Wen Tingmei began to seriously think about her marriage. What exactly is it like?

Of course, the answer was not found so quickly. The first thing that came to the child’s first year banquet.

The child is one year old for the three families, but because of the differences between small things, Xiao Hai's performance made Wen Tingmei feel a little cold...

Before Wen Tingmei's thirty-first birthday, when she sat at home for dinner as usual, she said in a calm tone: "Xiao Hai, let's get divorced."

Xiao Hai was eating and said, "Are you confused? Can you just talk about divorce?"

After a while, Xiao Hai looked up at Wen Tingmei with a calm expression, threw away the chopsticks, slammed the door and left.

After deliberately exploring three years before marriage and living together for two years after marriage, Xiao Hai actually knows Wen Tingmei more well, but he believes that Wen Tingmei just has damn artistic cells and always yearns for something unrealistic!

After that, it was noisy... it was noisy...

"I can't agree to a divorce!"

"Absolutely impossible, even if you are separated!"

"Don't think about this possibility anymore. Even if I sue, I don't agree!"

“…”

After a month or two, on Wen Tingmei's 31st birthday, the two walked to the civil court.

"I thought about it carefully. When I watched some TV series saying 'inappropriate', I always felt that the girls in it were pretentious, but in fact, inappropriate means inappropriate. It is really difficult for two people who have completely different views to live together."

Even when she went to court on her birthday, Wen Tingmei was calm and her tone was calm. Although in fact, she and Xiao Hai had been arguing for many days for divorce.

Although the trial date is the same as my birthday.

Although Wen Tingmei is exhausted and just wants to get rid of her as soon as possible...

"Isn't this pretentious? Life is different from falling in love between two people. There will be food, food, food, salt, and trivial things. Do you have to get to the point of divorce?" Xiao Hai's attitude was very firm: "I can't agree to a divorce!"

"Xiao Hai, you know that I don't mean that, and we really don't need to keep it up. You can find a better and more suitable one, not a literary woman like me who you don't like." Wen Tingmei's counterattack was very peaceful.

Xiao Hai decisively said: "Impossible!"

"What's wrong with me? You can tell me, we can all change it together. How many years have we been married?"

"And there is nothing wrong with us. Every man will use some means when pursuing a girl. This is understandable, but it is not a question of disagreement in terms of values!"

"Just because you like music, I don't like it? Just because you like to go out for a walk? Just because I don't want to go with you?"

"Yes, I don't want to support my family. I have no place to rely on. I have to keep achieving success so that I can live better, and you and children can live better."

"In addition, I clearly say that I cannot agree to a divorce, or even the division of property, I also disagree. My mother is old and cannot accept such a blow."

"I can't accept the failure of my marriage!"

“…”

Xiao Hai said a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, in one breath, but he didn't even notice the central idea he expressed. There was only one - refusal to accept failure.

Some things are just nonsense.

For example, when it comes to property division, Wen Tingmei just wants to get back what she deserves. The real estate certificate contains her Wen Tingmei's name, which is half what she exchanged for with real money and silver, so she deserves it.

And in another part, child support should be fought for according to common sense.

Wen Tingmei was silent for a long time, looked at Xiao Hai and said.

"You are right, just because I like music and I like going out for a walk without any trouble. You don't like it because I'm a literary second!"

"I just don't like living a life like you, I can't accept you like that!"

"Yes, you can pursue a girl with means, but you can't pretend everything to be intentional in order to pursue a girl!"

Xiao Hai sneered: "As long as you can successfully get you, what does lie count as a result?"

"What's more, after I did these things, did we enter the palace of marriage, and the rest... haha, it's nothing more than excuses for the losers!"

“…”

After listening to Xiao Hai's cold voice, Wen Dingmei said quietly: "Actually, you don't like me, you just like to chase me."

Yes, Wen Tingmei spent a marriage together before she realized how Xiao Hai felt about her.

In layman's terms, this is how touched you, but you didn't find the truth. It's not necessarily true that Xiao Hai likes Wen Tingmei.

In fact, Wen Tingmei felt that what Xiao Hai liked was the process of successfully chasing her Wen Tingmei and getting married to make up for the peaceful rejection in her teenage years.

Such a marriage is terrible and cannot be accepted by Wen Tingmei, and it cannot be done for a minute or a second.

Even if she never gets married again in this life, she cannot live like this. She is not a thing, but a human being, and has thoughts.

Moreover, she is becoming more and more afraid of living such a life. It is not scary to refuse to fail, but what is scary is to refuse to fail.

Hearing Wen Tingmei's words, Xiao Hai suddenly became hysterical.

"Even so, what's wrong with me? After getting married, there will be a result. With the result, it is natural that there is no need to put in too much energy."

"For example, if I pulled a customer and sold all the cars to him, I wouldn't spend too much energy on maintenance. This clearly wastes resources! Right?!"

"And, Wen Tingmei, I tell you, I know very clearly who I am. I, a person who climbed out of the countryside, could see the mud on the soles of my shoes."

"What I want is all those tiny successes, just like, in high school, I knew I could only study hard, so I obviously like playing basketball very much, and I also rejected the basketball game invited by the sports committee member."

"You said I was wrong. I don't even think about things that were impossible to succeed. What I can pursue are things that I am sure of. I will work hard for a business that will definitely be successful in one order, and I will work hard to successfully grab a small business for the opponent, but I will not touch those big orders."

“Because I know who I am, I am just rejecting myself for failure within an intolerable range!”

"I have worked hard for a long time to stand in front of you! I think this kind of effort is enough!"

"Even so, I still spend a lot of energy to make you accept me! I will pretend to like music and love travel!"

"Is this wrong, too? Tell me?"

“…”

Wen Tingmei suddenly smiled: "You are right, I am wrong."

"I'm wrong. I forgot all the high school life I can't remember even when you mention it again and again. At that time, I clearly made the right choice, but insisted on making the wrong thing later!"

"I'm wrong. Even if you appear by my side every year, two years, I still don't have any interest in you, and I will agree to try it with you."

"I was wrong. I knew you had a completely different idea of ​​dealing with things from me, but I still thought this was a common problem for us girls."

"I was wrong. I didn't feel anything about you, but I gave you a chance!"

"I was wrong. I was afraid that I might not be able to get pregnant when I was old, but when I realized that it was wrong, I did not dare to abort the child and decisively drew a clear line with you!"

"Xiao Hai, I have never liked you, not at all, because we are really different!"

“…”

Xiao Hai laughed and asked gritted his teeth, "What's the difference?"

"Yes, no matter when, there are people around you. When you were in high school, you were very arrogant and didn't care much about anything. You can also play the piano. In a county that is not very open, the piano is a rare thing, you can!"

"Even a boy who expresses his feelings to you seems casual and doesn't care about it!"

"Yes, to you, Xiao Hai is a high school classmate who is so ordinary that he forgets in the blink of an eye. However, Wen Tingmei, I got the opportunity to be with you through my own efforts and got married to you."

"It's me! It's me, the result of hard work!" Xiao Hai said, pointing to his nose.

"It's not something you give it to!"

"Now, I can still work hard to prevent my marriage from failing! What's wrong with it?!"

"Marry, I won't divorce!"

"It is even more impossible to divide property! Even if you want to live out, even if you go to court with me twice or three times, I still say this, it is impossible!"

"I, Xiao Hai, will definitely not accept the failure of my marriage!"

"Don't think about it!"

“…”

From the beginning to the end of hysteria, Xiao Hai knew that it was actually an irreversible result, but he simply expressed his meaning directly.

If you don’t accept the failure of your marriage, you can see that Xiao Hai doesn’t care so much about whether there is Wen Dingmei in this marriage.

He just hopes that things have been on the track of success, even if they have failed where they can't see them, he doesn't care so much, as long as they can't see them directly.

He, Xiao Hai, a rural person, has worked hard for so many years, and he has carefully defined the boundary that can refuse failure every time. He never dared to cross it. The same is true for marriage, so how can he accept it!

Finally, Wen Tingmei gave in another step: "I don't want the child support."

“…”

From nine o'clock in the morning to eleven forty-five noon, the judge sentenced the marriage to be terminated before the recession...

In the end, Xiao Hai himself became confused and there was no evidence that he was responsible for this marriage, especially when he encountered a fierce attack on the court.

Wen Tingmei was very calm and attacked her marriage with a hideous face, and showed some evidence that Xiao Hai was irresponsible for the marriage, especially Wen Tingmei's lawsuits were legal or even concessions, and she did not want to leave the house in a TV series.

And, the judges and even Xiao Hai's lawyers saw that Xiao Hai was actually just refusing to fail, not refusing to divorce itself...

When he came out of the court, Wen Tingmei waited for Xiao Hai and said quietly:

"I also failed. Our children will grow up in a single-parent family like me. This is very different from the life I expected and it is also the future I have always wanted to refuse."
To be continued...