Chapter 137: No matter how good the relationship is, there is also a distance
When people live, don’t underestimate themselves, don’t underestimate themselves. Lending money is a beginning and a trouble. Don’t regret it for a lifetime because of a word, don’t delay yourself for a lifetime because of a person. Money and people are in a relationship, it hurts too much. If you go far, it’s difficult for yourself. People want money, but people don’t want to fall into trouble. When people live, don’t wait until they are in trouble before asking for help. People wait, don’t wait until they are in danger before giving smiles to others. Don’t miss out on your life because of a word.
When people live, when they have more money, more troubles, less money, and more troubles. If they have more money, they have feelings, and less money depends on their favors. If they have more money, they may not have true feelings. If they have no money, they may not have no conscience. When people live, they cannot buy conscience, nor may they be able to buy true feelings. Money is someone else's, and the road is your own. Spend money when you cherish it, and give true feelings when you are willing, cherish fate without delay. Life is short. After thirty years, people will endure the wind and rain of twenty years. Money will be indifferent, people will see clearly, love will be closer, and fate will be far away.
Life is short, everything goes with the flow, money is not money, life is still fate, you have to walk by yourself, live by yourself, do nothing all your life, just seek a clear conscience, not greedy, not inferior, have confidence, work hard, be safe and rich all your life. When people live and money leave, this is a kind of fate. When people live, they can make money, this is a kind of morality. Money is like flowing water, people are like flowers blooming, you can see clearly, and think openly, this is virtue. If you have it in your destiny, don’t worry about others robbing it, if you don’t have it, why worry about not having it, happy life, sunshine for a lifetime, today is the most beautiful.
If you have too much money, it is not your own. If you have too much love, you will have more worries. If you have a good life, you may not have true feelings. If you have poor life, you may not have no blessings. Life is short, time is very shallow, and your life is not long. When you are quiet, ask yourself, think about others in ordinary times, do good deeds, and accumulate virtue, and you will be rewarded. Be upright, don’t be afraid of missing feelings, do things clearly, and do things wrongly, and don’t be afraid of seeing people wrongly. When you live, you must have a conscience when you are poor, and you must be despised by money even if you suffer.
You know your own life, you must not be greedy for other people's money, choose your own path, and ask others' feelings. Right and wrong, you must have a backbone when you are alive, wait for a vision, take your own dignity, let go of your own pattern, be calm, and do not take any blame. Look at people, speak lightly, give others a step, wait for others, think farther, give yourself a chance, ask others, speak closer, let yourself listen to understand, establish yourself, and decide the future.
Be healthier and exercise more. Although you are old and have experienced vicissitudes, the beauty has just begun. You can tell others the wonderfulness and wisdom. Health is the greatest pillar of life. If you have health, you will be safe. If you are not afraid of poverty, you will be afraid of unhealthy. Past events are like smoke. When people reach middle age, without health is equivalent to having no Zen mind and no health, which is equivalent to not being able to let go and walking on thin ice.
Be more confused, some things must be let go, and children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. There will always be several mistakes in life. Other people’s mistakes are the beginning of inspiration, and other people’s delays are the starting line of youth. Be more carefree, don’t fight for others, be calm in dealing with things, and arrange some things for others, and say some things, after all, you are old. When you are alive, be more carefree, let sincere people see the conscience, be kind enough to let smart people understand them, and put your wisdom to those who strive to work hard.
Be happier. I have left yesterday. There is no need to be wronged. Today has arrived. There is no need to worry about others. Tomorrow is at hand. Why disturb your tranquility and inaction? When people reach middle age, happiness is for others to see, let others be filled with sunshine and health, not afraid of the wind or the future. Quietness belongs to yourself, ordinary belongs to everyone, sharing happiness and sharing of sunshine are the virtues of people reaching middle age.
Forget age, care about others' sincerity, understand your cherishment, do what you should do, say what you should say, there is a god above your head, there is no second reincarnation in life, forget age, be in the crowd, you will see more happiness. Forget fame and fortune, train yourself, don’t let your family worry, keep a smile, don’t let others worry, forget fame and fortune, everything goes with its own nature, not your own, it will never be your own, it is your own, so why bother to think about so much fame and fortune?
Forget resentment, complaining will make people narrow the heart, and hating others will upset yourself. Why not make yourself unable to be quiet because others are ignorant? Resentment is not a bridge of life, but the suffering of life. Always remembering it, you cannot let yourself have an ordinary heart and be a sincere person. When you reach middle age, you have a confidant who tells your thoughts when you are troubled, drink tea together when you are confused, and when you are sad, watch dusk, dawn, and happy, and talk about life, the past, and the future.
When people live, they experience vicissitudes and are poor for a moment. There is no need to care. When they are poor for a lifetime, there is no need to be unhappy. Why bother to worry about others? You should not be too full or too straightforward in your life. You should live a sunny life, but you should not be too kind. People can be poor, but you should strive. People can be stupid, but you should not be kind to everyone. There is nothing wrong with being kind, but giving the wrong person is a big mistake. People can be simple and smart for a while, but you cannot be foolish and deceive others' sincerity and conscience.
After being kind, it is the biggest confusion. When being simple, it is the biggest trouble. Some people become more and more serious, and some people think it is the right thing to do. Kindness is a state of mind and also a duty, to good people, to the right people, and to others will borrow money from themselves because of their straightforwardness. When cultivating the mind, don’t forget that others will be scheming. When passing by, don’t forget that kindness is deceived by others. People who live with the flow are likely to suffer losses, and those who follow the circumstances are easily deceived. Don’t give your sincerity just because of other people’s smiles.
When people are at their poorest, they will understand that being in a world is just a circle of oneself, not the key to helping oneself overcome difficulties, but love is just a way for oneself, not the face of helping oneself overcome difficulties. When they are in glory, there are many friends, but when they are poor, they gradually become alienated. This is because kindness has not found the right person. When they fail, the person who helps oneself is his noble person. It is too late to think of goodbye when they are old. Some words are for others to hear, and some things are for others to see. You must distinguish what is supposed to and whether it is rejection.
One day, you will understand that it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on yourself. A kind temper is said to be honest by others, and it is difficult to achieve great things if you look at it narrowly. Once kind is just a desire to praise others from the bottom of your heart, but it may not be a good result. Two kindness is just a heartless person who doesn’t understand it, but it may not be a good reward. People are too simple, annoyed by others, too complicated, tired, and short life. Don’t be wronged yourself, learn to let go, and you must also learn to be Zen, not forget to be kind, not forget to be sincere, not forget to help others, and also help others.
Too soft-hearted will make you lose a little, too kind will make you lose more, and being kind will make you lose time. What is kindness? It is not poverty or wealth, but kindness will help others. If you are poor and wronged, no one will help you. Kindness is trouble, causing trouble for yourself. The kindness at the peak is not climbed by the poor, and the poverty at the low peak is not something that the poor family wants to cry. When people are poor, they see clearly, and then they give kindness. If people understand and cannot see through, they must know how to refuse.
Being a person has connotations, not laugh at others, not looking down on others, not underestimate yourself, be a sunny person, do not fight against things, and do not emphasize speaking when dealing with others. Being harmonious is the most important thing to do with yourself, get along with yourself, learn to think, calculate time, plan your life, not afraid of the long road, but fear that you will not persist. Life is short, and you can learn to let go, so that you can walk freely. It is better to live in the sun, and everything will pass and cherish it when you move on in a simple way.
When you meet the right person, give more. When you meet the wrong person, don’t gossip behind your back or do people who do right and wrong. A person can be lonely, but you cannot ignore the foreign world. A person can cry, but you cannot forget the future life. A person can be clumsy, but you cannot not be unlucky. In a word, you cannot be too straightforward, otherwise it will hurt your conscience. A person cannot be too lazy, otherwise it will delay your future, and you cannot be too kind in your life, otherwise you will always be alienated.
One day, everything goes with the flow, just one day, not every day of life, there is a moment, just one moment, not every moment of life. When a person lives, a moment is the best calmness, people wait, and a day is the best quietness, learn to ask people, not ask deeply, learn to be a human being, and not always make mistakes. Time gives people opportunities, arrange their own destiny for themselves, read their life, learn to understand, see through themselves, and forgive others, and is the best to tolerate themselves.
Time is gone, and that year is just a sentence. Today is the best bargaining chip. Don’t be afraid of the future or the present. Be brave to innovate, change yourself, change your heart, and create the best inner world. Being a person has connotation and dealing with things, you can be low-key, look at people without saying far away, and look at things without saying sentences that make things difficult for others. You can lose too much in your life, but you can’t lose your conscience. You can not tell lies for a moment, but you can’t forget your sincerity. It’s that simple, you have cultivation today and kindness tomorrow.
Others are noble, they don’t climax themselves, they don’t flatter themselves, they don’t tell others lies, they don’t convey themselves, they can harm themselves, but they can’t speak to hurt others. They can’t make up for their own calculations, they can’t be foolish, they live for a lifetime, they can’t be scheming when dealing with things, they can be simple, but they can’t be perfunctory, they can be clumsy, but they can’t deceive, they can’t be unhappy, they can lose, but they have to prepare for the next win.
In life, there is no second choice, there is no tomorrow, only today, others can enter you, because you will not refuse, and you cannot afford to lose because you have no ability. Hope is right in front of you, ability is in your body, relationships can be good, but you cannot always let others speak wisely, relationships can get closer, but you cannot let yourself help others, people can help others, but you cannot always help someone. Life is short, just a moment, if you see through, others are just passers-by, and you cannot see through, and you are someone else's moment.
The relationships bought by money are not long, and the relationships bought by material resources are not long. If you don’t have true feelings for others, you will gradually become distant. If you cannot be sincere to things, you will not be able to enter. If you have face, face is not given by others. If you have feelings, you will not be given by others. If you have feelings, you will not be given by others. You will create distance, learn to refuse, know how to judge, and know how to reciprocate. A person will not say much in his life, but love will never see him again because of a word. There are not many things in his life, and there will be many things in his relationship from then on.
When you get close to the poor, you can only see sadness, when you get close to the rich, you can only see the inability to climb up, when you get close to the talented, you can only see the envy. If you don’t get close to the poor, you can only see the innocence of the poor, you can’t be sincere enough, you don’t get close to the rich, you can’t get close to the rich, you can’t get close to the talented, you can’t see the warmth and coldness of the human relationship. If you make friends with wise people, you can’t talk too deeply, you can’t speak too lightly, you can be so tired of being a human being, so you have to know the right relationship.
The world is so big, there is no best winner. That year is just a memory in my heart. Others can go far because they refuse to go far, and they will go further because they don’t refuse. Helping others is just a face, and seeing others is just a word. People are mocking others, that is a lifelong imprint. No matter how far they are, people have no long-term plans, they will have immediate worries. Learn to worry, learn to let go, calm yourself, find the starting point of yesterday, and start today’s journey. Every day, warmth cannot be added too much, and cold cannot come too fast, otherwise the relationship will break down faster.
Don’t delay your relationship because of others, don’t reject other people’s kindness because of yourself, learn to see through, learn to see through, don’t lie and delay people, and don’t say wrongs to affect people. In life, don’t live too tiring, don’t live too hard, and your life will not last long. The relationship should be just right. You must know how to be distant when you are close, and you must know how to be cautious when you are far away. Good people are not spoken, and bad people are not helped. Therefore, be cautious in being a person and look at things carefully. No matter how good the relationship is, you must have distance.
Chapter completed!