Chapter 233 The Fleet Visiting Japan (4)
"Political Commissar, are you okay with me?" Although Qin Zhengji is not in the army now, the veteran officers are still used to calling him political commissar. Moreover, Ouyang Longxing was once a subordinate under Qin Zheng's direct command, so he respects Qin Zheng as a result. When he heard that Qin Zheng was looking for him, he hurried to Qin Zheng's office.
Qin Zheng nodded, pointed at the sofa, and smiled and said, "Ouyang, sit down, don't be so polite. It's not a business for me to come to you today. It's a bit of a personal matter, so you don't have to be so restrained." Then he called the secretary to pour a cup for Ouyang Longxing.
Ouyang Longxing was also a little strange. He didn't know what private matters Qin Zheng had when he asked him, but he still sat on the sofa as he said, "What private matters."
Qin Zheng said: "Ouyang, you are already 34 years old this year. I think you are not young anymore, but you haven't started a family yet. Have you ever considered starting a family?"
Ouyang Longxing then understood a little. It seemed that he wanted to introduce himself to a partner and said, "This is not yet. You see, my job has just been on the road, and I haven't had time to consider personal matters." But he was thinking in his heart that he didn't know who Qin Zheng would introduce to him. He knew that Qin Zheng had a daughter, but he had married long ago. The children of Xia Bohai, Xiao Jianjun and others who had a relationship with Qin Zheng were just born, so they would definitely not be the ones in this circle.
Qin Zheng said: "How can you do it? Although career is important, family is equally important, and family and career are not contradictory. After getting married, the two people support each other and can do their career better? Are there any suitable partners now?"
Ouyang Longxing said: "Not yet, you know that it is difficult to find the right person in my working environment now!"
Qin Zheng laughed and said, "I have a candidate. I don't know if you are satisfied or not. In fact, you know this person, Gao Jin."
Ouyang Longxing was stunned and said, "Mayor Gao?"
Qin Zheng said, "Yes! It's her. Although she is two years older than you, you two are considered to be of the same age. They have been together for a long time. I heard that you are pretty good and know each other. You should be very clear about what kind of person she is, so I won't say much. In short, if you can form a family, not only can you take care of each other in life, but also support each other in career, it should be very good."
Ouyang Longxing really didn't expect that the person Qin Zheng would introduce would be Gao Jin. It should be said that the two of them got along well during the Jinzhou War. Ouyang Longxing also had a good impression of Gao Jin. He was smart and capable. He was very capable in commanding and dispatching and executing, and he was not without delicacy. After spending a long time together, he talked about some private matters, which was quite a bit like an old friend. But Ouyang Longxing really didn't think about marriage. It was mainly because Ouyang Longxing was born as an armored soldier. He had basically been on the bench in the previous few years. He finally seized an opportunity during the Jinzhou War. He was determined to achieve some results, so he did not consider personal issues at all. Of course, age is not a big problem in a man's marriage, so Ouyang Longxing was not in a hurry. He always thought that as long as his career improved, marriage could be solved at any time.
But Qin Zheng made it clear, Ouyang Longxing really thought about it seriously. His age is indeed not young, and his career is still somewhat successful. It is time to solve his personal problems and form a family. Although Gao Jin is two years older than him, he is within the reasonable age gap between men and women. Needless to say, Gao Jin's career is also considered to be among the top, and his mature temperament is definitely something that can be taken away. Of course, Ouyang Longxing does not have to find a young and beautiful daughter of a wealthy family. Therefore, as a marriage partner, Gao Jin is indeed a suitable candidate. Moreover, Ouyang Longxing also knows Gao Jin's family, which is the first family among veterans. Both officials and businessmen have great power. If he really forms a family with Gao Jin, it will definitely be of great help to his future career development. In addition, Qin Zheng has face.
After all, Ouyang Longxing is not a young man. Although he can't use marriage as an exchange of interests, he must first figure out the benefits of marriage. After calculating it clearly, Ouyang Longxing was not much pretentious and said, "Political Commissar, you have said this step. I have no objection, but I just don't know what Mayor Gao's attitude is."
Qin Zheng laughed and said, "Of course, the man will express his opinion first. It is impossible to talk to the woman first. It's okay for you to have a banquet, so I can go over and talk. You can go back and wait for the news first."
Of course, Qin Zheng was not good at coming out on Gao Jin's side. Although he was an elder, this was a proposal for marriage to the woman, so Zhou Ping could explain it clearly when facing Gao Jin.
After hearing this, Gao Jin's first reaction was also unexpected, but he immediately realized that the family's arrangements for the past few days were intentional, so he kept them alone. However, after listening to Zhou Ping's advice, Gao Jin could understand the family's good intentions, and after the last fall, Gao Jin did not want to have any conflicts with the family. Therefore, Zhou Ping advised her that even if she didn't think about her, she would have to do it for her two daughters. Is it necessary to just take her two daughters alone? You must know that a complete family is very important for the healthy growth of the children.
This sentence really touched Gao Jin. Bi Jing's age was considered old even in the old time and space, let alone this era, so he began to seriously consider Zhou Ping's proposal.
If you think about it seriously, Gao Jin also felt that Ouyang Longxing was indeed a suitable partner. After all, there is really not much room for choice now. Ouyang Longxing is about the same age as himself, has a career aspiration, and is also a soldier. In fact, Gao Jin is not a single, but he has too high vision and refuses to put the bottom standards. Until now, although Ouyang Longxing is not Gao Jin's most ideal partner for marriage, he is also above her bottom line and is acceptable. Therefore, after really passing this village, there is no such store.
Of course, Gao Jin also calculated the benefits that the two could bring to herself after forming a family. After all, at her age, she certainly did not have many romantic fantasies about marriage. It is impossible to only talk about feelings but not reality. Although the Gao and Liu families are called the first family of elders, with many people in the family, and now they are developing at the same time in both political and business lines and have achieved considerable achievements, there is a major flaw, which is that there is no one in the army. Although East China has a set of rules of conduct, which is not bigger than fists, if there is no connection in the army, there is still one missing.
If Gao Jin and Ouyang Longxing formed a family, it would undoubtedly make up for the biggest shortcomings of the family. Although Ouyang Longxing is only a division commander now, the East China ** is still in a war period, and all soldiers have room for development. Moreover, Ouyang Longxing has performed well in the past two years, commanding the Jinzhou War and the Mongolian War two wars with a large scale, so the future can still be expected. From this perspective, the combination of the two still has huge benefits.
Gao Jin is not a little girl. After weighing the pros and cons, he agreed readily. After both parties agreed, the matter was basically settled. Of course, the two parties still have to meet again and communicate in person. After all, they have their own requirements for marriage, so of course they should make it clear first. However, there is no need to bother Qin Zheng again when they meet. Gao Jin and Ouyang Longxing are both adults and know each other, so they can make an appointment with two people to meet and talk to each other.
Moreover, this time we met was indeed a bit awkward. After all, the two were colleagues and friends before, but this time they were lovers. It is impossible to say that they were not embarrassed. Therefore, it is best to solve the problem between the two. It is a little awkward, but there is no outsider present, which is less embarrassing, which is also conducive to the two changing their identities.
Of course, both of them are adults and have strong self-control. Therefore, after a few words, the atmosphere eased. So both of them adjusted their mentality and officially confirmed the relationship between the couple. They quickly reached an agreement after marriage. Now both of them have their own careers, and no one will give up their careers after marriage. On the one hand, they have to support each other in their careers, and on the other hand, both parties have to spend some energy to take care of their family. After all, the family is composed of two and two parties, and both parties also need to work together to manage. Of course, the situation must be treated in harmony. Ouyang Longxing is a soldier and cannot take care of the family like an ordinary person. Gao Jin also said that it is understandable.
Gao Jin adopted two daughters, and this time they planned to take them to Chenyang to live with him. Ouyang Longxing also expressed his support, and promised that he would treat these two children like his own daughters and raise them with Gao Jin.
The last and most realistic problem is that the two of them have their own children. Although they are both older men and women, they are not too big. Even if they form a family, having children is an unavoidable problem. Of course, this mainly depends on the woman's attitude. After all, the children have little impact on the man, so before getting married, you must make it clear. In response, Gao Jin said that he did not force ignorance, but he did not pursue a child who had to have a biological daughter. Everything should go with the flow, and at the same time he should also take into account the situation of the whole body. Ouyang Longxing also expressed that he respected Gao Jin's choice.
In this way, all the issues were reached, and the marriage between the two was officially confirmed. At the same time, they decided to register for marriage immediately. After all, both of them were not young, so even if they were decided, they would not delay.
Chapter completed!