Everyone is tired of drinking and drinking too.

Forgetful tea is the first time.

So much so that Gu Huanian, who was knowledgeable, was very curious and said, "According to the customs of the southwest area you mentioned, if the person involved drank the first cup of sweet tea, it means that both parties have decided and it is difficult to reunite. Then the sweet tea I just drank should be considered truly forgetful after drinking it, but why do you say that I was almost terminally ill?"

Qian Zhifei and Wang Bingbing are also puzzled.

There was obviously one-third of the tea in the porcelain cup, which showed that Gu Huanian still had not completely let go of his feelings for the past.

Only when you drink it all will you really let it go.

"But if you really let it go, it may not be a good thing." Song Che explained: "Teacher Gu, I dare to ask, do you want to be a loveless and ruthless walking corpse?"

As soon as these words came out, everyone was shocked.

Qian Zhifei quickly winked at Song Che, indicating that it was too offensive!

Fortunately, Gu Huanian was very arrogant. After thinking about it carefully, he shook his head silently.

"That's right. As long as you live, you must always have some mercy in your heart."

Song Che pointed to the remaining tea in the porcelain cup: "Here, this is the love left in your heart, no more or less, just right."

"Teacher Gu, as you grow older, are you more nostalgic about some old objects, and you are reluctant to throw them away even if they are damaged?"

Gu Huanian looked at Song Che in surprise again, obviously being called out.

"Teacher Gu, don't get me wrong. I haven't peeped at your life. In fact, this is normal, because people will be prone to old age. It's normal for human beings to be nostalgic." Song Che said: "Why is nostalgic? It's nothing more than the condensation of the past and emotions, the bond between place and identity."

"For example, everyone will treasure some old items with memorial value, such as photo group photos, certificates and handicrafts, etc. These love objects often contain a story, or an important person, and reflect what kind of person the owner was once."

"When Teacher Gu just recalled those beautiful scenes of the past, do he subconsciously miss the youthful and innocent self he used to be? Then I can tell you that these people and things that interact with you are the main reasons why you remember them unforgettably!"

These words were in the same way as reason, and as soon as they fell into Gu Huanian's ears, they felt enlightened.

If this is the case, then what she really resents is not the relationship she has ended in an incomplete relationship with Old Man Song, but the once youthful and innocent self!

"It's great to be young. I believe that when Teacher Gu was young, he was also a very beautiful and vigorous young woman with a glittering eyes." Song Che looked at Gu Huanian's innocent face, "Many people say that they can't let go of who and who were in the past, but in fact, they can't let go of the regrets and shortcomings of their youth. Especially for the elderly, due to the decline in physical functions, the space and social scope of activities are limited, and the elderly's time is increasingly limited to their work and life places. At this time, an old object or an old friend will put them into their past memories. For example, a yellowed photo, a broken old book or a gadget."

As he said that, Song Che seemed to accidentally shake the golden chrysanthemum ring on his left finger.

Gu Huanian also subconsciously glanced at the golden chrysanthemum ring, and his heartstrings were plucked again.

"Can you increase the sense of familiarity, security and stability when seeing those old objects with meaning?" Song Che asked in detail.

Gu Hua nodded gently: "Is it because they carry my best years?"

"The more specific explanation is that these things can make you feel 'love'." Song Che made a special love in order to liven up the atmosphere, which made Gu Huanian laugh: "This is a psychological hint. Don't underestimate this psychological hint. People live in the world, who doesn't want to be surrounded by 'love' every day? The love of couples, the love of parents, the love of children... Especially when people get older, have less fun, and communicate less with the world, this psychological hint is even more needed. You must know that love can promote daily happiness and satisfaction and can become a psychological debugging mechanism for physiological aging."

Speaking of this, Song Che and Gu Huanian sighed in their hearts at the same time.

The reason why they sighed was that Gu Huanian was too stubborn and gave up receiving other loves in order to wait for the so-called most unforgettable love.

Now that I am older, I will never get married without getting married. To put it bluntly, when I get old, I will feel more lonely, so I will miss the "old love" of the past more.

Gu Huanian subconsciously saved some of this cup of "sweet tea", just to keep it for the rest of his life and slowly savor it would not become a loveless and ruthless walking corpse...

"Those old objects may make people realize at a certain moment that they had a better way to spend this life." Song Che picked up the second pot of tea and changed to a porcelain cup to fill Gu Huanian: "However, the greatest significance of these old objects carrying old love should be to remind the owner to reflect on themselves and finally reach a reconciliation with him. How can life be more satisfactory? Everything is only half satisfactory."

This second cup of tea is bitter tea.

Gu Huanian picked it up and took a sip, his brows and his entire face frowned.

"This is also Pu'er, it's just Kuding tea. My wife prepared it for me, and it's specially scratched oil." Qian Zhifei took the credit again.

Gu Huanian recalled the bitterness that penetrated the liver and lungs again and said, "This second cup of tea, do you want to explain to me the philosophy that life is sweet and bitter, right?"

"In that southwestern border village, the second cup of tea means that since you don't want to divorce, you must be prepared for hard work. Life is bitter and sweet, and you will not live a good life without hard work. When drinking tea, the host will warn both parties to the divorce to think carefully, consider whether they must divorce, think more about the other party's strengths and the other party's benefits, and also know the difficulties after the divorce. This cup of tea has the meaning of sweetness, and is often the couple who taste a little while drinking the first cup of tea will change their minds and reconcile."

Song Che smiled and said, "But I am the Forgetful Tea. The second cup means that I hope that Teacher Gu, you can see through the flaws and shortcomings of those beautiful things."

"Let me keep it a secret. Let me give you an example of a psychological research case, that is, when people look in the mirror, your brain will automatically repair your brain. You in the mirror are about 30% better than your real appearance."

Upon hearing this, Wang Bingbing was stunned, rubbing her little face thoughtfully, and muttered: "It seems that this is indeed the case..."

Basically, many people have this feeling and will find that the self in the photo is often a little ugly or much ugly than the self in the mirror.

So why is this?

"This can be understood as the impact of psychological activities. When a person looks in the mirror, he is actually examining himself objectively and passively. If a person who is psychologically positive will fully accept his shortcomings, which is why he is more beautiful than others' eyes. However, if a person with psychological inferiority, he cannot accept himself. This is why some people will feel ugly when they look in the mirror, and the self in the photos will be even uglier."

Song Che expressed a very realistic and cruel principle.

After saying that, Song Che subconsciously glanced at the camera.

Seeing this, the camera master hurriedly smiled and said, "Don't worry, Dr. Song in the camera is also quite handsome."

Song Che showed white teeth and a clear smile: "Of course I don't worry, there is still this confidence, and the eyes of the masses and machines are sharp."

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Qian Zhifei, Wang Bingbing and the cameraman were silent collectively.

Although this guy smiled harmlessly, looking at his serious little eyes, if he was ugly, he might make a big fuss on CCTV.

"Back to the point, through this psychological research, can you also realize that you may be beautify the people and things in the past through automatic brain supply?" Song Che asked.

Gu Huanian pondered for a while and nodded slightly: "Is that a little bit."

"It's all. This is also why many people often miss their old love when their new relationship is not going well, and they will ignore or even beautify the shortcomings of their old love." Song Che seemed to be tempting: "Think about it carefully. If the person you have been obsessed with will become an old man who is addicted to alcohol and is drunk and dreaming, will you still have the feelings for him?"

"This... is hard to say." Gu Huanian was still unable to face her heart, or she did not have the courage to overturn the feelings she had persisted for most of her life.

"Be honest, Teacher Gu, I haven't met for most of my life. They have experienced completely different life experiences, and the time you met is less than one-third of the time you have separated. Even if you meet again, the person standing in front of you is a familiar stranger." Song Che was still adding fuel to the fire: "It is understandable that Guo Xiang will miss Yang Guo for life when he meets Yang Guo. After all, Yang Guo's appearance is there, but that old man, in addition to drinking and living a life of life, is still old and doesn't like taking a bath. Do you still want to be like him?"

"Enough!"

Gu Huanian was both angry and funny, scolding: "Your grandpa taught you to raise you, just to let you slander him like this?"

As soon as these words were said, Qian Zhifei and Wang Bingbing's bodies were shaking at the same time, and they immediately smelled the smell of bloody dramas from Hong Kong and Taiwan.

It turns out that the old love that Academician Gu has been thinking about is Song Che’s grandfather!

If this scene is broadcast, it will definitely attract the saliva and melon seed skin from the melon-eating crowd!

Moreover, Song Che even slandered his grandfather like this, so he wasn't afraid that his coffin board could not be pressed.

Song Che seemed to be nothing, and raised the third pot of tea and poured another cup. "Recognizing the various perfections and flaws of himself and life, we can understand the cause of the disease. After drinking this cup of tea, the disease will be almost cured."

Although this third cup is called "tea", it actually only contains boiled water in a teacup, which means that life is not bitter or sweet, just like a cup of boiled water, it all depends on the person involved to taste it himself.

Gu Huanian really savored the taste of boiled water and frowned and said, "I'll forget my feelings after drinking it. Why don't I believe it so much?"

Song Chezhen said in a verbal voice: "Teacher Gu, after drinking this cup, there are three more cups."

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Chapter completed!