1154. What should parents do if they prefer sons to daughters 1
At Ming'an City's Second Experimental High School, Zhou Zekai sat in his position and looked out the window. As the second experimental high school ranked by Ming'an City, the teaching staff here are not only the best in Ming'an City, but also the best in all high schools.
Of course, at this time, the students in Zhou Zekai's class were busy, and only Zhou Zekai did not do his homework and looked outside. Many people know that Zhou Zekai was stuffed in. The score line of this year's second experimental high school was not reached at all. To put it bluntly, they are students who came in through the back door. Such people are generally looked down upon by serious students.
However, Zhou Zekai was very calm. He thought of his current family and what was about to happen, and his mind was a little confused.
Why is it a bit messy? Because Zhou Zekai really doesn't understand. In this world, why are there so many people who prefer boys over girls? It's okay for men to favor boys over girls, but sometimes women even prefer boys over girls more than men.
The wisher grew up in such a family. As a boy, he was loved by his family. He even realized that he had an older sister who had been thrown into the village and was raised by his grandparents. He never met each other. The wisher also knew after meeting during festivals that he had an older sister named Zhou Siqi.
Because I have been used to having only one child at home for a long time, the wisher never thought about how it would be like to have a sister. Every time I was contacted by Zhou Siqi, who was two years older, I was like an outsider. He didn't quite understand the meaning of a sister, because since childhood, he had only himself in his family.
The wisher never thought that his parents were also boys over girls. As the wisher grew older, he had already understood that his sister was his biological sister and wanted his parents to pick her up, but his parents always found many excuses and never listened to the wisher. Although the couple loved the wisher, they never allowed the wisher to have any ideas of their own. They had to listen to these two people in everything, as if only in this way could they raise their sons.
The source of the incident was that grandpa died. Grandma had passed away for two years. When grandpa died, he gave the old house to the wisher's sister Zhou Siqi. At that time, Zhou's father and mother had not thought about what was going on. Later, after hearing about the demolition of their hometown, they began to go back and want to snatch the house. The daughter didn't want to raise it, but wanted to snatch the house. And it was obviously for her own selfishness, but she said that she bought a house for her son to get married in the future. Later, she finally snatched the house from Zhou Siqi.
However, after taking Zhou Siqi to his house, the sister could not bear the family and chose to commit suicide. At that time, the first person to discover that her sister committed suicide was the wisher. This incident caused great stimulation to him. He even fell into depression for a long time and began to fear his parents, thinking that his parents forced his sister to death.
But the more this happens, after seeing his daughter die, Zhou's father and mother told the wisher that the house was to buy a house for the wisher to get married in the future, etc. In short, the wisher thought that if it was not for him, his sister would not die.
After high school, the wisher had a very poor grades. After repeating his studies for a year, he applied to the school farthest from his home. After leaving home, the wisher never went back and looked for a part-time job in the school. After graduating from college, he found his own job. He was afraid to go home, face his parents, and remember his former sister.
Later, the wisher also had his own family. He took good care of his wife and did not value boys over girls. He loved his wife very much and even tried hard to make money to buy a house for both children. His parents once said that buying a house for him was like it had never happened. He became an unfilial son. He never went home except to give two elderly people two thousand yuan a month.
Because he didn't want to go back, he didn't want to go back to the home full of pain.
Later, this soul met Zhou Zekai. He made a wish and everything would be fine. He no longer wanted to be a puppet in his parents' hands, but wanted to keep his sister alive. He didn't care about the house at all, and he didn't want his sister to be forced to death!!! If possible, he wanted to take his sister away from this place. He wanted to let his sister experience freedom, just like he did in his previous life!
Now the time period where Zhou Zekai is, just before his grandfather passed away. Grandpa suddenly died. Because of a fall, his health problems occurred. Zhou Zekai's sister also went to high school in Ming'an City, but her grades were not that good. Zhou's father and mother naturally would not buy her a good high school. She went to school in Ming'an City's No. 1 high school this year.
It was in the second half of this year that my grandfather passed away, my sister started a tug-of-war with her parents, and then my sister died...
Thinking of his parents in my memory, Zhou Zekai was a little helpless. This couple not only favored boys over girls, but also was unfilial to their parents. They had never seen much during festivals and holidays, and the same was true for grandparents. After giving birth to a son, they asked the elders for a lot of money. Later, they used their son to do a lot of things and controlled their son to do many things that he didn't want to do.
For children, the most terrifying thing is the words of the adults who are for your own good.
This is how Zhou and Zhou’s mother. I used me to build a cage for your own good, and wrapped the wisher firmly in it. I have not allowed the wisher to play with other people since I was a child, because I was afraid that the wisher would be injured. When the wisher was in elementary school, he finally met a good friend. The two of them had a quarrel one day, so they started fighting. As a result, after Zhou’s mother and Zhou knew about this, they started fighting with his friends’ parents and insisted on making money...
At this point, the wisher has no friends in elementary school... The same is true when he is in junior high school. He does not allow his son to live in school, and watches him every day like a prisoner. He makes the wisher very lonely. When he goes to high school, he even insists on buying into the experimental high school regardless of his grades. However, in such experimental high schools, the wisher cannot keep up with the rhythm.
The ridicule of people around and the decline in their grades made the wishers inevitably complain. Zhou Siqi happened again, and the wishers would suffer from depression. After the wishers left home, Zhou Zekai was very sure that his depression must have not been cured, otherwise he would not have made such a wish when he met himself.
Ordinary children may make a wish to keep their sister alive and then have a happy family.
But what about the wisher? He wants his sister to be free, and wants to take her sister to be free, and does not mention her parents at all, as if he has left her parents behind.
Such people are undoubtedly selfish, but this can prove that the wisher's illness has not yet recovered. He is afraid of his childhood when he is controlled by his parents, and is afraid of seeing his sister die when he is most powerless, and is also afraid of the compromise after getting along with his parents. It is precisely because of these oppression and fear that he hopes to take his sister away, rather than letting his sister go home, or getting along well with his parents.
Because the wisher has been confirmed from the bottom of his heart that he can no longer get along with his parents.
It is precisely because of this inability to get along with my parents that I have such a wish.
Zhou Zekai understood his mood. To be honest, after reading the memories of the wisher, he really couldn't get along with such parents. After all, the other party hurt him in the name of love.
No matter how precious a boy is, you can't keep everything in mind, right? It's fine if you don't let him interact with others. Even when you are at home, playing games will be controlled for a period of time. You can't lock the door when taking a shower. You are afraid that he will drown and you can't lock the door even when going to the toilet, because Zhou's father and mother said that going to the toilet alone is not safe.
The rules and regulations in life all make the wisher's thinking like a shackle, making him no longer willing to put this shackle on himself after escaping.
Zhou Zekai also understood why Zhou’s father and mother did this by checking the memories of the wisher. Generally speaking, some parents have a lot of control over their children, while Zhou’s father and mother over-controlled their children, causing a rebound, and even let the children see with their own eyes that they forced another biological flesh to death. In this case, the wisher is naturally afraid and afraid. In addition, this unfilial pair of parents has an impact on the children, so that the wisher does not have the concept of supporting the couple in their old age...
In short, parents are the best mentors for their children. This sentence is correct, because parents are good, and their children will definitely be well educated. However, if parents are not good, then if the children want to be good, they must rely on their self-control.
Do you want to abandon your parents and leave this time? Zhou Zekai doesn't know how to solve this problem for a while. His grandfather will die in two months, and the house will be given to his sister. There will be news of the demolition in another half a year... Zhou Zekai still has a long time to consider this matter.
But before that, Zhou Zekai planned to develop a relationship with her sister first. What should I say? Zhou Siqi still likes her younger brother very much, but she didn't expect her parents to be so cruel. Zhou Zekai decided that since the wisher wants freedom, he would give Zhou Siqi freedom.
Of course, as for the two parents who want to control their sons, they always need to make them recognize some facts.
For example... children are not parents' playthings, so they can handle whatever they want.
If the children in the world are all obedient and well-behaved children, then is that possible?
Chapter completed!