Chapter 695 Theory
Xiaofang gave everyone the impression of being fierce. This little girl is really not afraid of life. Her new daughter-in-law had just entered the beauty family, but she and her mother-in-law actually had a big fight in public.
This is not something that an ordinary daughter-in-law can do, but if Xiaofang is the kind of person who wants to influence the Jia Zhang family and is always messy and arrogant, if Xiao Fang is too weak-tempered, he may suffer the consequences for the rest of his life.
Just like Qin Huairu, everyone knows that Qin Huairu is always more tolerant when facing the Jia Zhang family, but Jia Zhang family is always pushing the envelope and keeps Qin Huairu under control anyway.
Of course, everyone actually understands what Jia Zhang did. After all, his son is dead. If his daughter-in-law remarries while she is young, what will her three grandchildren do?
It would be impossible to give it to his daughter-in-law. After all, it is his own child. But if he does not give it to his daughter-in-law, it would be unrealistic for him to take care of three children alone.
Therefore, Mrs. Jia Zhang was a little more reckless and controlled her daughter-in-law. This seemed to be a way to live a good life.
Besides, Qin Huairu is indeed a girl from the countryside. Now she has become a city dweller and has a job in the city. The iron rice bowl is the opportunity and job that Jia Dongxu and Jia Dongxu paid for with their lives.
So at this time, although Jia Zhang was trying to manipulate Qin Huairu a little bit and was messing around, in fact most of the neighbors in Jia Zhang's family were quite understanding and generally turned a blind eye.
Unless the trouble is ugly, the big guys are not willing to get involved in Qin Huairu's family affairs.
But Jia Zhang is a messy master. Everyone should be very clear about this. But Xiaofang is not Jin Huiru. Qin Huairu took her husband's job. At this time, it is natural to be filial to Jia Zhang.
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But Xiaofang was helped by the organization to solve the problem. In this case, it would be unreasonable to say that Jia Zhang continued to manipulate Xiaofang.
And seeing that Xiaofang openly talked about this matter so confidently in public, it seems that this is a very good way to ask the big guy clearly, so the big guy actually doesn't have any ill intentions towards Xiaofang.
Here, the method is also to nod secretly.
At least it looks good so far. I nodded secretly. This method, at least so far, looks good.
But it’s hard for the elder to continue to look at it like that. He hopes to be repaid to the people who provide for the elderly. Now that the young people in the Academy of Social Sciences are as noisy as Xiaofang, the issue of elderly care may be lost.
So the uncle said without hesitation: "Jia Zhang, are you the elders of your family? It was you and Bangzi's own grandmother who broke the family, and the bones are still connected to the tendons. In this case, you are so
It seems that Jia and Zhang are a little embarrassed to step down.
Respecting the old and loving the young is a traditional virtue in our country, and young people should pay attention to it. But in this case, it is indeed not appropriate to blindly confront the elderly.
Our courtyard is a civilized courtyard. Originally, the matter of Jia Zhang's family was indeed an unreasonable matter of Jia Zhang's family. However, in order to protect her future retirement life, she also stood on the side of Jia Zhang family a little unconscionably and preached.
Xiaofang, let Xiaofang reflect on this.
But I didn't expect that Xiaofang is not the kind of polite person. It's not that she didn't say anything when she was bullied. She was a very shrewd little girl from the countryside.
In this case, when faced with the unfairness to herself, Xiaofang did not swallow her anger, but responded unceremoniously: "Grandpa, what you said is a bit inappropriate. As an elder in charge, you should remain fair."
A fair attitude is the right thing to do. I didn't say you were unfilial to the elderly, and I didn't say you contradicted your old man.
I just talked about this matter in front of everyone, and everyone was just making comments. Those who should support the elderly should be kind to the elderly. The two of us did not hesitate at all, and there was no ambiguity at all.
Speaking of, how do we treat the elderly in our family? Everyone should know this. Bangge and I have been married for a while. In the meantime, I slowly discovered some things about our courtyard.
Our family's life in our Academy of Social Sciences does not seem to be the worst now. Although it is not the best, it is more than above, less than below, and it is a living condition that is above the middle.
After all, Bangge and I are already married, have already found jobs, and are getting paid. In this case, we have to live in a slightly better condition.
And we actually respect the elderly a lot. When my grandma wanted to eat meat, I would take the initiative to go to the supply and marketing cooperative to buy the meat before Bangge came back from get off work.
Speaking of which, during the time I got married, our family ate meat a lot. Even if it’s not the best in the whole courtyard, there are few people in our courtyard who can eat meat in different ways like us. This is almost non-existent, right?"
These words made the elder feel a little bit surprised. The little girl was amazing, but this time it left him speechless.
Therefore, the first man felt that he could no longer argue. If he continued to argue, the little prestige he had finally established might be gone.
After all, as a grown-up man and a little kid, it would indeed be a bit of a loss for him to argue in public here.
At this moment, his eyes widened and his brows furrowed, and he suddenly had an idea. It looked like the second uncle was giving the second uncle a wink.
The second uncle immediately understood and immediately followed up and said: "It is difficult for an upright official to deal with household affairs. Some domestic affairs are actually a process of mutual compromise.
Let's get along with each other. These are people who have been through this for a long time. Look, who in our courtyard has no conflict with the mother-in-law and father-in-law or the old father-in-law at home? Such people basically do not exist.
But generally everyone seems to be quite filial.
After all, Mr. Jia Zhang is old and wants to eat some meat. That’s okay. As juniors, you just have to be considerate."
Xiaofang was too embarrassed to continue arguing, but responded calmly: "What the second grandpa said, relatively speaking, we do the same, we eat what others eat, and we even say it is better than most people."
People's food is slightly better.
But as my grandma said, if you live under such a living condition of eating meat once every two days, only two or three families in our courtyard can do it, and they are also relatively low-key people. This does not mean eating meat every two days.
Meat, right?
There is no such family in our courtyard house. Besides, we are a member of a family whose financial situation is not particularly good.
As you mentioned, for example, Grandpa, Uncle Zhuzi and Uncle Mao, their living conditions are better than ours, and they don’t talk about eating meat every two days.
This is the restoration behavior of the petty bourgeoisie who covets enjoyment, does not work well, does not contribute well to the motherland, and only thinks about eating and drinking well, which is not good."
Chapter completed!