she knew what you were going to say, and when you pouted, she knew how many shits you were going to pull. Even if you didn't do anything, just blinking in front of her, she knew how many little ghosts there were in your belly...

This is my wife, I have nothing to hide from her.

I thought about it and described the whole thing to her from the most objective perspective, but I hid what my elder sister said. My mother felt a little wronged about raising someone else's mother.

As a result, what I didn't expect was that I didn't say this, but Jiang Xi seemed to hear it.

She said, "I can understand your mother very much. She has to raise her son, but now she is staying in Beijing to raise someone else's mother. She will definitely feel unbalanced."

I looked disbelief, "Wife, how could you feel like this?"

Jiang Xi smiled and said, "I am also a woman. I am in my heart. Your mother has suffered so much. Just a son like you. If I were your mother, I would definitely feel wronged."

Me, "..." I really don't know what I can say.

Jiang Xi continued, "Actually, I think most divorced women will have a bit inferiority complex. My mother is optimistic on the surface, but in fact she also hides inferiority complex in her heart. A woman's marriage represents the success or failure of this life. But many people don't think about it or admit it. Therefore, marriage is really too important for women."

I stood on her side and hugged her neck. My belly was too big to hug her anymore. I said, "Wife, I can give you too little material things in my life, but I promise you that I will not let you go through a failed marriage unless you don't want me."

She covered my cheek with her backhand, smiled and kissed my chin and said, "Frankly, I finally got you cheated, how could there be that day when I don't want you!"

I smiled! My eyes were sore and my heart was warm.

She smiled happily and beautifully!

I asked, "Would you blame my two sisters? They are both richer than me, but they just don't give it to my mother and insist on making things difficult for me."

Although I didn't blame my sister and my mother, I think ordinary daughters-in-law should think so.

As a result, my Jiang Xi always amazes me, whether it is appearance or thought.

She shook her head and said, "What right do I have to not allow others to be selfish? Even I am a selfish person. No one in this world is not selfish. No matter how good you do on the surface, they all have their own hidden selfishness and purpose. So, what qualifications do I have to blame them?"

When I listened to Jiang Xi's words, I felt that every word seemed to be engraved in my heart. My wife, she seemed to be different from others. Why do I think she was like a philosopher?

"What's more, when my mother was sick, they were reluctant, so they still borrowed us 10,000 yuan. I couldn't repay the kindness of a drop of water. But I couldn't forget the kindness that others had lent us 10,000 just because I wanted to borrow 20,000 yuan. From this point of view, I think your eldest sister and second sister are not bad people, but everyone has their own reservations, which is normal, right?"

My eye sockets were a little wet and my voice was wilted, "Wife! You're right!"

If she said the words just now were like a philosopher, then these words were like she was an understandable, humane philosopher.

"Then what should we do about this? We have to keep money even if we have nothing to do with it! What if we have nothing to do with it?" This is the most embarrassing thing for me.

Jiang Xi thought for a while and said, "You go and tell your mother that she will wait for two months. After our child is born, if everything goes well, in two months, we will have another 20,000 yuan in deposits. We will give her 40,000 yuan. Didn't she say that the house is written with your name? It can be seen that she really loves you, but she has her needs, so we try to understand her hardship as much as possible."

"Wife!" I hugged her neck tightly, not knowing what to say, but in the end I could only say one sentence, "You are so good!".

Jiang Xi smiled and said, "I also have many shortcomings. It's because your temper is so tolerant of me."

I said, "No, I think you are perfect and I don't see any shortcomings at all."

Jiang Xi smiled even more, "Others can see my shortcomings, and I know that you can't see them because you love me!"

I hugged her and kissed her hair, "I really can't see it, can you see my shortcomings?"

She said sweetly, "I can see it, but I will selectively ignore it because you have the advantages I care about, that's enough!"

I always feel that she is more sober than me at any time. Even if it is a love word, she is more wiser than me, not as mentally retarded as me.

"Do you feel wronged at all?" I asked.

Jiang Xi smiled and stroked the back of my hand, saying, "No grievance. What I think is that you have never done anything to be filial to your mother before you met me, nor have you given money to your mother. After you follow me, you can give your mother money, which means you are more filial than before. I think your mother and your sisters will know that it is my wife who is good that you will become better. I think this matter should be able to establish my position in the minds of your family. If I live with your mother in the future, with this emotional foundation, it will be much easier to get along with."

"Wife, are you... planning to live with my mother in the future? Have you planned to plan your mother in your life?"

I asked in a daze, a little unbelievable, whose wife... can she think so thoughtfully? And she is so kind-hearted?

She said, "Yes, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies. Not only the class monitor's family, there are too many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who cannot get along with me. I just thought that now our conditions are limited and your mother is in good health. Let's not speak out first and take care of my mother first. When your mother is older and can't live by herself, and our conditions are better, we will take your mother over and live with you."

"Yeah!" I took a deep breath, so moved that I couldn't speak.

"And, I think, be kinder, God will definitely give us more blessings..." She said, touching her big belly, "I don't care about anything now, I just hope that God can keep my child healthy and healthy!"

I looked at her beautiful smile and reached out to touch her big belly, but the result was...

"Ah!" I screamed, "Oh my god! He (she) kicked me. Oh, your stomach is bulging!"

I took my palm away and saw a big bag bulging on Jiang Xi's belly. I thought the scene was so magical. I seemed to see a ball with a child inside the ball. Then he (she) kicked the ball with one foot, and the bag was reluctant to go down.

I reached out to touch the bag, but the bag retracted, and then I stomped out a bigger bag even harder.

"Ah!" Jiang Xi shouted.

I shouted in surprise, "My wife is so amazing, he (she) seems to be very strong."

Jiang Xi frowned and said, "Don't play anymore. He (she) kicked me too hard, I can't stand it."

"Oh!" I quickly lay on Jiang Xi's stomach and said, "Baby, you can't kick your mom anymore. Mom can't stand it. You want to love your mom, do you know?"

I really didn't expect that as soon as I finished speaking, the bag on Jiang Xi's stomach immediately retracted.

"Oh, he (she) can understand me! It's so wonderful! Hahaha, it's so amazing."

Jiang Xi curled her lips and glanced at me, "You are too busy with work and communicate too little with him (her). I am used to it, and I don't think it's amazing."

When it comes to this, I feel a little guilty. Jiang Xi has not been with her for many months in pregnancy and has been working overtime all the time.

"Oh, Xiaoxi, your belly is so big. The shape of your belly is like a boy."

At this time, an aunt in her fifties who were walking in the community saw Jiang Xi and me, and she smiled and came over to talk.

Jiang Xi asked in shock, "Is that so? Will it really be a boy?"

The aunt said with great confidence, "I can guarantee that it is a boy. I have given birth to three. Can you still not know about this?"

The aunt spoke loudly and stingyly, and immediately attracted two other enthusiastic aunts.

One of the aunts walked up to Jiang Xi, turned around in front of her, and pointed and said, "The belly pointed forward and erected, and the back looked very slim, like an unpregnant, a typical boy's behavior."

The third aunt next to her said, "This is 100% boy. Don't doubt how many children we have given birth to, so we are all boys."

"Oh!" Jiang Xi was stunned, "Thank you all aunts!"

When the aunts all left, I asked Jiang Xi, "Do you rather have a boy or a girl?"

Jiang Xi frowned and looked a little coquettish, "I have been looking forward to a little princess coming. I really want to have a little cotton jacket! Oh! The clothes I bought for my child two days ago were all pink."

Jiang Xi pouted her mouth.
To be continued...