Chapter 1106
In the room, there were only Li Shaoan and Fu Wenqian.
The clock on the wall has reached ten o'clock, and it is not too early, but neither of them is sleepy and prefers to sit and chat.
Will your parents agree?
This is my own choice.
There was something hidden between Fu Wenqian's eyebrows, which may be difficult for Li Shaoan to understand, but for her, she had her own ideas.
In fact, my parents have been very strict with me since childhood, and have planned all kinds of things for me, including studying, taking the majors in schools, or even making friends. All of these are decided by them. I have always been whatever they say and dare not go against their ideas.
I don't know much about me. My parents left when I was very young. My elder brother raised me.
They felt that I would become a good girl in their eyes, and I was worth showing off in front of relatives and friends. All the relatives and friends in the family envied them for having a baby daughter, but this was not the life I wanted. I hated listening to the flattering words of relatives and friends, and I hated seeing their faces in front and back. I wanted to live according to my own ideas, rather than following the life plan they had made for me.
Hearing this, Li Shaoan didn't know how to describe his mood at this moment.
It is true that when he met Fu Wenqian, he always thought that Fu Wenqian was a very good woman in all aspects, well-educated, well-educated, cheerful, and could think that she should have a good tutor and a good family environment. However, it was not until he heard Fu Wenqian say these words in his heart that Li Shaoan knew how independent Fu Wenqian was and had his own ideas.
Yes, we often hear our elders’ lives since we were young. This cannot be done, that cannot be done, and that must be done in the future. Most people choose to compromise. There are really not many people like you who can live according to your own ideas.
What can I do? Before I go out to work, I will eat at home and use it. Without financial independence, what confidence can I have to pursue my own way of living?
So entering the bank is your own choice.
I don't want to listen to them. They mean that I will take the civil service exam after graduation, go to the government office and work hard at the grassroots level, and then have a similar partner. Getting married and having children will last for this life.
You are not such a person. Li Shaoan held his hands and placed it in front of his mouth.
What do you think I am? Fu Wenqian's eyes flashed with light, and she looked at Li Shaoan happily and unexpectedly.
I don’t know what to say, but we have known each other for so long, I can feel that you are definitely not the kind of person who can be satisfied with a stable work life. Li Shaoan leaned on the sofa.
Fu Wenqian said: You are right, so I resolutely entered the bank despite their opposition, and started from the bottom of my work, and finally got to the position of account manager. Although the work is very tiring and requires a lot of pressure, I am suffering and enjoying it. I just want to tell my parents that I don’t need them to plan my life for me, and I will walk my own path myself.
In order to ease the heavy atmosphere, Li Shaoan smiled and said: Maybe in two years, you will be the president of your branch.
Fu Wenqian smiled and shook her head, saying: When the president is too far away, I just want to make more money now. The more I earn, the more I can prove that my own path is right!
Li Shaoan said: So from the beginning of knowing you, you pulled me to lend money to meet the performance requirements and worked with me to make treasury bills. I think you should not be a person who is willing to be ordinary. The days of tea, rice, oil and salt planned by your parents for you are indeed not suitable for you.
Now I know why I want to do this job. Although it does have too many unsatisfactory things, at least it can give me a good income and give me confidence in front of my parents. I can live according to my own ideas.
Come on, how many people want to live their lives according to their own ideas, but how many people can really live like this? At least you have done it now.
Fu Wenqian smiled slightly, looked at Li Shaoan with a pair of autumn eyes, and asked: What about you, have you ever thought about the way you want to go?
Am I
Li Shaoan hesitated. He thought about this question before, but later forgot about it.
Does he have a path he wants to take? Once upon a time, when Li Shaoan returned to Tieshan Bay as a pride of heaven, the life plan he set for himself was to change Tieshan Bay to another day and get rid of the poverty hat that had been put on his head for decades.
But now, Li Shaoan has found that the path he really took is getting further and further away from the road he once imagined.
I used to think very simply, go back to my hometown village and take everyone out of poverty and become rich, so that every fellow villagers no longer worry about poverty.
But now I think more about myself, and more often about my own interests. My previous thoughts seem to be getting further and further away from me.
Fu Wenqian said: This is normal, because you are not a saint, and those selfless, glorious and righteous, tall and majestic people will always appear in it. You are just an ordinary person living in reality, rather than a god who descends from heaven to save the suffering of the people. In reality, each of us has our own life and our own way to go. Our limited energy must first be responsible for ourselves and then for our family. If we still have the ability, we will consider what to do to society.
Li Shaoan smiled and said: Your words are right, which reminds me of the words of the sages: If you are poor, you will be safe and you will be able to help the world.
Yes, if you are poor, you will be safe, and if you are prosperous, you will help the world. When you have that ability, these things will naturally come naturally. For most ordinary people, it is not easy to live a good life, take care of their own affairs well, and avoid causing trouble to society.
Wen Qian, why do I think your views are becoming more and more reasonable?
What is the reason? Don’t mention me. I am just a little woman, so I don’t know any big principles. These are just my thoughts.
Li Shaoan used to think that Fu Wenqian knew more about money than ordinary people. Now it seems that she is too underestimating her. Li Shaoan even feels inferior to some of Fu Wenqian's opinions.
Fu Wenqian comforted: So, don’t put too much pressure on yourself if your hometown village can get rid of poverty and become rich. This is a problem that even the county and township governments cannot solve. The entire Taohu County is ranked at the bottom among the six counties in Nanxiang. This is the general trend. You can’t change it alone, but just try your best. As for the result, let it be natural.
Chapter completed!