Chapter 28
Nietzsche said, don’t reason with women—of course, Nietzsche said a lot, and was also fabricated and said a lot. This sentence itself, due to translation issues, also has many or even very different ways of expressing it.
In the 1980s or early 1990s, the Chinese people's favorite "Chicken Soup 1.0" was what Nietzsche Kant Hegel said - these three people were making up the status of the chicken soup industry, roughly equivalent to the later Jack Ma and Lu Xun.
Stop talking nonsense.
However, from the above words, whether Nietzsche was originally intended, it can be seen that the young lonely man and widowed woman were actually conducting some academic debates that require rich posture and level on the soft bed with warm and ambiguous lights and ambiguous body fragrance. How strange is this scene.
If Feng Jianxiong and Tian Haimo were not both professional debaters and famous trolls, there would probably be no second group in the world who could start squirting while doing foreplay in bed.
"Maybe the first episode of "The Debater" should start from here. The debate topic is weird enough, explosive enough, and nonsensical enough, but it is worth swearing. Unfortunately, it can't be recorded." Such a weird idea flashed through Feng Jianxiong's mind.
He tried hard to drive distracting thoughts out of his brain and entered a state of trolling's flow:
"Please don't change the concepts in the opposite party. What I just said is, "Human evolutionary instinct will lead to sexual disgust among the opposite sexes who grew up together." But you have expanded the extension to the category of "German orthopedics".
Don’t you think these two concepts have no mutual inclusion? The former refers to human life experiences, while the latter refers to human blood ties.”
Tian Haimo was stunned.
Originally, she was just on a whim and wanted to argue with Feng Jianxiong casually. She was a little unhappy when she heard Feng Jianxiong calling her "opposite debater".
However, in just a moment, she thought this was quite interesting, with an inexplicable stimulation.
So she pretended to get up and wash, then secretly took her computer and secretly Baidu the scholars mentioned by Feng Jianxiong.
Not available on Baidu.
I can only google it and check it directly.
This time, I have it, and I can also retrieve a lot of relevant documents.
Tian Haimo is also a professional debater. She is very good at pulling the tiger's skin and holding the banner. After a while, she will know how to refute it.
"Defenders on the other side, do you think the decision of sexual attraction or sexual rejection is mainly because of lifestyle and has nothing to do with blood? So how do you explain the discussion on ‘hereditary sexual attraction’ in the 1995-7 "british-journal-of-medical-psychology"?
The above research clearly shows that the sexual attraction caused by the high similarity of genetic traits between the opposite sex is very strong. The reason why there were so many marriages in ancient times, and most of them were very harmonious was that there was sexual attraction between men and women. It was only because of ethical restrictions that there was no more terrible consequences.
Now you directly deny the existence of hereditary sexual attraction. Where do you place "Thunderstorm", "The Golden Armor in the City" and even those Qiong Yao dramas? Do you think they are all novels and scripts, and are made up? But those tragedies of "wishing lovers to become brothers and sisters in the end" do exist in history, with prototype background!"
Tian Haimo said a lot, but it was not very strict in fact. There was no way, she just pretended to wash her face and secretly Googled it. It was already amazing to be organized like this.
"Didn't you expect you to have a wide range of knowledge? Unfortunately, you only know one thing, not the other." Feng Jianxiong praised.
In an era when there is no need to force, being able to answer these edited answers so quickly by relying on Google alone shows that they are already very responsive.
Feng Jianxiong continued to explain: "The concept of hereditary sexual attraction certainly exists. I did not deny it just now. I just said that 'life experience and blood relationship' are two independent categories.
Based on the cited Psychology and Gene Attraction of Inbreeding, which I said, and the related research in the issue of "britis-journal-of-medical-psychology" you just mentioned, this issue can actually be described like this:
First of all, people with particular similarities to their genetic traits are indeed very likely to develop attraction and favorable feelings among the opposite sex. If quantified, the probability of such attraction and favorable feelings is about dozens of times that between ordinary people who have no genetic traits at all.
However, humans have not become extinct due to inbreeding, which shows that in the process of evolution, humans naturally have a negative mechanism to offset this hereditary sexual attraction - that is what I just said, "The experience of living together since childhood, especially during the years of sexual maturity and development." This experience will lead to sexual disgust and rejection that humans have stronger sexual attraction than "hereditary sexual attraction", thereby preventing that kind of thoughts between siblings or siblings.
In fact, even if you don’t debate this issue from a serious academic perspective, just talking about life experience, this issue is easy to understand: the emergence of sexual attraction between the opposite sex is that it is mysterious and unfamiliar at the beginning.
As we often say, the true love period between lovers is only 18 months. After 18 months, the amount of dopamine secretion will fade and the passion will fade. If a responsible man and woman have not broken up 18 months after the sex, it is just because they use their sense of responsibility to transform passionate love into indifferent and distant feelings similar to family affection.
And men and women who live together in the years of sexual maturity of adolescents will lack this passionate attraction caused by mysterious strangeness - think about it, if a man, before you have time to think of having sex with him, has been eating, drinking, urinating and sleeping with him for several consecutive years, he will queue up in front of you to go to the bathroom without even hiding his fart, will you still be interested in him? Don’t you feel disgusted?"
"You said this...it seems to be reasonable." Tian Haimo pondered, and actually forgot to refute it. The main reason was that this truth really came to her heart.
As expected, for men, you still have to maintain a sense of mystery first. Only after you have sex with me can you slowly understand the other person's living habits.
No wonder those losers who serve tea and water to the goddess every day have put so much effort in chasing them, but they always have spare tires or even jacks for thousands of years.
Before the passion is adjusted, just take care of the other person's daily life first. Isn't that going in the opposite direction?
Immediately, Tian Haimo thought about the relationship between herself and Feng Jianxiong again. If the "passion period" is over and she is still his lover, and she has not yet proved that she is not a vase, and she has settled down and "cared for her husband and children", will she be his lover for the rest of her life?
However, she was unwilling to be regarded by the world as a watchman like Wendi Deng who used despicable skills to get up.
I feel tired.
Tian Haimo walked away for a while before she could draw her thoughts on the topic: "By the way, according to you, those stories about "lovers eventually become brothers and sisters" seem to be really "half-brothers", "I was separated since I was a child and didn't know that they were brothers and sisters." Then, when I fell in love in the end, I was told the truth and found out that it was a bad fate?
This is because ‘hereditary sexual attraction’ has an effect, and the condition of ‘co-living together during sexual development causes sexual disgust’ is not satisfied?”
"That's it," Feng Jianxiong admitted, gently rubbing Tian Haimo's smooth spine, "Now you should admit defeat, know how unreliable your random thoughts were.
My sister has no blood relationship with me, so the ‘hereditary sexual attraction’ does not exist at all. At the same time, she has pulled me up since she was a child and has no sense of mystery to me. Under the dual effect, how could it be my brother-in-law? So I said you definitely slandered her."
Tian Haimo pouted and thought, "I always feel that there is still some problem - how do you explain the successful cases of childhood sweethearts in ancient times? Didn't childhood sweethearts grow up together since childhood? What about Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai?"
Feng Jianxiong analyzed directly: "People like Jia Baoyu almost do not exist, and Cao Xueqin's shaping was not based on real life. Most other so-called "childhood sweethearts" combined with the social reality at that time have a key point, that is, "not living together in the years during the sexual maturity and development period."
The ancients emphasized that "men and women have different seats at seven years old", so childhood sweethearts were only childhood, which was equivalent to modern kindergartens and elementary school students. During the critical period of junior high school and high school, they lived separately and only had contact again when they were blind dates. This avoided excessive contact in the years when men and women had severe physiological and psychological changes, and eliminated the mystery. Then there was no such thing as I said, "sexual disgust caused by co-living".
Let’s take a step back, the ancients also paid attention to arranged marriages, and there was no need for love at all. Even a few childhood sweethearts who never separated, the parents of the parties felt that they were suitable and could live a life, wouldn’t they just live in such a plain way?”
Tian Haimo put herself in her shoes and thought about it, and asked back: "Then did you separate from your sister when you went to college? In the past three years, you have only occasionally come back to live with your sister, and she is also busy at work. Even if she didn't have any brothers to you when you were a child, would it be because of these years..."
Feng Jianxiong interrupted the speculation by rudely intercepting the subway entrance: "Save it! I was 17 years old in college, and she was 20 years old at that time. She had already matured a lot, and she had no change in her life, and she had no sense of mystery. How could you be suspicious!"
Faced with such remarks, Tian Haimo could only say something but stop.
However, she was silently complaining: "Who said you will not change after you were 17 years old? I heard from Mikoto and Nicole that when you first entered college to military training, you would blush when you saw girls, and you would be as tender as a quail! You have been turning upside down in the past three years!
Feng Yiji's disease... Will she mature even at the age of 20? I think she was clearly in her adolescence and lived with you! Maybe she still thinks this younger brother has become very strange!"
However, the suspicion of criticizing the mulberry and scolding the locust is too great, and Tian Haimo was embarrassed to say it no matter what.
Chapter completed!