life is complicated
The phoenix will not go to play with you because it is afraid that the flames on your body will burn you. The crow can like the phoenix for the rest of his life, never leaving, never moving forward or retreating, and it must have its extraordinary features. If you divide one ten apples to one person, that person will be grateful to you. If you divide ten apples to ten people, no one will pay attention to you. Tigers are not as good as crowds on the streets, and many people go to the parks, and birds cannot stay in the same place from time to time. Therefore, if you want to be a tiger, you have your own strength and appearance. If you want to be a bird, you have your own wings and discernment ability.
Why do some people want to marry mute? Is it because they are poor? Or is it because they are worried, nor because they are stupid. In fact, the biggest advantage is that mute will not flatter themselves, will not be perfunctory, will not please others, nor will they be too concerned about others.
If you can accept it, turn left, cry, and go to loneliness. If you can't accept it, turn right, laugh, and go to baldness. If you can control the game, go straight away. It is natural that you should be slow when it is time to turn, and go straight when it is time to walk quickly when it is time to walk straight, learn to hide.
If you have the fate of Liu Bang, you can marry a wife like Lu Zhi. If you have the fate of a princess, you may not marry your own prince. You have the way to love others, and others have ways to wait for the future. Therefore, you have the ability to assist weak people like Su Qin, and you have the strength to assist King Zhaoxiang of Qin like Lu Buwei. Therefore, choosing a wife or determining a husband depends on others and you.
How many people count in those talented hearts, how many people's lives become pawns in other people's words and are played with by others in planning. This is what is called inside and outside the circle, so many people live just for those who are strategic, and those who are strategic will survive because of these pawns.
I will not look back. Every time I hide from myself, I am dissatisfied with myself. It is better to strive for myself than to fight.
The one who spoils you is your father, the one who spoils you is your mother, the one who chats with you is your best friend, and the one who carries you through mountains, roads, and bridges are your husband. Maybe he won’t spoil you, but he will give you everything in the most dangerous time. Maybe he won’t spoil you, but he will accompany you while turning off all work. Maybe he won’t chat with you to relieve your boredom, but he is also willing to be a listener around you.
Churchill, an Englishman, said, who can know himself better than himself? However, Gan Luo in the Warring States Period became prime minister at the age of twelve, and Zhuge Liang in the Three Kingdoms Period became military advisor at the age of 26. Thinking about Shang Yang and the three prime minister Qin Xiaogong, the first time, the second time, the third time, the talent of Shang Yang, the eyes of Xiaogong, Lu Zhi learned military tactics, read a lot of books, and could marry Liu Bang and become the queen. However, Sun Wukong waited for Tang Monk five hundred years, five hundred years ago, to learn the skills, in order to protect one person, and then become famous in heaven and earth, and become a battle and victory Buddha. Ang Lee spent many years of luck and waiting to win three Academy Awards directly. What these characters tell us is that when you wait, don’t pause when you prepare. If you want to get good, you must have full abilities, ability determines your friends, strength determines your vision, and effort determines your future.
People who don’t want to delay you may not know how to cherish them. They are just afraid that you will know that the road to going with him (her) is very hard, and she (he) only wants to bear it alone. People who don’t want to reject you may not be able to see through the people you refuse, but the heart that can pay like this, although the heart that can blind your eyes with actions, isn’t that heart paying the price for liking. If you can see through the world and figure out people’s hearts, please forgive the people who avoid you, because many people have not expressed the reasons for confession, and many people have not expressed the reasons for rejection, but their actions cover whether they like you or cry again behind your back is something you will never understand after turning around.
When a talented and knowledgeable person shows some ugliness in front of you that makes you reject. It is not that he doesn't want to go with you, but that he hopes you will live a better life. Now he can't give you what you want. You may think that he will not please you, or that he may think that he is too persistent. In fact, his heart just hopes to bless you silently and ask you to find someone better than him. You just wiped away your favor for her, but he has to use a lot of thoughts to fill in the meeting with you.
The difference between culture and kung fu. Culture can allow oneself to avoid and attack, or hide, and can also control one's wisdom and master one's development. Kung fu can only be won when fighting, because kung fu depends on the strength of the opponent.
We always hope to find love like in movies, but even if we are directors and protagonists ourselves, we may not be able to afford the necessary equipment for the movies and hire so many staff members. Even if we don’t have supporting roles, our preparation is like in vain.
In a world where no one feels pity on you, you must be worthy of yourself.
It’s not that you can’t get in, it’s not that you refuse right, it’s not that you think you are self-righteous. In fact, these add up to make a person stupid for a lifetime. The main reason is that there is no reason for others to get in from the beginning to the end.
If your wisdom is not fast enough, you will never understand why others reject you, why others flatter you, why others avoid you, and you must live in this way.
If a smart person put aside his talent and sensational one day, don’t think that he has given up his dignity and wisdom. In fact, he just wants others to laugh in his heart.
Some people will not look at you more, some people will think about currying about you, some people will hide from you, some people will educate you, some people will inevitably hate you, and some people will have endless gossip about you. If you can get others' likes, you may not understand your own shortcomings.
When you are tired, the words are the most sincere, and when you are bitter, the sentences are the most touching because they come from the heart and have no distractions.
It is because I have never believed what others said right that I have been unwilling to give up, work hard and persist in striving. In fact, no one wants to fight for anything or ask for anything. It’s just that the smile of others’ words makes the sarcasm take root in their hearts, forcing themselves to struggle to challenge other people’s words.
It’s so easy to give up on yourself. After giving up, you don’t have to be so tired or think too much. Just wait and watch stupidly, and let others say something, dare not fight, have no endurance, and have no persistence. What a good sentence. Just nod yourself and then follow what others say.
If I don’t tell you, if you don’t ask, our story will be dispersed.
I locked love and people in my heart. In the end, when people left, they were sad, and they realized that falling in love with others was so easy to be hurt, and that goodbye that was so serious and too late to regret was in vain.
Every work or every person can show his (its) excellence, then his (its) hard work and time are not overnight. He must go through many storms and many thought twists to present it. It is all the blueprints drawn by cutting, melting, combining, and adjusting.
The huge gap in life is your own vision. If you are not strong enough, don’t be nostalgic.
Lonely people are prone to success because they have prepared a lot of time for themselves after honest study and tempering their mood. Lonely people are prone to wealth. When they think, analyze and master the time every day, they will be smooth sailing when they do it. Perhaps only those lonely people and lonely people understand human relationships and worldly ways, because they look at the world with their hearts.
No one pays attention to your value in this world. It’s not that others cannot understand or see it, but that you do too little. Others live in your heart, and complain about yourself or blame others, it’s not worthy of respect and turning around. You are still alive, and you are still alive. You are still alive when you live, but you can also speak wisely, shout out your own death time, and then commit suicide. There are many people in society, few people in life, and few people who can think of it from time to time, and there will be very few people who will make you cry from time to time.
When you live, it is not just about you. When you betray your reputation, your parents will wear the incredible clothes. When you are ignorant, your parents will let more people gossip because they have no family education. When you cannot get respect from others, you cannot communicate, and you will not contribute to society, your parents will bear your incompetence and your own talent. You may feel that spending money is very good and getting married easily, but whether you see through the vicissitudes and filth behind it, you may just smile, but someone will damage your parents' names because of your words and deeds, or you may not agree with your birth.
If you are not capable of expressing and taking action, others will say that you will not make friends, others will say that the people around you are not in a pretentious manner, if you are not successful, your parents are blind, your own abilities are worthless, and the communication given to you by others is worthless. If you cannot make time and experience in struggle, no one will appreciate your ups and downs, you can give up everything, and you can also give up on you. You can lose for a lifetime, and others can look down on you for a lifetime. Your choice is to win for a while, so someone will not look down on you for a lifetime.
Living is not for food and drink, not for marriage and children, not for looking down on others, not for waiting for the call of death, not for flowers to bloom and fall, but for the actions to be taken more seriously when bragging, believe in your future more firmly when you fail, find reasons to survive when you are lost, make a comeback when you are picky, improve yourself when you are avoiding the crowd, add respect to your parents' reputation when you are escaping from your parents, and give more people an idea and practice before you die.
Chapter completed!