He Yuzhu was very curious and said: "Auntie, you understand these things.

I thought you didn't quite understand these things, but why were you so pampered when your grandson was a child?

To be honest, the two of us have never sat down and chatted properly.

I have never known what you think. Anyway, you do love Bangge very much. I know this very well.

I remember that during the food shortage period, almost all the children in our yard were short of food.

Not to mention starving all the children, it is definitely impossible for us, but in those two years, it is considered good if the children can actually eat enough.

But Bangge, this kid, had never suffered hardship at that time, and all he ate was meat.

Anyway, the nutrition is up to par. Not to mention eating eggs every day, I have to eat an egg every one or two days anyway. It is considered the best among the children in our courtyard.

It can be seen that you do love your grandson very much, but you should also know that if you dote too much, that is doting. You should know that Bangge steals things in my room, but you just don't care.

You just protect him blindly, do you think it’s right to protect him in this way?”

The old lady snorted, glanced at He Yuzhu with some disdain, and then said confidently: "Zhuzi, what about these things, do you have the nerve to talk about them?

If you don’t say it, I won’t talk about you. If you say that, we and my mother will have a good chat. You said that you and my son don’t have to look for trouble, but he is still young, right? Why don’t I pamper him?

What to do?

So is there a way for our orphans and widowed mothers to survive in our courtyard? What if other children bully him? He doesn’t have the support of his father. If I don’t pamper my grandson, then he should be bullied by others.

So I dote on my grandson. If I don’t dote on my grandson, who will I dote on? Also, why do you and my grandson steal your things? You know it in your heart.

If you don't care about my daughter-in-law, will you watch my grandson steal things from your house and ignore her?

You also said that my grandson went to your room to get things because he was getting close to you and was close to you. Anyway, I didn’t force you to say these things. This is what you said about my habit of stealing things. I am indeed

take part of the responsibility.

But a large part of the responsibility still belongs to you. I will definitely not say this in front of that outsider. It is just the two of us. What is wrong with this talk? My grandson does have the habit of being a thief. I know this, but I

Why bother?

It is very normal for people to steal something in our rural areas.

It's not a big deal to go to a neighbor's vegetable patch to pick vegetables or get an apple or something. At first, I didn't care much about it. As for what happened between you and my daughter-in-law just now, I was actually too angry to go there.

Take care of my grandson.

It was these two situations from the beginning. Anyway, I don't care about my grandson going to your house to get your things. Anyway, I said that taking your things is not called stealing, it is called taking things. Who told you not to care about it?

You had thoughts about my daughter-in-law at the time, so you didn't care. As a grandmother, I don't care. After all, it wasn't me who had the things taken away. You were the main person responsible for this matter.

So if my grandson has a problem like something, I do have a certain responsibility to save it, but the bigger responsibility is that you did it yourself.

Also, why do you think I should pamper my grandson?

Of course I have to pamper him, and I also know that if I discipline him well for two years, he may go on a different path.

But think about it, if I want him to work in a factory, I have to find a job for him. I am an old woman. I can’t even go out on the street and I don’t know all the people on the street. What does it matter to me? What ability do I have to help him?

Will my grandson be introduced to the factory?

I want to take care of him, I want him to have a good and serious job, but I also have the ability to introduce him to a job.

Unlike you, even Xu Damao, you are also the leader in the factory. If you want to introduce a job to my grandson, it would be easier.

Even if you work slowly as a temporary worker, you can look for opportunities to become a regular worker here. You have the ability to arrange it, so it’s okay for you to take care of it. But I don’t have the ability. I want my grandson to take the right path.

Discipline him well.

But you said that if I discipline him, I will have to introduce him to a job. But I don’t have the ability to introduce him to a job. What’s the use of my discipline? I’ll discipline him a few words, and he will listen to me even after he said it.

, but in the end I didn’t have much work.

Then he is still going the same old way, so I have no choice. If I discipline him strictly, if he can't follow the right path and still hates me, then I will have no hope in the future, right?

I am not doing well now, and I hope this guy will provide me with money to support me in my retirement. But at this time, I have a headache or a fever, and this guy can borrow a bicycle to take me to the hospital, but he probably won't be able to pay for it.

But if we, the host, don't have a good relationship, if I get sick, he can lend me a bicycle or a scooter or something to take me to the hospital, and there will definitely be no problem.

I know my grandson very well. It’s difficult for me to ask him to pay, but if he has the strength to send my wife to the hospital, there will definitely be no problem.

Even if my grandson is unfilial, he will definitely do it for my wife, so why should I ruin the relationship with my grandson? At first, I didn't care much about his habits, maybe I was responsible.

But gradually, I had no other choice about this matter, right? After all, it’s not my decision. Some things just have no choice.

So don't worry about the money in the water. You ask my grandson and his wife to pay it back themselves, or use other methods to solve this matter. Anyway, I just want to

I would like to take advantage of this opportunity and collect some money, for the sake of my grandson, and to ensure my future life for my future retirement.

Anyway, it’s basically impossible for me to let go of this kind of thing. For the rest, you can just find a way to solve it yourself. If you can’t solve it, we’ll talk about it at the wedding.”

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What the old lady said is a bit unreasonable. It sounds reasonable, but in fact it is indeed difficult to convince the public.

This statement is from her own perspective. It is definitely beneficial to the old lady, but it goes without saying whether it is beneficial to other people. It goes without saying, but the old lady still chooses to do this, which is interesting.
Chapter completed!