Chapter 3573 persuasion
"Wenli, I know you are for my own good, but I have liked him for five years. From my freshman year, I have always loved him until now." Qu Jiajia's eyes were slightly red, and she also advised herself to give up, but she couldn't let it go.
Bai Wenli knew that some things must be understood by herself and let go, otherwise no matter how much others say, it would be useless.
Her eldest sister Bai Wenjia is a living example, so she is not in a hurry.
"I know you like Li Ningde, I didn't stop you. I just wanted you to calm down and understand why I broke up when I was about to get married.
This is definitely not a small matter. You have seen Li Ningde's girlfriend, she looks good and has a good personality. You have a crush on someone, and when you look at that person, you always bring filters, only seeing the beauty, but not the bad.
We have found out all the bad situations and listed them. If you think you can accept the worst plan, then I won’t stop you. But if you are confused, then I will talk about you more.”
When Qu Jiajia heard what her good friend said, she was very moved, "Wenli, thank you. Actually, sometimes I really envy you, and can treat love so calmly."
Bai Wenli smiled, "I once had a crush on Shang Wenjun. I thought he was very talented, so I went to work with him for him. I wanted to bring him a serving of anything delicious.
After eating Shang Wenjun's food, he should be able to feel my admiration for him, but he never expressed it, but instead accepted it with peace of mind. At that time, I thought that if I like someone, I just like him silently without asking for anything in return.
But later my mother twisted my ears and told me about it. A normal man could feel the girl's admiration. If he clearly felt it, he would not express it, and there were only two possibilities.
First, he didn't like it enough, so he didn't want to confess his love, but he also enjoyed the admiration and compliments of the opposite sex, which made him look very outstanding and charming. Second, he acted as a spare tire and was hung.
No matter which one it is, it is not the responsibility and performance that an upright man should have. I didn’t understand at the time, but when I listened to my mother and tried to think more, I realized that I was stupid. It was indeed the two situations my mother said.
In addition, you know a lot about my elder sister. She is blindly in love and does not listen to her parents' advice. Later, she is very miserable. From then on, I think that parents often look at problems more calm than women who are immersed in love.
They are not optimistic about people, and there are always very sufficient reasons. Even if you cannot accept them in full, you must at least take your parents’ advice seriously."
Of course, Qu Jiajia understood Bai Wenli's words. She also knew that Bai Wenli had a crush on Shang Wenjun.
Shang Wenjun was working during the summer vacation and was talking and laughing with Bai Wenli. After school started, Shang Wenjun confirmed a relationship with another woman, and Bai Wenli no longer pursued Shang Wenjun.
At that time, he asked Bai Wenli why, and Bai Wenli said that she was busy writing novels and had no time to have a crush on her and fell in love.
It turns out that the real reason comes from Bai Wenli's parents.
Qu Jiajia nodded, "Wenli, thank you, I think you're right."
Bai Wenli smiled, "No need to thank you, we are good sisters. I will tell you everything you can think of. You must be calm. Okay, have a meal quickly, after dinner, let's go shopping together and buy a few good-looking clothes."
Chapter completed!