He said, "After you left in the nightclub that day, several of us young people were extremely depressed by you and were in no mood to play. We retreated the lady, and then we drank and drank, and when we were half drunk and half awake, Xiao Chen suddenly said something..."

"What do you mean?" I asked subconsciously.

"Xiao Chen said, I think we are like the stinky young man that Jiang Gong said. I have never heard anyone say this to us before. We still feel that we live freely and freely. But after we go back, when a person faces an empty room and a pale wall, he always feels empty and at a loss in his heart. He even keeps looking for boring content with his mobile phone. Even though he knows that there is nothing he likes to see, he is still searching repeatedly. It seems that he just stays up late to stay up late, and he can't sleep peacefully. In fact, it is because of the emptiness of the soul, and there is no place to rest..."

Speaking of this, the development manager's voice became deeper and deeper.

"Suddenly, I hate myself so much, I envy Jiang Gong, I envy him for having a happy family, I envy him for having a wife who loves him, we always complain, why are girls now so realistic, so philanthropic, so vain, and so vain. In fact, aren't we? There are not no good girls in this world, but we don't have the personal charm to attract good girls who like us, so they attract all the same charm as us, who like vain and stinking sluts. How can we blame those girls for not being devoted to us? We are not 100% loyal to them? In other words, if a real good girl is not deceived by us, who would really like a stinky man like us?"

Actually, I just said a few words of my feelings that day, and I didn’t mean to say anything about them, because I know that there are too many young people like this in this society. I just want to remind them that whatever causes they plant will lead to the results. I didn’t expect that their perceptions were one level deeper than what I wanted to express.

The development manager continued, "Xiao Chen said those words and irritated Xiao Wang to cry. Xiao Wang said, if everyone is a bad guy, then he is the most stinky and scumbag person. He once missed a good girl because of his scumbag... When he cried, we all cried, and they all felt that what Jiang Gong said had hit our hearts. We really smelly and hate ourselves very much. In fact, everyone understands the truth, but sometimes they can't control themselves."

I quickly said, "It's really fun to have such an understanding. Actually, I understand you quite well, and you don't have to be too discouraged. Young people have the urge to play. However, if you realize that some behaviors are not good behaviors, then try to change the days afterwards. It's really hard to craft yourself, but those who persist will definitely get surprises, rather than decay until they are rotten to perish."

"Well! Thank you, Jiang Guoya, Jiang Guoya is still old. You not only impressed us in terms of technology, but also in terms of personality you are also a role model we should learn from. Now we have figured it out, no wonder you can get happiness, no wonder you can get that woman who truly belongs to you..."

"Life is long. As long as you have good hearts, exudes fragrance, and wait patiently, you will be able to meet the beauty that belongs to you!"

I encouraged them from the bottom of my heart, and that's what I really think in my heart.

"Thank you for your blessings. I asked manpower to calculate your salary. I won't give you a penny. I won't ask you to keep you because I think that our small river cannot raise you, a big fish. I believe you will find a job that can play your abilities sooner or later. Don't worry. Even if the situation is not good, many big companies still need excellent talents!"

After hearing this, I smiled bitterly in my heart. When I advise others, I will be anxious and uneasy when it’s my turn. But at this moment, I must show the demeanor of an old programmer and say calmly, "Thank you for your Jiyan. I also believe that I will not be unable to find a job all the time, thank you!"

I don’t know why, but the phone call from the development manager is so warm that people make mistakes, but if you can wake up and correct it in time, it will never be too late!

After a while, in addition to learning some new IT techniques, I just did housework and cooking at home, and cough! However, I really don’t have the talent in cooking, so I can only say it’s okay to eat when I cook. Jiang Jie often complains that it’s too bad. Because Jiang Xi is busy working on manuscripts, she tries not to say that it’s too bad. She is so anxious that she will say a few words.

Whenever that time, I feel that I am useless, I have no work and I can’t cook well.

One afternoon, I was cooking and made a batter of fried eggs with tomatoes. I was not sure what to do, Cong Feng brought her lover to him.

This time, the couple had uncontrollable smiles on their faces. Cong Feng's lover had been pregnant for more than seven months and had a big belly. Cong Feng helped her walk carefully.

When Jiang Xi saw them like this, she couldn't help but laugh.

"Welcome! Welcome! We are here hand in hand. How great it is now, the whole family is happy!"

"It's so great!" I couldn't help but say something next to me, my distant cousin, was really happy.

After Cong Feng sat down with her lover, Jiang Xi poured them tea. Cong Feng, who had never talked much, couldn't stop talking today.

"Sister-in-law, Brother Dong, we are here to thank you today. My sister-in-law was worried about Xiao Yang and me. If it weren't for my sister-in-law's advice, I wouldn't have received Xiao Yang's forgiveness. Now Xiao Yang's parents have accepted me. After hard work, we have really gained happiness. Thank you sister-in-law! I didn't expect that I still have this day!" Cong Feng's eyes turned red as he said.

Xiao Yang took a tissue from the table in great understanding and wiped it on Cong Feng himself.

Xiao Yang said, "Now that we have a good relationship, we realized that because we didn't understand each other, we misunderstood a lot of things in our own guesses. Now the misunderstandings have been resolved. Both of us want to have a happy family. So, when both of us work hard on the good side, we can get good results."

"What's the process like? Tell me quickly, I'm really happy for you!" Jiang Xi couldn't help asking.

Xiao Yang smiled a little shyly.

As a man, Cong Feng can talk with thick skin at this moment.

He smiled and said, "It was just the beginning. I followed my sister-in-law's plan and when she was so excited by her sister-in-law's words, I sent her an apology and confession text message. She cried even harder. The staff of the entire unit knew that she was moved by her husband, but she was still angry at that time, unwilling to forgive me or see me..."

Cong Feng took a sip of water and then said passionately, "I just follow my sister-in-law's words. Every day when I get off work, as long as I don't work overtime, I will wait for her at the door of her unit. Her leader and colleagues first asked me who I was looking for, and I said, I am Xiao Yang's husband. She is pregnant. I am not worried about her going to get off work alone. At first they didn't care. After a long time, I might have moved them first. The leader asked me to go into Xiao Yang's office and wait for her every day. At first, Xiao Yang ignored me. After a long time, her heart slowly began to loosen. I thought at that time, my sister-in-law's prediction was indeed very accurate, and Xiao Yang was not a stalwart, hahaha!"

At this time, Xiao Yang, who was sitting beside him, smiled shyly, and she said to Jiang Xi, "I was moved and resisted after the phone call with Sister Jiang Xi. Everyone yearned for the kind of love that Sister Jiang Xi said, but I had been pursuing for so many years, but I had never met it. So, I just cried. I didn't even give any hope for Cong Feng who was not good at getting along well. Even if he sent the letter of confession, I just wanted to cry after reading it, and cried for my misfortune. I really didn't expect that Cong Feng, he actually did everything he wrote in the letter..."

Speaking of this, Xiao Yang's tears came down. It seemed that he was really moved by Cong Feng's behavior.

At this moment, Cong Feng wiped Xiao Yang's tears with a doting look on his face.

"Wife! Don't cry. Crying too much is not good for the child. Those are what I should do."

Oh! I didn’t expect that Congfeng, who was arrogant and indistinguishable from time and place, can now become so understanding. It’s incredible.

Xiao Yang said to Cong Feng, "I'll talk about the next thing. There are many things you may not understand!"

"Okay!" Cong Feng smiled, wiping Xiao Yang's tears while rubbing her hair.

It is a spontaneous act of mutual support due to love. It really makes people feel comfortable. People who love each other seem to have the words "I am very happy" written on their faces!

Xiao Yang continued, "In the first half month, he was waiting at the door, but I actually didn't want to pay attention to him, because I decided that he couldn't hold on for a month and didn't give himself hope, and wouldn't fall badly when he was disappointed. But when he held on for a month, my heart began to loosen a little, especially... When the female colleagues in our unit looked at me with envy, jealous and hatred, my vanity was greatly satisfied. In addition, Cong Feng was handsome, and those young girls always came to me to ask questions like me, how could they catch such a handsome husband and turn him into a loyal dog? At that time, my heart became a little softer. I told myself that if he could hold on for three months, I would forgive him."

Cong Feng was listening happily, as if he was a puppet who had been praised.

Xiao Yang blinked his eyes, and the expression on his face suddenly became anxious, "When it was almost three months, one day, he suddenly didn't come. I felt empty all day long. I was secretly angry and gritted my teeth with hatred. I wanted to forgive him. As a result, he didn't want to persevere? I thought at that time, if he didn't want to persevere, should I take the initiative to find him? At that time, I was really confused. If I didn't look for him, I couldn't bear to leave him. What's more, I'm four or five months pregnant. Of course, I also want to give my child a complete and happy home! I looked for him, and I was worried that he would not be good to me like before, and even didn't care about me. In short, I was worried about gains and losses at that time, and I was in a difficult situation. Fortunately... I was really grateful. He just came to two hours late because of overtime..."

Speaking of this, Xiao Yang shed tears again with excitement.

Cong Feng smiled and said, "That time, as soon as I went, she hugged me cryingly. In addition, there were no one else in the office at that time. She hugged me and refused to let go, saying that I hope I can be kind to her for the rest of my life and not give up on her and the children. She needs the warmth I give them very much. She just didn't dare to accept it because she was afraid of not getting it. She also said that the child is my biological child! I should also be kind to the children. I immediately hugged her tightly in my arms and sweared that, forever

Yuandu is kind to her and the child. I am the only wife in my life. If I don’t treat her well, no one will be good to her, and other women will look down on my virtue! After that, we both laughed with tears! At that moment, I felt that I felt the taste of love. It turned out to be bitter sugar, which is indeed very similar to chocolate. When I got it, it was the feeling of eating chocolate into my mouth. The subtle bitterness was covered by more sweetness. If I couldn’t get it, I could only taste the bitterness.”

Xiao Yang wiped his tears and said with a smile, "Yes, I also feel like eating chocolate."

"Yes, any love will have bitter ingredients, but as long as it is matched with sweet ingredients, you will get a wonderful taste!"

This was said by Jiang Xi, but in fact, I don’t agree with it in my heart.

"Why do I feel the feeling of eating chocolate, but the feeling of eating "bee shit"... It's just sweetness.

As soon as I finished speaking, Cong Feng slapped me in the face, and then said with disgust, "Brother Dong, go to the room, there is nothing you have to do here, how many people can live a life with the luck of being on the shit like you."

Me, "...". I just told the truth, why are I disliked?

Cong Feng continued to say to Jiang Xi, "After that time, we had a heart-to-heart talk. Later, we could think from each other and think about each other. My mother said she wanted to come and live with me for a while, but I refused directly. I thought to wait until Xiao Yang and I stabilized before bringing her and dad to be filial. Now I can't take care of myself. It's not filial to pick her up, but will only make mistakes."

Jiang Xi immediately said, "Your choice is right. Filial piety also requires wisdom. A blind obedience child is not called filial piety. If your mother comes, it will be in chaos and your own family will be gone. At that time, you will definitely blame your mother. Your desire to be filial to your mother will weaken. What's more, your mother doesn't have to live with you now. She just wants to participate in your life. In this way, she really can't blindly obedience. Otherwise, it's yourself who suffers and you can't regret it."

"Well! Yes, I understood this truth with my sister-in-law's guidance. Similarly, Xiao Yang also understood that when her parents stopped me from dating Xiao Yang, or when I said bad things, Xiao Yang no longer listened to her parents, and would just say good things about me in front of her parents. At first, Xiao Yang's parents not only didn't believe it, but also said that I gave Xiao Yang a ecstasy soup, haha!"

Xiao Yang smiled and continued, "Yes, that's it. I really tried my best to say good things about him, but nothing I said was useless. It was not until a while that my parents saw me happy and happy all day long, and they hummed a song. Gradually, they believed that Cong Feng was really good to me. After a while, they also accepted Cong Feng had dinner at my house. Last month, they said, "If Cong Feng moved back, I would like to live back this time, I would like to let him rent a house in the same community in my house. I moved to live with him, so that it would not delay my taking care of my parents. I also figured it out that the young couple was not suitable for living with the elderly before their emotional foundation was stable. The relationship between the two was really not suitable for family participation."

"It's good!" Jiang Xi said with a happy smile.

Xiao Yang's words reminded me of when I was in love with Jiang Xi. I can only say that I was glad that my family was far away from me at that time. Although they stopped me once or twice, they did not participate in the relationship between Jiang Xi and me every day. Jiang Xi's mother and her uncle's opposition, Jiang Xi was directly suppressed by her sincerity and persistence. Hehe! I can only say that I am more lucky!

The love between two people is really not suitable for family participation, so make the key points! It is easy to have problems when participating! Everyone must distinguish filial piety and participation! Of course, your brain must also be clearer and confirm whether that person is your own good person? No matter what the result in the future, don’t blame others, and there is nothing to regret. Look forward and don’t look back!

After Cong Feng and his wife finished their talk, we had a hot chat for a while. Most of them were blessings from Jiang Xi and I, and said that when the child was full of the month, we must treat us to dinner.

When they left, my supper was delayed, mainly because the stuffed tomatoes and scrambled eggs were not allowed to eat. After I brought back the Jiangyou, we went to a fast food restaurant for a meal.

The family of three is in a good mood and will taste good whenever you eat.

While lying in bed at night, Jiang Xi suddenly said to me, "I received another call from my daughter's class teacher today, saying that Jiang Dongxi's grades have not been improved, which has dragged the class back. The mother who was a teacher last time asked me not to worry about the teacher, the child's grades have improved by leaps and bounds this year, and are no longer the last few. Maybe because they are teachers, they can tutor at home, what should we do?"

Jiang Xi was already very happy and looked worried as she spoke.

Jiang Dongdong is already in the third grade, and now he doesn’t matter if he gets the grades, so he’s a little bit self-deception.

"Cough!" I was also worried, not knowing how to comfort Jiang Xi.

I heard Jiang Xi's voice choked and said, "When I combed Jiang Dong's hair recently, I found a 'ghost shaved' on Jiang Dong's head."

I was stunned for a moment, "What?"

Jiang Xi said with a sad look on her face, "It's just that a bunch of hair is gone, and it's bald as big as a thumb."

"Ah?" I don't understand these things, but when I hear them, I feel a little scary. "What's going on? If it's serious, will my hair become bald?"

When I asked this, Jiang Xi became even more worried, "Well, I don't know. I checked the Internet and some said that the nutrition was not up to date. I think the nutrition in our family is fine. Some said that people are under too much pressure and will have such symptoms of shaving their heads. So, I suspect that although Jiang Tian smiled "hehe" every day, she actually subconsciously felt pressure in her heart. She is not stupid. How can she not be upset when she sees her test scores every time?"

"What should I do, my wife?" I was really worried and felt sorry for my eldest daughter.

"Well, I have signed up for her in various classes, and I have also urged her to be urged. I don't dare to force her too much, so as not to be the end of her old neighbor Zhang Shiyu?"

"Of course, children's health is the most important thing. You cannot force your child out of mental illness. If something happens, we will never forgive ourselves for the rest of our lives." I said nervously.

"Yes! Yes!" Jiang Xi thought.

"Think about a solution again and see how to solve this problem!" My mind was also constantly thinking.

"Actually, I've already thought of a way, just because I'm afraid you don't agree."

Jiang Xi suddenly said this, which really made me stunned. After talking for a long time, her focus was on this, right?

"What the hell is it? Wife, don't keep it in a hurry, I'm anxious!" I urged anxiously.

Jiang Xi looked at me and said, "Because you have never found a suitable job, and Jiang Dongxi has not been able to improve his grades, she has worked hard herself, so I took the time to chat with Sun Zhengdong's lover."

As soon as she mentioned Sun Zhengdong, I thought of what the road she was talking about. I did not interrupt her and asked her to continue talking.

"Before Sun Zhengdong went to New Zealand, he still had an IELTS exam, but this did not become an obstacle for them to go to New Zealand. The agency helped him enroll in a language training class at the University of Auckland. If he enrolled in a language class, he would have a short-term study visa. Fortunately, he found a job that suited him during his language class. Because it is a shortage of talents in New Zealand, he successfully got the one-year formal work visa applied for by his employer. With his work visa, his children can study in New Zealand for free, and her lover can also work. In addition to eating and drinking, they seem to be walking very smoothly on this road. I just wonder, is the situation we are facing now suitable for their path?"

After hearing this, I felt that Sun Zhengdong and his team had really gone smoothly. Others had to work hard to immigrate, and he seemed to have reached the top in one step.

But I don't think I'd be as lucky as him.

I said, "Wife, Sun Zhengdong is good at different skills than me. I don't think I can find a job in New Zealand as easily as he does."

Jiang Xi said, "I have also communicated with Sun Zhengdong's lover in this regard. She said that programmers in China are despised by the age of forty, but in New Zealand, because the country does not allow overtime to work very late, young people do not need to compete for physical strength. New Zealand companies value technology more. The more experienced programmers are, the more they are preferred to be admitted. I heard that many companies also have programmers in their sixties working, and programmers in their seventies being rehired. This is hard to imagine in China. Of course, in New Zealand countries, the salary gap between engineers and workers who repair water pipes is not big. There is a shortage of people there, so labor costs are very expensive, and the IT industry is the industry that lacks the most. So, I think it shouldn't be bad if we go there, right?"

I was silent and thought about Jiang Xi's words, but I felt I couldn't figure it out. Sometimes, I had difficulty choosing.

Imagine if our family immigrated to New Zealand, if we don’t do well and can’t make it, and come back, our children’s studies will not be able to keep up with the college entrance examination, my skills will be out of touch with China, and it will be even more impossible to find work again.

Reality is so cruel! Going abroad and immigrating is actually a road without turning back for middle-aged people who bring their wives and children!

Jiang Xi continued, "Your job is one aspect, the most important thing I want to go abroad because of Jiangdong. Sun Zhengdong's lover said that the elementary school her child is very easy..."

"How easy is it? Is it easy to be in third grade?" I asked.
Chapter completed!