Chapter 609 Guidance(1/2)
The eldest mother obviously looks very lonely. She has not been able to give birth to a son and a half daughters for Lao Yi. This is the last reason why the eldest mother cannot stand up and speak, and she has no say in the family.
So when Auntie heard what Zhuzi said, she also thought of her old man, and how she expected Bangge to provide for her in old age. In this situation, it would be very difficult to count on him to provide for her in old age. Then the days to come would be very difficult.
Sad.
But with his old man's temper, it was impossible for him to say anything.
So the aunt at this moment still seemed very helpless.
After all, He Yuzhu was a little soft-hearted, because when He Daqing left, he and He Yuyu were left behind. It was up to the eldest mother to take care of her brother and sister. Only in this way could the two of them gain a foothold in the courtyard. Otherwise,
It is very difficult for two children without an adult to take care of them.
Auntie is a kind-hearted person, but she cannot be the master of the family at home. However, in general, He Yuzhu feels that his family still owes Auntie a lot of family affection.
Of course, this favor is only owed to Auntie.
So He Yuzhu thought for a while and said: "Well at this time, as a junior, I shouldn't say anything, but in this situation, to be honest, I am a little too much and a little obsessed.
Can the bottomless pit of the Jia family be filled? What kind of people are they in their family? They are all a bunch of white-eyed wolves. My elder brother may not be able to get out for a while because he has invested more.
But you have to score clearly. Aunt Li said very helplessly at this moment, Zhuzi, I am not the one in charge of our family, the old man in our family is the one in charge. What's the use of me thinking clearly?
No matter how clearly I think about it, I think that maybe Bangge is not a kind-hearted boy, and it is probably very difficult for us to provide for him until we die, but I don’t think it’s useless. You have to deal with this matter.
I think it's impossible.
But now you said that there is a high chance that we, the two of us, can find another person to help us take care of us until we die. It is also more difficult now, so your uncle thinks Banggeng should be a better choice.
I think there’s nothing we can do about it.”
He Yuzhu thought for a while and then said: "Auntie, although you can't be the master of the house at home, you should be in charge of the money, right?"
The eldest mother hesitated for a moment and said, "Although the money is enough for me to take care of, I'm not the master of the family. I'll take care of the money as long as I command the girl. But you still have to listen to your grandpa on how to spend the money. I can't be the master of the family."
Call the shots.
It’s not the money I earn, it’s all your uncle’s money, so it’s you, Italy, who have the final say on how to spend the money.”
At this moment, He Yuzhu smiled and said: "Of course my grandfather must have earned this money, and of course my uncle has the final say, but after all, the money is still under your control.
My uncle is just a personal shopkeeper. He won't settle accounts with you anymore. As long as the money is roughly the same in the accounts, that's fine.
But how much is my uncle’s salary? It’s more than 90 yuan a month. When you are in charge of money, if you deduct 10 or 20 yuan a month, it’s impossible for my uncle to notice it.
My oldest brother is a big boy.
You have to save some money for your own house. Of course, it is not easy to buy a house in the city now. Even if you buy a house, it is not easy to hide it from me.
Don’t you still have relatives in your hometown? And it seems that your household registration is still in your natal family, and has not been transferred. There are so many brothers and sisters in your natal family, and I remember that when I was a child, you still interacted with each other quite often."
Hearing this, the aunt laughed a little awkwardly, and said with a smile: "We used to come and go frequently, but these years I am too lazy to move around as I get older. I do have a few relatives in my parents' family, including my five brothers and two sisters.
Not much else to say, our parents’ family is considered a wealthy family in the village.
But now that your aunt is getting older, I am the eldest sister, and my children come to see me during the holidays. You and your eldest brother don’t often meet each other even when the children come to work, so you don’t know me very well.
A few juniors.
When I go back, I don’t go back very often. I only go back during Qingming Festival and other times and basically don’t go back and forth much.”
After hearing this, He Yuzhu said with a smile: "The relationship is still here anyway, right? After all, we are flesh and blood, and the bones are broken and the tendons are connected. And you are the elder, and they come to see you as the junior, then
It is as it should be.
As long as the relatives are not married, it's okay. Anyway, you have a rural registered permanent residence and you can't find a job in the city. It's very difficult for you to save money and slowly save some to go home and build two houses to leave yourself a way out.
It's normal.
It is quite cheap to build a house in rural areas now. Even if you build a courtyard house, it only costs three to five hundred yuan in rural areas.
You can go back and save money to apply for a base in the countryside and build a yard. In this way, you can also leave yourself a way out.
My elder brother is indeed a bit obsessed. To be honest, Qin Huairu and his family are like white-eyed wolves.
If you help him today, they may not be grateful to you in the future. Once this family falls out, do you think I can accept this reality, right?
Anyway, no matter what, you always have to leave a way out for yourself. Even if Qin Huairu and his family are not human in the future, you at least have a yard in the countryside. When you and I are old, we won’t have nowhere to go.
Stay.
Although we are in rural areas, what happened to rural areas? It’s enough that we can’t do it in rural areas anyway, right?
Just like in your situation, my uncle is only thinking about letting Banggeng take care of him until his death, but you have to secretly leave a way out for yourself."
The eldest mother was finally persuaded. She hesitated and said, "If this is really going to be like this, what will you do if your uncle wants to check the accounts or discovers that there is something wrong with the money?
Although the old man is not very good at accounting, he still asks how much money he has in his hands from time to time."
He Yuzhu said in one breath: "Auntie, you need to think of another way now. For example, if you say that Qin Huairu borrowed 10 yuan and 8 yuan, can I ask Qin Huairu if she borrowed the money? In the end?
How much money to borrow is impossible, and even if you ask Qin Huairu, a smart person like Qin Huairu will definitely find a way to cover it up.
After all, he also borrowed a lot of money from you. Some are less than 10 yuan and 8 yuan, and some are more than 10 yuan and 8 yuan. I guess Qin Huiru doesn't know how to keep accounts. They didn't plan to repay the money they borrowed, so anyway, you
Find an excuse to withhold the money, and slowly you can build yourself a yard in the countryside.
If this yard is never used, forget it. It can be regarded as a place for you to stay in your parents' home. But once this yard is used, it will be a place for you and your family to retire.
So it’s best for you to do this secretly, and don’t count on Bangzi, because Bangzi’s white-eyed wolf is not someone who can provide for you in your old age.”
After the aunt heard this, she finally made up her mind and said, "Okay, aunt, I will listen to you. Anyway, I have some money left in my hands over the years. If I save a little more, it will be no problem to go back to the countryside and build a yard."
At this time, He Yuzhu nodded and said: "Yes, you are right to think this way, aunt. After all, it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others. Also, you need to earn more money in your hands to use it as a precaution in the future. Anyway, you can
Just save a little more.
To be honest, if you don't save an extra 10 yuan, your family's money will be stolen by Qin Huairu and his family sooner or later.
Okay, okay, I'll go back first, you just need to know what's going on."
Of all the white-eyed wolves in the yard, only the aunt has some kindness, so I would try my best to remind the aunt that she hopes to leave a way out for herself and save more money for herself.
road.
It would be great to be able to get a house in the countryside. After all, she also has a rural registered permanent residence and cannot find a job in the city. This is one of the reasons why she has no say in the house when she catches a cold.
If Aunt Yi had some kind of job, she wouldn't have had any say in the family. Of course, it was precisely because Aunt Yi had a rural household registration that she could apply for a homestead in her parents' family, leaving a way out for herself.
Otherwise, even if you have an urban registered permanent residence, if you don't have a job, it will be impossible to build a homestead for your family. If you are cheated by Bangge and his family in the future, you will really lose all your money.
So it seems that Auntie is a relatively lucky person.
In fact, Aunt Yi is also a resolute person, the kind who does what she says. On the second day, she tidied up here and said: "My mother-in-law is feeling sick and needs to go back for something. After all,
The eldest sister is actually a person with relatively low emotional intelligence in life, and she does not think that her wife can play tricks on her.
It’s just that the eldest uncle said before the eldest mother left: “Those brothers from your mother’s family may be begging you for something. When the time comes, you have to be careful and don’t be soft-hearted.
Even your brothers are the ones who take advantage of you."
The eldest mother, Shuikou, said in a perfunctory manner: "Someone sent me a message to go back to my parents' home. There must be something big going on in the clan today, so they brought me back. You can't just say goodbye to this relative."
Damn it, after all, it’s my mother’s family. If you have something to do with me, you should go back.
Don’t worry, if anything big happens when I come back, I’ll definitely discuss it with you.”
Yiyi immediately felt that his position as the head of the family had been consolidated, so he nodded casually and said, "Okay, then go to bed quickly, go back quickly, and don't let your parents say anything again."
, when we become prosperous in the city, we are no longer my parents’ family.
You can just give it on the spot when the time comes. If you want more, come back and discuss it with me."
If you really don't go back, forget it. If your daughter-in-law returns to her parents' home, then as an eighth-level worker, if you can't even get 10 or 20 yuan for your daughter-in-law, you will be looked down upon by your daughter-in-law's parents.
Uncle Li will never allow this kind of thing. Uncle Li is a very face-saving person. Even if it costs 10 or 20 yuan, he will not allow his reputation as an eighth-level worker to be looked down upon among a group of idiots.
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Before the aunt went out, the uncle seemed to have thought of something and said: "By the way, there is a steel factory in your hometown. Their factory director is my apprentice, and he is the one who used to come to our house to eat and drink.
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If you really have something wrong, you can ask Er Fatty to help you solve it. My apprentice doesn't dare to say anything else. He seems to have some connections in their hometown.
I'll call him after I get to work today and tell him what happened when you went over, and you can contact him directly."
This is actually the first uncle. He values his own face very much, especially when facing his mother-in-law’s family. He values his own face even more.
Even though his father-in-law and mother-in-law are gone, he still doesn't want to lose face in front of his brothers-in-law. Of course, one of the reasons why Italy is so generous is that his brothers-in-law still respect him quite a bit.
Regardless of whether it was his brother-in-law or the younger generation, everyone came to see him during the holidays. Uncle Li did a very good job, and he didn't care about the gifts of raw melons, pears and dates from his brother-in-law's house.
What he wants is this face, this respect.
In fact, the first uncle is such a contradictory person. In his first life, it seems that although his brothers-in-law are farmers, he can look down on them and has a sense of superiority.
But if other people looked down on his brother-in-law, then he would definitely not be happy, so sometimes the brothers-in-law from the countryside of his father-in-law and Yue'er came to ask for help.
Under normal circumstances, the uncle will still be happy to help. As for farmers, under normal circumstances, there is not much help to do, it is just to buy some things that need to be drifted.
For example, buy a radio, bicycle, sewing machine, etc. These are necessary things for getting married and marrying a wife.
These things cannot be bought casually, and those that require receipts are not something you can buy if you have money, especially in rural areas. If anyone can buy these three-turn and one-ring rings, it will be extremely easy to get married.
To be continued...