Chapter 359: Still upgraded plus
Fireworks are warming up in March.
The big locust tree in the community began to sprout again, indicating that the spring of the new year is coming.
Qin Ma, who didn't know her new friend here, was stuck at home every day, and she had the excitement and joy of having a granddaughter at first. Although she was still happy when she saw the mother and daughter, she was always a little lonely every day when she was alone.
Stay with the couple, and they are not at all comfortable on Beifei Road. The neighbors there are all talented people, they speak nicely, and they can dance square dance...
"Is our mother a good person here..." Qin Guanglin accompanied him to bask in the sun on the balcony. When he turned around and saw the lonely silhouette of Qin's mother sitting in the living room, he felt something was wrong.
"No one plays with her. You are so stupid that you have no topics to talk to you. There is nothing else to do except tease your granddaughter and chat with me. You are idle."
Why don't you see Qin's mother's discomfort long ago, but you can't speak, saying that you should let her go back... It seems like you are driving someone away; let her keep it, she is too idle and not at all comfortable, and she still wants to take care of the mother and son, why don't you bear to wiping her kindness and never mention it to Qin Guanglin.
Now that Qin Guanglin also noticed it and was so easy to save trouble, he simply suggested to him: "She lives here and is not alone yet. Otherwise, you can persuade her to go back, or we can stay together on Beifei Road for some time."
The old man always likes familiar environments. After staying here for a long time, she is afraid that the old lady will get sick.
"Okay, I think I'll find an opportunity to talk to her. It's really boring here... Fortunately, we both like this environment, otherwise we would have to be bored."
Qin Guanglin understood immediately. Qin's mother was not a quiet person. When she was at home, she would get up early every day to stroll outside to watch others dance and practice morning. Sometimes she would join in for a while, take a long walk and buy breakfast before she could go home comfortably.
He thought about how to send Qin's mother back, and it would be impossible to take her back to Beifei Road with her. There was nothing to do there, and even if he lived there for a while, he would have to move a lot of things. In this situation, it was not suitable to run around.
By supper time, Qin Guanglin had finished cooking and had not yet sat down. Qin's mother suddenly frowned and her eyes turned around on the couple.
"Hey...I found out why you seem to be fat?"
She had been comparing for a long time, and found the family photo she took when she was in the hospital from her phone, and put it in front of Qin Guanglin and Er for a gesture...
Huh, it's amazing!
I didn't feel anything when I was together every day. I compared it with photos from three months ago, Qin Guanglin had gained a lot, so why not change much.
"It seems like I've gained a lot of weight..." He Dang swallowed a mouthful. He had been feeling that something had been leaked by her over the past few months, and now he has realized it.
This guy gained weight for a short period of time after having a daughter, and then got out of control!
"What are you afraid of? Isn't this going to keep exercising and then take a break for a while and you will rebound... It's normal. When you go to exercise for a few days, you will lose weight again."
Qin Guanglin plus doesn’t care at all. Just be fat if you are fat. Anyway, your wife is fine now and your daughter is also there. Can’t you let him get fatter?
"No, I have to start exercising today. If you delay for another two months, you won't be able to practice!" He Dian pursed his mouth and looked unwilling. She didn't like being pressed by the fat man.
It's a mistake.
She was stupid for three years after pregnancy. She couldn't go out to exercise at home, so she had to give him soup. It was so stupid.
"Yes, exercise! Why don't you get fat before you get fat, that..." Qin Ma looked around and pointed to the big box containing diapers in the corner of the wall, and said, "Starting today, you will carry it downstairs and upstairs every day... No, ten times, one at noon and one at night, and it will definitely be reduced."
"...Don't worry, I can save it anyway, what box I can carry."
Qin Guanglin would not accept this stupid suggestion, and he held a bowl and ate two bites of food, saying, "Diet, exercise, and do two-pronged approach. In fact, there is nothing wrong with being fat, it is even more intimidating. I'll shave my head..."
"Who do you want a bad deterrent? Who will you fight with?"
“…”
The incident in Hecheng left a deep impression on Qin Guanglin. He was kicked out when he went to his father-in-law's house for the first time. He has been remembering it for several years. Qin's mother didn't know about it, and he didn't want to say it. Why don't you smile at me? Turning to Qin's mother and saying, "If there is a bad guy who dares to bully my daughter in the future, I will see that I won't twist his head off."
Deterrence is not used to intimidate others, but to protect the shell and protect yourself and your family from harm.
“…”
Qin's mother opened her mouth, and then remembered the news she saw and did not make any more noise.
There is a father who looks like he can twist his head off, and he is really good to Xiao Anya in the future.
Why don’t you smile pursed your lips, “Send her to Zhou Nan to study, no one can bully her.”
"no!"
Qin Guanglin immediately opposed it. There was a bad guy over there, and sheep were in the mouth of a tiger. This is not the case.
"Let's wait until she grows up, she's just how old she is now. As soon as she learns to turn over, she thinks about whether there are any or not, and eat."
There were ancient costume martial arts movies playing on TV, and the sound of fighting came out. Three people gathered at the table and were talking about dinner. Little Anya was sitting in the children's car and gnawing on her fingers. The little bell on her wrist made a slight sound from time to time.
After the meal, Qin Guanglin packed up the dishes and went to the kitchen to wash, wiped his hands clean, and discussed with Qin's mother about going back.
"They are very good now, and there is no need to take care of them. I see you are so idle here, why don't you..."
"I'm going to drive me away?"
"Hey, where is it... If you didn't stare at the TV every day when you sit on the sofa every day, would I be the case--"
"Then you talk to me more." Qin Ma didn't want to admit that she wanted to go back and think about it for a long time, so she argued.
This is the hardest thing to deal with. Why don’t you want her to go back, but you are afraid that she will drive people away. Qin’s mother also wants to go back, but why don’t you think she is tired of serving her and hiding back?
Qin Guanglin also had to take the blame on both sides - the nominal blame.
Anyway, it’s enough for everyone to be comfortable. Qin Guanglin doesn’t care about the mess. It was difficult to get her husband between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, especially when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were in harmony. This was not difficult. He grinned and said, “When I didn’t get along with him, my mother and mother-in-law, we had been together for more than 20 years, so how could we say so much? Didn’t I both paint in the studio?”
Qin's mother smacked her lips and said nothing. Originally, when the mother and her mother lived in their own house, they just said a few words every day during meals.
"I can take good care of them, you don't have to be so busy... It's time to enjoy the life you want to enjoy. I don't have money to tell me, really, we can see that you are not as comfortable and happy as you are here, and you don't have any peers talking together or anything else-
Now you want to live whatever you want, don’t worry about it, do whatever you are happy, don’t have to tie up here to serve your daughter-in-law and granddaughter... If you miss her, come and see. We can go there even if we have nothing to do. There is no need to stay here. One day in the future, you don’t want to live there or are too lazy to move by yourself, I will take you over and enjoy your happiness.
Now they still need someone to take care of, so it’s enough to have me alone here…”
Qin Guanglin did not hide it. There was no need to be foolish between mother and son. If Qin's mother said that she wanted to support her old age, he could serve three women every day. When his daughter grew older, why would she take care of the elderly with him? But obviously Qin's mother's heart was not here, she was just led by her granddaughter.
Who loves to serve his daughter-in-law if he can live his life happily?
"You guys..."
Qin's mother was puzzled. Others wanted the elderly to take care of each other every day. If they didn't come, they would be criticized behind their backs: their daughter-in-law would hide from taking care of her if she gave birth to a child...
This kind of thing accounts for a large proportion of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Some pregnant women can remember the attitudes they show towards their mother-in-law during their childbirth for a lifetime.
Why is it completely different here? Times have changed?
"If I go back, you have to take good care of my granddaughter."
Chapter completed!